Similarities Between Cooley And Goffman

After analyzing the “looking-glass self” theory by Cooley and the presentation of “self” by Goffman, I believe both theories are very similar. In the “looking-glass self” theory, Cooley believes that an individual builds their self-perception based off of the daily interaction with other individuals. He also believes that the way individuals act or express themselves is influenced by the way other individuals view them as a person. Similarly, the “self” theory by Goffman also explains that self- identity is formed through our actions from everyday living and the individuals whom are involved. I believe that my self-perception fits into both of these theories. For instance, I always think before I act or speak based on how I feel others will perceive me. Another example include other individuals that I know whom will turn something into a joke when they face an embarrassing situation. Overall, I feel these theories share common information and ideas. I strongly believe that these theories apply to most individuals including myself. Many different aspects in our lives influence our self-identity.

B) I strongly agree that the first question that people ask me when I first meet them

When I turned sixteen years old, I had a very big sweet 16 party which is similar to the quince that people of Hispanic culture have. My parents then allowed me to make more decisions on my own, but it did not signify adulthood. When I turned eighteen years old, I moved out of my parent’s home and into my own apartment. This is how I celebrated the “rites of passage.” Overall, my American family did not have a traditional or formal way of celebrating the “rites of passage” like other cultures. We still have milestones that we meet as we make the transition from childhood to adulthood. Every culture has different traditions and practices that signify their transitions throughout the