Application: Applying Theoretical Interventions for Clients Experiencing Life Transition
The Plot of the Movie the Story of Us
15 years of marriage Ben and Katie Jordan are at a fork in the road with their marriage. The consequences of a moment of weakness, and a host of suppressed issues in the marriage have the couple questioning the future of their relationship.
The Developmental Issue
Although the marriage is strained in part due to Ben the husband, sharing a kiss with another woman, as well as discussing the problems of their marriage with the other woman. It is apparent that there are unresolved marriage issues. The issues range from distrust, unhappiness, critical of one another, a disconnect within the marriage, communication issues, and an overall lack of understanding of each other’s issues, wants, needs and desires. In a nutshell,
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Part of my rationale for selecting this therapy, is that during the movie the entire time I was thinking that although their issues are significant I did not sense that as a couple theory were so far beyond repair of the marriage. My thinking is that Solution Focused Therapy would be beneficial in not only helping to deal with the current issue(s), but helping the couple become more effective in dealing with future issues.
I would redirect Ben and Katie focus to the strength and positives of their marriage, along with each of their desires. Solution Focused Therapy realizes that the solutions may not be directly related to the problem (Gehart, & Tuttle, 2015). As I watched the movie I notice many strengths in the relationship that somehow were lost in the strain and issues of the marriage. I would imagine that often in a relationship it is easy to become focused on the issues, and lose sight of what brought you together as a couple in the beginning. The couple clearly has different views of the problems in their
The novel Pieces of Us by Margie Gelbwasser is the story of sisters Katie and Julie, and brothers Alex and Kyle. In this book, the two families visit a camp called Catskills every summer. Before the summer starts, Katie is raped by her then-boyfriend and his best friend because she was too drunk to say no. They recorded the whole thing, but kept it a secret from her. But once school is over, both families head out for Catskills.
After the many years of people trying to figure out how to solve relationship problems I think Deborah Tannen finally hit the nail on the head with her article SEX, Lies and Conversations. In her article, she wrote about the biggest issue in a marriage, COMMUNICATION!!, and how to solve it with three sub points. Tannen begins by informing the readers of the issue and explaining how both male and females feel about the topic. This was a very important thing Tannen did because to help someone the need to be aware of the problem first. Tannen starts off by stating that men and women learn their different styles of communication as children.
This therapy is not focused on what happened in the client’s life, but how the client
Solution-focused therapies are established on the method of reasoning that there are exemptions to each issue and through analyzing these exemptions and having an unmistakable vision of a favored future, customer, and advocate, together, can produce thoughts for solutions. Solution-focused specialists are competency and future-focused. They feature and use customer qualities to empower a more compelling future. It differs from Interpersonal therapy because this therapy is most normally utilized on an individual premise to treat dejection or dysthymia. Interpersonal therapy concentrates on a man 's interpersonal connections.
In my opinion, couples that are willing to change in effort to make their relationship work do so out of love and the desire to be with the other for a lifetime, which may not be that awful a
Despite being a married couple, it is obvious that the
Turning the boy meets girl formula upside down, this screwball comedy The Awful Truth, provides the perfect balance between comedic relief and anti-heroism. Produced and directed by Leo McCarey in 1937, the movie was based on the popular play by Arthur Richman. This comedy utilizes divorce as a gateway into the personas and character development of the film's protagonists, in order to help the audience recognize how they truly belong together. At a time where money was limited, divorce was definitely frowned upon. This juxtaposition created by the film is useful as it creates an escape for the audience into a comedic world.
Every single relationship has its own ups and downs, especially when the couples have absolutely nothing in common. Keeping
How Much is Worth Sacrificing for “Love”? Everyone regardless of difference in age, nationality or sex, is entitled to pursue individual wishes. This means no one should have the right to oppress another, even if they are bound by love. The Joy Luck Club, written by Amy Tan, tells the story of the relationships and personal accounts between four Chinese mothers and their American-raised daughters. Despite the clear cultural barrier dividing these mothers and their daughters, one issue is apparent in both societies.
Abstract This paper focuses on person-centered therapy. Person-centered therapy is an approach to help individuals develop a sense of self. This therapy is different from others as the client is responsible for improving his own life, not the therapist. However, it is important for the therapist to create a conducive environment for the client so that the client feels safe and secure and will be at ease to share problems or issues during therapy sessions.
This type of therapy comes with set of goals that help establish and create intervention. Goals that reinforce the client’s personal motivational statements of problem recognition, desire change, and confidence in ability to change. Keeping in track at what stage the client is in the changing process. Moreover, it is important to provide affirmation in way of supporting the client’s choices and will in changing process. Motivational interviewing should be used as client-centered counseling therapy where clients find their way to change.
,1986). Solution focused therapy (SFT) aim for all individual to solve their problems in a manner that do not bring harm or cause emotional
Introduction After the Advanced Skills Facilitation course, I had learned many counselling skills in group counselling and different settings of group counselling. Also, it provided a lot of exercises for us to practice group counselling sessions. Thus, there are many things that I can make a reflection on it.
The novel is the drama of inner mental conflict of Jerry Conant who wants to decide which among these two women will make his life the happiest. This quest of hero for an ontological freedom finds him entangled in the mundane domestic relations from which he wants to relieve. He wants to be free from all the social constraints he has due to being married. Marriage has been summarized by Kerry Ahearn for her excellent argument as: Marriage is enforced by the ceremonial code and notarized by the contractual law, but confirmation of one’s existence requires passion, and passion demands freedom.” (P. 62)
Sarah and Ben were both widowed and found love in each other even though they were both in the seventies. They found love and companionship in one another, so they decided to move into an apartment together to share the rest of their years as a couple that chose not to marry because of financial concerns. If Sarah gets remarried, she will lose her social security pension which would change her financial situation. The decision not to marry does not change the fact that Ben and Sarah love one another and enjoy a healthy sex life (Thiroux & Krasemann, 2015). Although Ben and Sarah are happy, their family does not agree with their arrangement.