“Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.” ~ Norman Cousins (Singh). Many fear death and will fight tooth and nail to elude it. There are some who embrace death and live life to the fullest. However, there are some who fear life itself and fear all its trials and tribulations and would rather die than live in the life they were given. This is the case in the film Harold and Maude. Harold falls into the group who fears life while his companion Maude embraces it and lives her life with out any regrets. This essay will discuss death and suicide as well has how these ideas impact Harold and Maude throughout the film. No one knows when their time is up. It is not as if you can draw your death …show more content…
Although Maude to many would be considered eccentric and is looked down upon, she is what everyone should inspire to be. Looking for the good in everything in life, she lives with the idea that everyone and everything has a purpose and should not have to live their lives confined to red tape of rules and how one should act. From stealing cars and driving them recklessly to the point of almost running over a police officer to planting a tree in the forest in order to give it life again, she lives her life one second at a time. Even the idea of keeping minuscule items is confining to her. She would rather keep the memory then the item. Although her past is completely clear, the little glimpses into her life she why she is the way she is. In the movie when it flashes to Harold holding her hand and you see the tattoo on her arm, it is clear that she has been through a lot and at one-point face down death and that is why she lives life to the fullest. Although it was not confirmed, the tattoo is a clear indicator that Maude is a Holocaust survivor. After possibly being tortured, starved and threatened everyday with death, it is easy to see how she can find the beauty in everything after almost having it all taken away. It also explains why she is so content and accepting of her death because it was her choice, on her own terms and at her own
I believe that when people die, they go to a better place, where there is no pain. Death had no power over us, for Christ gave his life so that we could be free of sin in the eyes of God. Death is the one who is dead, not our loved ones. Slaughterhouse-Five Chapter 3 Quote Assignment
She is always kind to the children, but her character blends into the background as just another slightly guiding force. Her character is also extremely wise, due to her age, and she is always giving the children advice and knowledge, and it is usually extremely impactful and important, such as when she says “Mockingbirds don't do one thing but make music for us to enjoy. They don't eat up people's gardens, don't nest in corncribs, they don't do one thing but sing their hearts out for us. That's why it's a sin to kill a mockingbird.” (103) Some would argue that this quote, since it is a huge theme throughout the novel, is enough to make Miss Maudie’s identity important.
Randy Pausch, the author of the book titled "The Last Lecture" offers multiple insights on how to live your life to the fullest. He states in his book, “What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy?”. This quote made me reflect on myself and what I’m doing to make my legacy, which is the point of his lecture. The sole purpose of this book is to explain that worrying and complaining about dying isn’t going to help or make anything change, it would only waste precious time.
The only way that people can overcome death is to face it right
“Death destroys a man: the idea of death saves him.” This is a quote by the late English, modernist novelist E.M Forster. Death is an event that all life must eventually embrace. We live everyday under the precedent that death is inevitable. But it is under these rules that we begin to find meaning in our life.
Maudie and Aunt Alexandra provide their love, support, and advice for the children. Firstly, the first women that symbolizes as a mother figure
Nothing is truly ours, decease will always take it in the end. Life and death are entangled into the same eternal circle; you cannot have one without the other. A life lived in love and laughter makes expiry worth it. Rather than fear the end, use it as incentive to fulfill our dreams and wants. Honor our late loved ones though they may never know.
The reason why the majority of individuals avert their focus from death is understandable because death’s eventual occurrence reminds us of the finiteness of existence. While this fear and consequential disguising are understandable, it stunts the emotional progress of our society by not allowing for the acceptance of death, which is necessary for mature growth. Because of the emotionally painful nature of death, we hide behind calming phrases such as “passed away” or “went to a better place,” furthermore, many rationalize with death by accepting an afterlife which they may have previously denied. As Miller expressed in the New York Times article, One Man’s Quest to Change the Way We Die, “Parts of me died early on... And that’s something,
Steve Jobs once said "No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life.
Martin and Marsha’s lives are filled with worry. Although happiness and sadness in life should swing back and forth like a pendulum, for Martin and Marsha, pain is all they endure. They cannot depend on technology or other people to help promote happiness. Therefore, the hopes of death are the only speck of happiness they foresee. In their minds, death will cease their pain and bring forth the brighter future that was once promised to the people by the government.
When you hear the word death or you hear that someone has died today in the news or on the television I know a lot of people think “Man, I feel sorry for the family that they have to go through that.” or they thank god that it was not them or their family members.” Sadly though people try to push away death and push away the fact that everyone dies at one point in time. This is even truer when they witness their own family member in the hospital with a critical condition that the doctors cannot fix even with modern medicines on the doctor’s side. Another such time would be when a person’s family member is diagnosed with an incurable sickness that is fatal.
Wishing for death is contrary to living with her child, and the disparity between those ideas is strong enough to ‘rip out’ her heart. Even so, the woman still chooses suicide, demonstrating the complete and utter hopelessness she felt. Next, the man’s last conversation with the boy before he dies shows hope manifesting the sake of survival. Here, the man’s health is failing substantially and he knows he will soon die.
Death is welcomed by some, wanting the pain to be done. Some find it mercy, others call it cowardly. Death is diverse, across many plains death traverses. Death happens every day, death happens in different ways. Death is feared and death is revered.
However, it is important to face death and to be aware that face anybody close to you. The book is telling that death is something we cannot prepare our self for and that it is
I side with the idea that death is something to fear, without it would be a place of chaos and a corruption of the human