For a long time, identity has been a socially and historically constructed concept. Individuals learn about their identities through interacting with peers, organizations, institutions, and family. The daily connections that people make in their lives are known to have a significant impact on the construction of their identities. Gender, social class, age, ethnicity, and race determine the key facets of identity in the society. The elements play critical roles in shaping how individuals understand and develop the opportunities they face in the society. Social and cultural identities are inextricably linked to society 's value system, power issues, and ideologies. Over the years, the world has devised various ways to help understand how identities …show more content…
One of the virtues that my parents instilled in us is the need to respect each other and treat all people equally irrespective of their background, social status, and race. Their interventions have played key roles in ensuring that we grow as people of integrity, honor, and value the family system. In my culture and Islam there are certain roles that expected by the people in a family. The father must be wise and must know what’s best for his family. He is the provider; he should provide what is needed by the family. A mother has a more emotional role in the family. She takes care of the children and raises them to become responsible people in society. The brothers usually have a role in helping the father and the sisters usually have a role in helping the mother. These are the roles expected by Islam. However Islam is 1400-year-old religion. So it is expected that some things do change. With times changing, more requirements are demanded. Prices are going up, and having only one provider is not enough. Here is where my cultural identity overlaps with my Islamic identity. In Islam it is conventional for the mother to only take care of the family and basically just be a stay at home wife. Her only job is to cook clean and take care of the children while the husband is working in order to provide for the family. Now with the change in culture it is unconventional for that to happen. Both the father and mother provide for their family. My family stressed that while the society relegates particular duties to particular genders, it would be ideal if we were able to develop skills for both genders and learn how to meet our needs irrespective of the presence of another gender. By doing so, our parents enabled us to see the potential of each of the genders, rather than associating other people as weaker or stronger gender. Today, I do not perceive certain roles to be
The book talks about how men are the breadwinners of the family and that the females are the nurturing kind. For my family alone, it is mostly females and therefore they had to work hard to be the breadwinners. I have never seen them be the stay-at-home mom and take care of the children. For my family, the roles are equal. If it is a mom and a dad, they both work, they both clean, they both take care of the children and they both take care of the finances.
Identity speaks of who we are as individuals but it also comes from two different groups: social and cultural. These groups are connected to power, values and ideology. Social identities are related to how we interact with people and how we present ourselves. Meanwhile cultural identities relate to society in whole such as religion, values, etc. In this paper I will talk about the dominant and subordinate identities.
I am an international student from Vietnam who came to the United States to pursue higher education. I was brought up in a very unique culture and family traditions, and this has had a strong influence on my beliefs and mindsets. Together with all the experiences that I have been through so far in my life, I have formed some social and personal identities that I might or might be aware of. Such identifies are an important tool that can stay with me and remind me every day of who I am and my origin.
These evident members are the Father, the Mother, and other siblings whether adopted or blood related. The father's main role in a family is to lead the others by example in events like public forums, as well as being able to cultivate, grow, and develop the wealth and resources of the family. The mother’s typical role in the family is to keep the father inspired and motivate him to come up with new ideas that propel the family to progress and development. It is her responsibility to keep track of the family’s wealth and resources, as well as make sure every member of the family is feeling comfortable at home. Most importantly in the Ibo society, it is the mother’s job to love the father, cook his food, and of course keep the house spotless.
Abstract Being an aborigine in a white dominated society is a complicated identity. Australia, one of the white governed nations, also owns many aboriginal tribes. They lived harmonious lives in the early period. But European colonization has made a profound effect on the lives of Aboriginals in Australia, which led to the total demolition of their native culture, identity and history. As a result the new generation Aboriginals have lost their Aboriginal heritage and have been accepted neither by Aboriginals nor by whites.
Nowadays, anyone can be a stay parent, completing gender-neutral tasks. The role of housewives are no longer perceived to be “low on the totem pole” but a well respected, being the primary caregiver of the household. In addition, with the increased employment of both spouses, more people find themselves turning to housekeepers and nannies to perform all the same tasks as a housewife. Life is simply not a path we are forced to follow, every person has their own destiny in life.
In her conventional view, a woman must support her husband by creating an organized home and nurturing him. Women are not only in charge of doing the housework and childcare, but they have their own individual dreams they want to reach. It is discriminatory towards women when they live under the social expectations of being uneducated and a supported wife. From the textual support, it is evident that women struggle to reach their individual goals under a male-dominant society that require women to be
In a family there are many different roles; there's the role of the mother, the father, the child, the grandparents, then there’s the brothers and sisters. Every single one of those roles has different responsibilities. The father, according to most of society, is supposed to be the breadwinner for the family. However, nowadays the mother is actually quite capable of being the breadwinner just as much of as the father. As they work to show their children what it is to be an adult they are teaching them as well on how to be an active member of society.
Introduction The concept of identity has been a notion of significant interest not just to sociologists and psychologists, but also to individuals found in a social context of perpetually trying to define themselves. Often times, identities are given to individuals based on their social status within a certain community, after the assessment of predominant characteristics that said individual has. However, within the context of an ethnicity, the concept identity is most probably applied to all members of the ethnical group, and not just one individual. When there is one identity designated for the entire group, often times the factor of “individuality” loses its significance, especially when referring to the relationship between the ethnic
Each individual has their own different social identity. One’s social identity is constructed based on the different influences around them. The development of social identity is influenced by various factors such as the historical, cultural and religious beliefs of the society, community or family where one is brought up. It is influenced by the behaviours and attitudes of authority figures such as parents, teachers and community leaders around them, it is also influenced by external factors such as the media, one’s peers and the overall exposure one has (Carrim, 2006, p56).
In a usual family, there are set roles. A father, mother, and children. Stereotypically, each role is supposed to have a set job- the father is in charge of the family, making the rules, the mother cooks and helps the children, and the children play. This stereotype is slowly changing throughout the years, and some could argue that it is different for their family. One thing that should be true in all families, is that the parents are good role models for their children, leading them in the right direction in life.
In many societies and depending on their cultures, men and women are seen equally and may share the same roles in the household or even a stay at home father and the mother being the breadwinner. In modern family, Phil and Claire share the responsibilities with both working and both looking after the kids. The gay couple, Mitchell and Cameron who has an adopted daughter, together they learn what roles they should take on but not being gender specific when raising their daughter and the dynamics in the household. In many families today, dual earning families increased and not just the male who goes to work but females as well and follow their dreams like furthering their careers. “In the 21st century within households two pay-checks have become essential for most families to maintain even a modest standard of living in order to provide” (Walsh, 2012:11).
It is for this reason that Pinney, suggested that, identity build up is the most fundamental objective of a person 's adolescence, and "those who fail to achieve a secure identity are faced with identity confusion, a lack of clarity about who they are and what their role is in life” (Pinney, 1993). This brings out the fact that identity builds up and understanding is an inevitable and unexplainable. An understanding of identity an important aspect of crosses cultural communication, because it will help provide a guideline for communication interaction with others who have different cultural identity (Samorava , Porter, & McDaniel, 2009, p.
I believe that every family has their own roots, essence, uniqueness, beliefs and thoughts, some families have both parents, some just the mother, just the father, two mothers or two fathers, they might have an only child or two, or maybe 5 or even 10, therefore, those children start learning all these things from their family and surroundings, they ask questions, they imitate each other’s actions and are constantly learning and trying to catch as much information and experiences as possible. Children are growing fast, their parents are their role models, they learn mostly from them; parents have the tremendous job of forming good citizens that provide to society, healthy and happy beings that keep growing as humans in every stage of their
In today society gender roles have changed, most mothers work household are shared though not shared equally. For instance, in today, a man can assemble the furniture, and women find themselves with the duty of cleaning it. Nevertheless, the marriage type does not determine the duties or roles to be taken by the man or the woman, but the gender roles agreed upon by the two spouses depending on their schedules or even other factors like financial status of a spouse that means the responsibilities are not specified to any gender (Eileen,