The novel that I have been reading for my ISP is Someone Like You by Sarah Dessen. The second half of the novel continues to take place in Lakeview, a suburban neighbourhood. During the beginning of Halley, the protagonist, and Scarlett’s junior year, Scarlett finds out she is carrying her deceased boyfriend’s baby. Halley must now take the initiative in supporting Scarlett, while she continues to have problems with her mother, the antagonist, and must deal with her new boyfriend and troublemaker Macon Faulkner. There are multiple main conflicts within the second half of my novel. One such conflict is person vs. self. Halley, for the first time ever, must learn to support Scarlett and herself. The second main conflict is person vs person. …show more content…
When Halley was in middle school, she was best friends with her mother;however, as Halley has grown up they have become increasingly distant. Halley has even started to resent her mother. This is confirmed when Halley says, “‘my mother is driving me nuts...I almost killed her on the way to school today’”. (Dessen 105) Their relationship is changing because Halley is now an adolescent and wishes for more independence and trust. Her mother, on the other hand, wonders why “ [Halley] can’t just listen to her [her]” and why Halley “can’t understand that [she] might be right...might know what’s best”. (Dessen 238) I empathize with Halley because as I grow older, I want to start to make more decisions for myself and be able to rely on my own judgement. As teenagers, we just want to feel like we have some control in our own lives. Afterall, that is one way that we can find ourselves and be confident. Often times I feel like Halley when she explains to her mother, “‘ why don’t you ever wait a second and see what im planning, or thinking, before you burst in with your opinions and ideas? You never give me a chance”. (Dessen 245) I can relate to her sentiments because while I know that I am smart and make good decisions, I sometimes feel like I am not being taken seriously by my …show more content…
The novel emphasizes this through multiple ways. First, people are quick to make judgements and insinuate that the pregnant teen is stupid. This is evident when Scarlett says, “I know everyone will think I’m crazy or even stupid”. (Dessen 113) I think Sarah Dessen is being fair in the way she presents people’s general opinion towards teen pregnancy. Most people generally assume that the teen was being dumb for not using protection and getting herself into a difficult situation, but this was the opposite of Scarlett’s reality. Second, society thinks that a teen mother is foolish for keeping the baby. At a party, a girl tells Halley, “It’s funny that she’s keeping the baby...I’d kill myself before having a baby”. (Dessen 228) This makes me call my own actions into question if i ever found out that someone I know is pregnant. I hope that I would not be so rude expressing my thoughts, no matter what my opinions are. Third, society would agree that teen moms are ruining their lives. This viewpoint is presented by Halley’s mom who says, “she will [think it’s a mistake], later. When she’s tied down to a baby and you and all her other friends are going off to college”. (Dessen 121) This common perspective always ignores the teen mother who truthfully believes that they made the right decision, no matter the
It is a sensitive topic and may even not be accepted in society. The woman is apprehensive and does not know what will happen next if she does decide to get an abortion (Norton). The relationship between the characters shows that the woman depends on the man’s approval but also seeks acceptance and
The issue presented in this selection shows that Gaby Rodriguez is sick and tired of being expected that she will be a mother just like her mother and her older siblings. She was in honor classes and wanted to be the first of her family to go to college, everyone expected her to drop out of high school and not gradate unlike some Latina’s who would oppose the statistics by just doing well in school. She decided to fake her own pregnancy to get reactions and understand the stereotypes and what pregnant teens have to face. 2. Based on the information presented in this selection, do you feel this is an accurate account of the issue?
Thank goodness, she turned out alright. But I’ll never risk it again. Never! The strain is simply too - too hellish,” (36). Larsen uses words provoking anxiety and horror to give the reader insight into Clare’s mind when she thinks about pregnancy and motherhood.
Also, after the DCF pays Halley a visit due to an anonymous call about her prostitution, she starts to clean up her act by getting rid of her weed and making sure the room is presentable. It is clear that although these two women may fit profile of poor, careless young adults in the eyes of some, they still fiercely treasure their children and are very much in touch with their maternal feelings. Rather than the lazy, welfare dependent representation set by society, Ashley and Halley are shown to be making an effort to provide for themselves and their children as Ashley actually has a job and Halley resorts to selling perfume to tourists and prostitution as a last-ditch
The argument over a woman’s right to choose over the life of an unborn baby has been a prevalent issue in America for many years. As a birth control activist, Margaret Sanger is recognized for her devotion to the pro-choice side of the debate as she has worked to provide sex education and legalize birth control. As part of her pro-choice movement, Sanger delivered a speech at the Sixth International Neo-Malthusian and Birth Control Conference in March of 1925. This speech is called “The Children’s Era,” in which she explains how she wants the twentieth century to become the “century of the child.” Margaret Sanger uses pathos throughout her speech as she brings up many of the negative possibilities that unplanned parenthood can bring for both children and parents.
But there stood one in the midst of you, at whose brand of sin and infamy ye have not shuddered!”(Hawthorne). In the modern time if you are the baby daddy, everyone knows; there isn 't any shame to be the baby daddy. However, after he had confessed that he was the father, the town 's people thought he had gone crazy. To conclude, society is more accepting of: adultery, having a child, and being unmarried.
Sallie Tisdale describes an uneducated sixteen-year-old girl that doesn’t even know how babies are formed. It was not the girl’s fault for getting pregnant; she was raped (Tisdale 416). Knowing this, the audience, like the author, feels compassion for the girl. It would be unfair to the girl if she couldn’t have the abortion. The audience recognizes that although abortion is cruel, it is needed.
I am reminded of two sisters who found themselves in a similar situations to Jig and Sheri, with an unwanted pregnancy. The eldest of the two, in a relationship with man with the attributes of the American and the youngest with a man with the attribute of Lane Jr. The youngest decided not to have the baby because of her desire to follow her career path, as I believe Sheri did in "Good People". The Eldest chose to carry and have the baby despite the odds stacked against her, as I believe Jig did in "Hills Like White Elephants", they both were faced with a decision that would affect the remainder of their lives. The younger would wonder what it would have been like to raise and see the progression on the child she so willingly aborted and the eldest knowing that she made not only the right decision but also the best decision, to allow life to come forth because of love, which may be rocky but it is still
By using this point of view to portray how helpless the main character, Lane Dean, feels, readers will learn that entering an early parenthood is not always a good option for those who are young and unprepared because many problems and questions will arise. In Lane’s scenario, he does not know if he wants to keep the baby at first. Yet, his problems evolve to doubts as he begins to question his goodness, his love for Sheri and his faith in God. Therefore, the important message that readers can receive from “Good People” is the standards of becoming “a good person” are unknown because everyone has distinct views on what is right or
The subject of teenage pregnancy is an emotional and overwhelming one. Sitting with dozens of patients waiting for her preceding abortion a pregnant teenager glances nervously at the various signs with bolded phrases like, “Stop! Save your baby,” or “Choose Life!” written across, held by anti-abortion protesters outside the PPFA clinic door. They would be seen chanting the values of life and how “aborting” is defined as “killing” a future individual. In pro-lifers eyes, Planned Parenthood operates “inhumane” and “remorseless murders” on fetuses, throwing their body parts out of the clinic’s windows or selling them out for extra wages.
He said they might not want to sell it to me, but if I had ten dollars and told them I wouldn’t never tell nobody…” (202). She did not seem like one to be seventeen and pregnant, but everyone has a different side to
(paragraph 1) In just 2014 alone there were 249,078 babies born from teen mother from ages 15-19. 35% of those pregnant teens have chosen abortion, less than 1% gave the baby for for adoption, and 15% had a miscarriage. Scarlett’s mom had wanted her to give the baby up for adoption because she was also a teen mother and knew how hard it would be for her. Studies show daughter’s from teen moms are three times more likely to became a teen mom too.
Never having a boyfriend, she wants to be desired by men and worries that she is a lesbian since she does not look like a typical female. She tries to find a boyfriend since “[his] acceptance of [her] would guide [her] into...femininity,” but her plan to be accepted seems to backfire when she becomes pregnant by a guy she does not love (280). Marguerite hides her pregnancy until the baby is born because she is scared that others will not accept her since she is becoming a mother, something different that she has never been. Marguerite goes through her pregnancy alone, just like she feels like she has gone through most of her life (McPherson, 33). Once the baby is born, she is scared of hurting him but soon realizes that her motherly instincts will guide her.
right and I feel like there were ways to prevent these situations. When I see teen moms in public, I get angry. It just makes me mad, but then I encountered a friend of mine that was pregnant. She wasn’t a teenager, she was twenty years old when she confided in me that she was pregnant.
Teen pregnancy is a communal problem, a family problem, and a personal problem all rolled into one. It frequently goes hand in hand with premarital sex. Problems come when the news needs to breach each parent’s party. After which, these impressions simply serve no purpose but to put them off, and deduce to mere nuisance to them when the truth of their situation slowly sinks in. How do they provide for the child if their parents cut them short financially?