Am I blessed? Are you blessed? Are we blessed? Toastmaster of the night, fellow toastmasters and dear guests: I feel blessed, because tonight, I have the opportunity to share with you a few things about my self. Capital Letter R, Capital leteer P, put them together Romel Patangui, and that’s my name, I am 30 years old from Capas, Tarlac, Philippines. My father is Romeo Patangui, a retired factory worker. My mother is Merlinda Sangalang. Unfortunately, she left us when I was just about two years old. I have three sisters and two brothers. I finished my elementary and high school back in the year 2000 and 2004 respectively. I still remember those school days very well. Who wouldn’t remember? I was bullied from 1st grade all the way until I graduated high school, not only from my classmates, but also …show more content…
Before 12 noon, the CPA board exam result would be out and released. At that day I’ve also got back to work. Around 1 o’clock in the afternoon I checked the internet and searched for the results and found out that my name was not on the list of passers. I was so upset because I expected that I would pass. It feels like I wanted to die So, I went to the pantry of our office at the 11th floor of our building and attempt to jump out of the window. It was a failure! I can’t open the window, it was locked too tight. Around 2PM my Manager, called me to go to the warehouse for the weekly inventory. So I went back to my table to shut my computer down and as I was doing so, my manager asks me why the result was not yet out. I was shocked on what she said. I checked the result again and found out that I was checking on May 2009 result and not on October. It’s been a long day; I got home already around 8 in the evening that day and I immediately checked my phone which I intentionally left that morning. And to my delight, it was full of text messages. Congratulatory messages! Yes I made it. I passed the CPA Board
I looked different, and was treated differently. I was often bullied for who I was and thought the best way to make it stop, was to fit in. I started wearing similar clothing, walking, talking and acting like the kids around me. I had lost whom I was, was no better assimilated, and was still picked on. I had enough.
Now, of course I had APUSH at the end of the day. So it left me plenty of time to think about and become exhausted over the dread that was building up inside of me for just receiving back a test. I couldn’t focus in any of my classes, and didn’t think about anything other than “I can’t believe I failed.” The instant I walked into the classroom my knees almost buckled to the point where I collapsed. All I could do is sit in the corner with my hands on my head as Ms. Bradley said “Some of you did amazing on this essay!
I hate being the new student to new schools. Meeting new friends and new teachers, but I knew this place was not right not teachers or friends it was this school bully they told me. He didn’t care about you lunch money or that I am new but about how I look. He comes towards me and starts making fun of me and people just watching me get bullied and not even caring a thing. After that horrible first day of school, I finally got home and told my mom
Through out my first few years in middle school I was bullied. Just as Richter did I avoided and ignored the problems. Retreating into my “shell” and playing the victim is what made me feel safe. Yet, that still did not make
It's been decades since i was at the camp, but i still feel the effect to this day. I am Japanese American girl who is fed up with bad treatment because of the world war 2 and i am finally getting chance to take action. I received a call at work for me to testify on behalf the Japanese American internees. I'm living in Manhattan N.Y. And i received a call for the testimony and so now i'm preparing for it.
Students would make fun of me but what left a laceration on my heart, mind, and soul was when my teachers would say “you will never make it” and “you are retarded”. Teachers would exclude me from activities because they thought I wasn’t smart enough. Have you ever been lost and hurt at the same time? I was hurt and lost at the same time.
Our Differences is Something to be Proud about About 50% of kids get bullied in 4-12 grade by other students while about 30% bully others. Most people get bullied or have felt alone/ left out. People can feel this way anytime, but mainly during 4-12 grade. Everyone is different one way or another. Our differences are what makes us unique.
The four long year I had a lot of ups and down during this years. There were always amazing teachers. That were very helpful. There was so much to do in the middle school. Couple of my most memorable and amazing time at the middle school are when I made my best friends, made the softball team and want to gateway.
so you might wonder why I stayed there until I was 19, well I told you how it was at home but school life was way worse. you see at home the abuse was mostly physical, but at school, hah at school, it, was, Mental, top dogs think they are hot shit and to prove it they need someone to pick on, enter my brothers and me, I can 't speak for how bad it was for my brothers but they must really have stepped on some toes for boy did I inherit a world of torture. from both teacher and kids alike. it started small like most things do with the teacher arranging seats so that I had to sit next to a drafty window, which meant I always had a cold, next was never being picked for questions that I raised my hand for, and picking me for those that I didn 't, even if there was those who had their hands raised. now kids ain 't stupid they pick up on such things, and so I became a target, my grades dropped, which gave the teachers even more reason to pick on me, you get
Bullies are usually stronger and victims are usually perceived as weaker and unable to protect themselves.” (Masterson,1997) Bullying expands in many aspects of everyday life; from schoolchildren and teenagers, to adults , working environments and even spouses and family members. Considering that the first signs of bullying appear among schoolchildren, we should examine it in its infancy, that is, bullying in early years and school life, which in turn becomes with the passage of years violence and in some cases even crime. As far as bullying at school is concerned, “one definition is that a student is being bullied or victimized, when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time , to negative actions on the part of one or more other students.”
The Harsher Consequences of Face to Face Bullying Meet Rochelle, a previous student who told her best friend something very personal. Her best friend told everyone and kids from her school started bullying her. They would call her names and it came to the point where she stopped going to school, stopped eating, had to go to the hospital because she purposely cracked her head open on the sidewalk, and tried to hang herself. (“Stories from People Just Like You”, 22) Just like Rochelle, children all over the world get bullied face to face and never say anything about it. When faced with bullying, students are intimidated to go to school and feel unsafe outside of school, so they detach themselves from the world.
Bullying is prevalent social problem in today’s school environment. The July 2010 NY Time article “There’s Only One Way to Stop a Bully” by Susan Engel and Marlene Sandstorm. The authors stress the importance and awareness of bullying from parents, teachers, and students. Bullying is a very important social situation that must be stopped. In Massachusetts, teachers and administers are doing something about bullying.
Kids can be explicitly harmful with the words they say and find joy with what they say. Therefore the kid 's determined that they would target me. Although that year was excruciating for me, everything came out exceeding how I started the year. The faceless judgments started a half year into my 6th grade year after moving to Texas.
Bullying in Schools What seems fun and harmless for some students, is painful and degrading to others. Bullying has been a critical issue around schools, but before it was not as dangerous and know as it is now. These do not means bullying was not happening, it means it was not taken into consideration by parents or teachers. They thought it was just peer pressure or a kids game, and sooner or later the kids would be friends again. At one point, bullies think it’s normal to be mean and abusive to other students.
I didn’t tell anyone for a while. Not my teachers, siblings, or even my family. My parents still don’t even know. My other friends at that time never really understood that I was getting bullied but that’s because I didn’t tell them either. It was really complicated because whenever someone saw that I was down and they asked if anything was wrong, I would act like nothing had happened the rest of the day but inside, only I knew that I was being bullied in the sixth grade.