Throughout a person’s life, they may experience many things that shape them to what they are today. In my life I have gone through many experiences that play in a factor in shaping my character. The most significant event that affected me was hearing that my dad was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I remember everything very clearly as a child, I was always confused at why my dad couldn 't walk me to the bus stop or play catch with me. My parents did not tell me what my dad was diagnosed with up until I was about 13 years old, as I would have been confused if told earlier. It was a warm summer day, I was about seven years old; I was outside playing soccer with my brother. My brother was 12 years old, and always looked after me. We were bored of playing the same game, and we decided to find one more person to join the game in order for us to have fun and play it correctly. We went up to my …show more content…
This experience in my life has helped me realize just how precious good health is and how we should appreciate it every day. Nobody should take anything good that they have for granted, and I always tell my friends to appreciate the fact that they can have both their parents with them at all times. Although MS is a life altering disease for not just the person, but the family members as well, I appreciate the fact that this disease has taught me how posses an immense amount of good qualities. It has also taught me to love someone regardless of whatever health issue they may have, as they are still the same people they were before it. Life will continue to throw things my way. but because of this experience I know how crucial it is to keep going, and bare with the problems I may be faced with. As life is not perfect, problems are inevitable. Many people may experience such things however, “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” -Friedrich
“Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and the grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward. ”-Henry Ford (Economy, Peter). Building character is like climbing a ladder, as you accomplish your goals, you ascend to another step in life.
“Elie feels remorse after his father died.” In night by Elie Wiesel, jews were torchered for their faith in camps by nazis. A young man who’s life was flipped upside down because of this ended up being the only survivor in his family. He faced so many challenges that altered so much but in the end did he values life more, he has greater respect for life, and tries to show us what he went through so we can think the same. Sometimes certain experiences cause people to alter their ideas about what is valuable in life, in other cases, these experiences may, in fact, solidify what people value.
Helen Keller once said "...although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it." This quotation means that in life, you come to find yourself in many struggles, but there is always a sense of accomplishment over such problems. The reason I agree with this quote is because such triumph can only be accomplished after the fact of the occurrence of a struggle. The realistic fiction book, Speak, by Laurie Halse Anderson, is a perfect example of my interpretation of the quote. The author uses conflict, figurative language and characterization to show that this quote is true.
As a child I was very fortunate to have a family like my own; my parents were truly happy and wholly in love. I was incredibly close with my siblings and still am today despite our little fights. Along with being close to my siblings my father and I had a great relationship; most people who knew me would have considered me a “daddy’s girl”. Growing up my father was remarkably proud of my grades and who I was becoming as a person. Oftentimes he would brag about me to anyone who listened.
Many people face life-changing events and experiences that impact their lives and their countries. Melba Beals from “Warrior Don’t Cry” changes African Americans students’ education. Feng Ru from “The Father of Chinese Aviation” changes his country’s transport. Jackie Robinson from “I Never Had it Made” also makes it possible for African Americans to play professional sports. Melba Beals, Feng Ru, and Jackie Robinson all face life changing experiences that impact not just their lives, but also their countries.
Expectations, confidence and self-expression are major areas in my life I learned through a tough experience which occurred during my sophomore year. During this time, I was dealing with my grandpa's hospitalization as well as bullying from my so-called "best friends. " Both had major effects on my life. My grandpa was in the hospital because he had fallen while in the shower, and hit his head, resulting in bleeding and brain damage.
People's individual experiences can shape the way they respond and interact with each other and their environment. Experiences such as falling in love, the death of a loved one, growing up in a harmful environment may change people's perceptions of life and their individual conceptions about the meaning of life. Some people experience horrid experiences and are inspired by these experiences in better themselves and make their lives the best in order to achieve their ultimate goals. Others may have equally bad experiences but may choose to follow a different, less successful path filled with actions and emotions which end up instigating Moore harm than good. The choices people make in response to their experiences exemplify their individual mindset.
When times get tough and adversity is thrown at you like a curveball all you can do is stay positive and know to never give up. Unfortunately I have had to deal with a couple scenarios where I have been faced with adversity. I have had to overcome my parents being divorced, and a family member who has overcame a drug addiction. That was one of the hardest things I was ever faced with going through middle school, but knowing that there will always be a tomorrow and to not give up on someone has had a positive impact in the end. It has brought my family closer than we have ever been.
I have experienced many situations and endured a multitude of experiences throughout my life. It is through these experiences that I have been able to learn a great deal about myself. Since I was young, I have always set astronomically high goals and expectations for myself. This was largely in part due to the strong upbringing from my parents, who taught me what is right and wrong, and instilled very strong personal values, along with a continued ideal of community service. These values helped forge me into who I am today.
Michael Phelps, a professional swimmer, once said, “There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits,” (¨AZ Quotes¨). This quotes shows that throughout one’s journey they will eventually have to go against many obstacles, and have to find a a way to get through them.
Perseverance Is it possible to persevere even if life throwed in the toughest problems? The quote, “when life gives you lemonade, make lemonade” is easy to say, but when one goes through things that put their life on the line, it’s difficult to not give up. Yet, many people still stand on their ground no matter what. The articles, “Life Without Limits,” “The Lost Boys,” and “Wheels of Progress” wrote many scenarios that display perseverance in different ways. These people showed perseverance because they were different from others, had to survive or face the discrimination in their country.
Most transformative moments in life can be caused by the smallest of occurrences in life. Often people do not even realize that a pivotal moment in their life is happening. Someone may realize when they are mature enough that there was one special moment during their childhood that ultimately determined their lifelong goal. For others, they probably realized an “aha” moment right when it happened and from then on decided that they knew what they want to accomplish later on. I actually have taken from both sides of the spectrum from realizing that one special transformative moment but also not even knowing that it would end up steering me towards my current career choice.
It’s difficult to pinpoint a specific moment in one’s life in which your life is transformed. We often realize that this moment is so signingagent when looking back on personal experiences and don’t realize it at the time. For me, this moment occurred when I realized that I had taken what I love most for granted. It all started back in 2004 when my family suggested that I get into a sport at a young age.
In our life, there are periods of challenges that we must face, but the real challenge is how we grow and learn from overcoming them. Being naive children, we believed that life was simplistic and effortless. Well, we were wrong, we can only yearn for life to be easy. Growing up, we continue to face countless hurdles that only get bigger and bigger. My life, in particular, has been filled with numerous up and downs.
There are many incidents one met in life that change the whole concept of living. Similarly I had an incident which not only change my vision towards life but also to the words you speak and how much they hurt someone enough that you then regret of saying them. It was a very dull morning for me.