Being born into a certain lifestyle, unfortunately isn’t one’s choice to make. The life one is dealt, whether it is filled with luxuries or poverty, will impact one’s future and the relationships and decisions they will make. Although some are born into an advantageous life, with money, parents, and a planned future, others are left with the struggle of putting food into their empty bellies. The demanding life that the less fortunate live, is showcased in Dorothy Allison’s novel, Bastard Out of Carolina. Growing up as a Boatwright took a heavy toll on Bone. Developing into a young woman while living under strenuous conditions and being raised by poor role models, played a part in her mentality and the relationships she formed throughout the entirety of the book. …show more content…
Since she was born, Bone has suffered an unusual and difficult life, and it all began when “ILLEGITIMATE” was stamped on her birth certificate. Bone is born a bastard child who is left with no biological father, and a broke 15 year old mother to raise her. The absence of a father figure in Bone’s life and a loving spouse in her mother’s life, Anney, influences many of the decisions she makes with her new “father”, Glen. The sexual and psychological abuse that Bone receives from Glen leaves both emotional and physical scarring. Bone’s choice of keeping this a secret from her mom and family is a result from her need for love from a father and her strong love for her mother. Bone wanted her mother to be happy and for that to happen, Anney had to be with Glen. Bone’s relationship with her mother was so strong she was willing to give up her innocence for her happiness. Bone’s decision to keep the abuse a secret was also a repercussion to her longing for a fatherly love, to do so she replaced her missing father’s desolation with Glen’s
Anney, as a 16 year old single mother fears for her daughter as she already knows of the preconceived views that will be thrust upon Bone. As the Boatwrights continuously move from place to place trying to find work all the while dodging debt collectors, Bone’s mother reassures to her daughters, “We're not bad people. We're not even really poor. Anybody says something to you, you keep that in mind. We're not bad people.
Sandra L. Bloom, author of “Trauma Theory Abbreviated” states, “...a coping skill that is useful for survival under conditions of traumatic stress can become a serious liability over time”. Unfortunately, these coping skills were not an option for Bone Boatwright. In Dorothy Allison’s Bastard Out of Carolina, Bone Boatwright is left with almost no coping strategies to help her through the traumatic events that she underwent as a child. In the novel, Bone experiences trauma through various social contexts. Most importantly, impoverishment directly affects Bone’s relationship with her family, friends, and herself.
Poverty is the extent to which an individual does without resources. These resources can be financial, emotional, mental, relational, knowledge of hidden rules, and spiritual. In order to for a person to leave poverty, it is necessary that the individual can be confronted and concern with his current state of life. Flannery O Connor gives us a good example of how poverty (or lack of resources) affects the humans’ decisions. In her story Parker´s Back, Flannery O Connor uses the theme of “poverty” by the description and mannerism of her characters, but also by using a casual-register story structure.
Dinah had zero interaction with any other girls her age throughout her childhood. “I wanted to cry, but I realized that I was too old for that. I would be a woman soon and I would have to learn how to live with a divided heart.” This quote illustrates the resilience of women and emphasizes their ability to adapt and overcome obstacles.
Developing a better understanding of ourselves and those around us is a critical turning point during the transition from child to adult. In the novel Please Ignore Vera Dietz by A.S. King, the protagonist Vera is a struggling teen with a mother who abandoned her, a best friend who died in a tragic accident, and a serious alcohol addiction. Vera comes of age when the influences of adults and love cause her to gain an understanding of herself and those around her, which she lacked before. Adult influences give Vera a greater understanding of her mother’s actions and her own.
All of the characters in these books all have suffered life whether or not life was thrown harder at them nor softer. All suffering from something in particular, either it’s loss of identity or finding identity through out the book. Identity by experiencing hard times through death, divorce. And other challenges through her lifetime.
Her book describes the hardship and struggle she faced growing up in Little Rock and what it was like to be hurt and abused all throughout high school.
Her courage to follow her heart for the one she loves so very deeply. Her change towards the end of the book was all influenced by
Grabbing Bone by the arm, he slammed her body on the wall and dragged her into the bathroom to lock the door and beat her with his belt. When he unlocked the door, after hearing Bone scream in agony, Anney slapped Glen across his face before rushing to assist her daughter. As she holds Bone in her arms, comforting her after the cruel beating, she utters, “Oh, girl. Oh, honey. Baby, what did you do?
Her grandma tries to warn her when she first meets Glen about the trouble he could be, but she ignores her saying that her granny doesn’t know him like she does. Glen and Anney get married, and Glen becomes quite skilled with hiding what goes on behind closed doors with Bone. He is not afraid to openly abuse her in front of Anney though, who then does nothing short of yelling. Glen grabs Bone drags her into the bathroom, and slams her shoulder into the frame. Anney cries for him to stop, but does nothing to stop him from beating her daughter (Allison
Later when Bone is living with her aunt her mom comes and tells her that she chose Glen over her. Anney chose Glen over her own daughter. She betrayed her for
The character development of people varies between each individual. It depends on a person’s strive for the betterment. Some people are afraid of change, but development is something different that attracts the eyes of society. In Louisa May Alcott’s “Little Women”, Amy March undergoes the least amount of character development in comparison to her sisters. Amy portrays stubbornness, irresponsibility, and selfishness throughout the novel.
The character development of people varies between each individual. It depends on a person’s strive for their own betterment. Some people are afraid of change, but development is something different that attracts the eyes of society. In Louisa May Alcott’s “Little Women”, Amy March undergoes the least amount of character development in comparison to her sisters. Amy portrays stubbornness, irresponsibility, and selfishness throughout the novel.
The book is written from her point of you, but somehow I still didn’t get to understand her character that well. As the story progressed, I didn’t feel her character develop. Despite the lack of character development, I connected to her because of the decisions she made. I felt that I would probably make similar choices if I dealt with the stuff she had to go through. 2.
She took her perceptions of post-war life to create the cause and effect’s of Archer’s circumstances.