ABSTRACT
Research reveals that six out of every ten Kenyan women are likely to be single mothers before they reach the age of 45. The increasing number of single mothers is drawn by the fact that more men are abandoning their traditional role as the providers for their children. In light of parental responsibility, the Children’s Act No. 8 of 2001 and the Constitution of Kenya 2010 are the main laws that govern parental responsibility of parents of children born inside marriage and those born outside marriage. Parental responsibility is simply defined as all the duties, powers, responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and the child’s property in a manner consistent with the evolving capacities
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Now, today in Kenya as a result of the many births outside marriage needs of children born in cohabitation unions are not met up adequately. This is because once cohabitation is over and one of the partners denies their parental responsibility towards their child, then the other partner is left to take care of the child alone. This is alternatively known as single parenthood. Single parenthood can be either man-headed families or female- headed families. In Kenya, the rights of children born out of wedlock and supported by single mothers is something that has long overdue gone unaddressed adequately by our laws. Statistics show that cases of female-headed families also referred to as single mothers are …show more content…
In contrast to the traditional concept of marriage and the family, today marriage is not considered as a priority to the evolution of a family. In support of this, very many children are born out of marriages. The question that arises from this scenario is whether a child born out of marriage is legitimate or not. In limelight to this, are the rising cases of unequal parental responsibility with the woman given an upper hand in raising her child while the man on the other hand is left ‘free’. Gender inequality especially in roles has been a huge tussle not only today but also was an issue in the early centuries which was greatly addressed by the Feminist proponents. Liberal feminists believe that woman’s domestic responsibility will place her at a disadvantage and therefore, responsibility.
Even as the constitution mandates that both parents have an equal responsibility in the upbringing of the child whether married or not, in practice this is not the same. Single mothers still face undue barriers such as orders for DNA tests by the court in the application of the law on equal parental responsibility. With regard to this, this study not only seeks to analyze the extent to which the constitutional provision on equal parental responsibility is being implemented or not but also looks into people’s reaction in conjunction to this
In Tina Miller’s, “Falling Back into Gender?”, the author explains how the role of men is different in many family households. Using studies and data retrieved from men who are experiencing early parenthood, Tina identifies the social norms that are associated with fathering. Through her research, she identifies the difference characteristics that a father posses: one being that of a masculine, strict father, and another being a “nurturing man” who is more sympathetic to the his children and serves as a stay home dad, spending times with the kids. Not only that but each has a mentality of wanting to share the responsibility and work that comes with taking care of babies. Throughout the article, Tina shows that although many young fathers have an incentive to care for their infants along with their spouses, eventually, what is expected for them through the social norm will eventually take its toll and fathers will go back to their typical duty as a man; to work endless hours and
Eye opener for every woman who is affected by secular lies, greed and the power of secular society, which affects the reduction of human life for the simple right to cancel. In the end, the evil designs of each driven by human greed for money and power. This amazing book is part memoir, part history, and more importantly, the story of how the family has changed since the 1960s. A former writer Cosmo explains how two people change the trajectory of the Women 's Movement by binding to the Sexual Revolution and the pro abortion movement in 1967, made the Roe vs Wade probably only six years later.
In her pilgrimage to fight for women’s rights, activist Margaret Sanger created a speech on a severely controversial topic not only during her time period, but during our present time period as well. While many firmly disagreed with her and still do, she did bring to light a major disparity between sexes and social classes. By vocalizing her qualms with the rights of women, mainly in the middle and lower classes, to decide for themselves if they wish to have children or not. By voicing her opinions in an extremely misogynistic era she made herself a totem in women’s history. Women do have a right to decide for themselves if they wish to have children or not.
Yet more than 40 percent of children are born outside of marriage in the United States annually (Unmarried, 2016). Replacing husbands and fathers with a welfare check has degraded personal well-being for all involved. Three quarters of means tested aid is issued to one parent
Because of these strict beliefs, cultural norms birth rates were down considerably compared to today, for many women wanted to await child birth; until they were financial secure or stable. Additionally, “we never read (or heard) about family violence and almost nothing about singlehood, cohabitation, stepfamilies, or one parent families” (Jones, ASID, IIDA, IDEC and Phyllis Sloan Allen, 2009, p. 74). However, in the 1970’s people began to expand their horizon’s, and soon ventured out to explore other cultures; causing challenges towards the social movement on their views of a traditional family structure. This is why, “since the 1970’s three of the major shifts have occurred in family structure, gender roles, and economic concerns” (Jones, ASID, IIDA, IDEC and Phyllis Sloan Allen, 2009, p. 74).
These unmarried women wants to “fulfill their noble tasks of motherhood”(p132). One of the motivation is they feel a sense of loneliness because many of them experience sentiments of insufficiency and uneasiness in a society surrounded by people who are in harmonious conjugal relationships(131). Moreover, even though numbers of “women are unlikely to marry, but “would need a child to take care of them in their old age” (132). A program implemented “encourage women to adopt an intensified focus on their bodies as the locus of their ‘femaleness’”(132).
Since the earliest times in history, women were treated inferior to men. From birth, she would face constraints on her economic independence, legal identity, and access to her property. These restraints would narrow her choice of marriage or spinsterhood. Her economic dependency was ensured by her father or husband, and women were not permitted to own land (Berkin 4-6). After she wedded, all of a woman’s rights and property became that of her husband's (Berkin 5-6).
According to the ideology of “republican motherhood” that emerged as a result of independence, women played an indispensable role by training future citizens. The idea of republican motherhood reinforced the trend, already evident in the eighteenth century, toward the idea of “companionate” marriage, a voluntary union held together by affection and mutual dependency rather than male authority(Foner
According to Nelson, “The most common was separation and divorce accounting to 62 percent of the mother becoming single” (Nelson, 166). Due to the feminization of poverty which means poverty being concentrated among women and coined by Diane Pearce. This is a reaction to not having enough support to maintain a family as a woman. Making it nearly impossible for a woman to keep a job because she would either have to wait until her child is of age to attend school in which she does not have to pay for and she has to find a job that will allow her to work while her children are away at school.
Such considerations fundamentally shape human life and family relationships. A women needs to be aware of the various psychological and social factors that contribute to the decision such as “that human parents, both male and female, tend to care passionately about their offspring, and that family relationships are among the deepest and strongest in our lives—and, significantly, among the longest lasting.” These key intrinsic goods- in this case factors such as human life, parenthood, and family relationships- are ultimately worthwhile are not to be taken without due
Being a moral scold about the fecklessness of a single mom, one who cannot adequately provide for the needs of a child, doesn’t do anything to solve the problem. (Not to mention my mantra: she didn’t do it all by herself.) We are sailing into the unexplored territory of couple-hood. Notwithstanding the lessons taught by Frank Sinatra in the once popular ode to “Love and Marriage,” it turns out he was wrong: you can have one (love) without the other (marriage).
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