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Summary Of Guyland By Michael Kimmel

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In Guyland by michael kimmel one big topic that comes up is how men are constantly afraid to express how they feel because they don't want to be rejected . One of the main reason that people are scared of rejection is because they feel as though there idea will either be shut down. Or they feel as though they will be judged hardly for it. Young men also are afraid to be criticized and laughed at that's another reason why it's hard for them to express themselves. When a man in guy word has an opinion about something or an idea, they sometimes don't express it because they don't want to get rejected. One example of this was in “Bro before hoes” At the end of this chapter Michael Kimmel talks about guys being violent and aggressive. in one

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