The Panorama documentary “I helped kill my daughter “ follows the trial of Kay Gilderdale, a mother who is accused of “attempted murder” having assisted her sick daughter, Lynn Gilderdale, to die.
Lynn Gilderdale had been ill with a severe form of ME for 17 years. Lynn was diagnosed at the age of 14 and had been paralysed from the waist down, fed through a tube and barely able to speak since the age of 15. Having been in hospital over 50 times during her painful illness and suffered from a number of auxiliary illnesses such as osteoporosis, broken bones, liver dysfunction and hyper dysfunction.
In 2008, at the age of 31, Lynn ended her life by taking a morphine overdose with the assistance of her mother. There was no evidence presented
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Kay had cared for and watched her daughter suffer every day for 17 years from a disease for which “no-one had an answer, no magic cure”. Both mother and daughter had hoped that one day Lynn would recover but as time went on and Lynn suffered from auxiliary illnesses it became clear that this would not happen. Kay saw how unhappy and frustrated her daughter was with her quality of life. In assisting in Lynn's death I believe Kay was respecting her daughter's wishes and decision to end her life. What she did for her daughter was out of love; to end her …show more content…
However, Kay speaks of her shock of when her daughter asked for her assistance on the night of her death and how she tried to dissuade her
To assist your child to die would surely be the hardest decision any parent would have to make. You would be torn - it goes against your natural instincts to protect your child and not let any harm come to them yet you would want to do whatever you could to stop their pain and suffering; heartbroken at the thought of losing your child; helpless and fearful in that your actions could actually cause your child pain in the process of dying and once you had made the decision to act there would be no going back. Yet ultimate love to let your child go.
If I was in Lynn Gilderdale's position I too would want to end my life. I would hate to be a prisoner in my own body with no quality of life. I would not want my loved ones to have to care and watch me suffer indefinitely. I would want to escape and free myself from that painful existence and release my family from the
Terminally ill patients lose control over so many aspects of their lives, in many ways physician-assisted death gives them back some of the control they lost. Illness is not discriminatory. Therefore, people of all ages and backgrounds are diagnosed with things like cancer, kidney failure, and heart disease every day. Also, for anyone who is unfortunate enough to be diagnosed with any terminal illness, it can feel like their disease controls every aspect of their lives and they have no choice in the matter. Authors for the Journal of the American Society on Aging Lee Combs and Grube describe how persistent pain took control of a young woman named Brittany Maynard’s life, “Even after undergoing a sophisticated surgery and numerous cancer treatments,
Mary “Lynn” Reiner a 27 year old mother of four children. Paula Prince and Mary McFarland tragic deaths were all simply from taking a Tylenol. On September 29, 1982, that morning 12 year old Mary Kellerman complained to her parents of a sore throat and a runny nose. Her parents gave her one Tylenol. She died before 7a.m.
“Mob Wives” cast and crew have recently mourned the loss of one of their most beloved ladies. Big Ang died a tragic death due to cancer but before she passed on, she celebrated being cancer free. A few months before she passed away, Angela Raiola, also known as “Big Ang”, celebrated the fact that she was given another chance to live, cancer free, after beating her battle with throat and lung cancer. "I 'm so happy that I 'm cancer-free," Raiola, the niece of a New York gangster said.
Can you imagine going through long battle with a disease only to be told that you have only 6 more months to live. All of these thoughts and questions start running through your head and you feel like you’re dreaming or having some sort of out of body experience. Being diagnosed with a terminal illness is unimaginable, emotional and physically trying. Cancer is the number one leading cause of terminal death in the United States, to put that into a better perspective one out of every four deaths is cancer related. That’s about 564,000 deaths annually and 1,500 deaths per day.
Huttmann’s argues in this essay that the person should have the right to choose to live or die if they are suffering from a fatal illness. And the author’s purpose within this essay is both personal and social. The essay starts with one of the audience of the Phil Donahue show shouting “ murderer” after Huttmann shares her story about mac , a cancer patient. Huttmann wrote this interesting introduction so she could draw the audience and show the effect of feeling of justification throughout the latter portion of this essay. That introduction leaves the readers curiosity about why are the people calling her mean names.
Assisted Suicided Every 16.2 minutes, there are people in the world that take their own life by killing themselves.(Purity, 9) There are are over 40,000 people every year that commit suicide.(Purity, 10) Suicide is the leading cause of death for those of the age of 15-24 years old.(Purity, 13) However, coming up in the media through the last 20 years has been the idea of ending your life by assisted suicide. Assisted suicide is the practice of ending someone 's life.(Newton, 7) A terminal illness is when you have a disease that will end your life within the near future.
While in the music business she became friends with Patsy Cline, who is also a great singer. Cline helped Lynn cut her way in and through the country music world. When Patsy Cline died in a plane crash Lynn told Entertainment Weekly, "When Patsy died, my God, not only did I lose my best girlfriend, but I lost a great person that was taking care of me. I
Savannah mother charged in murder of 4-year-old daughter I wish it can be more understanding to how one can take the life of an innocent child. Another local mother here in Savannah, Georgia has taken the life of her child. Melissa Thacher of Savannah shot her four-year-old daughter and self inflicted herself with gunshot wounds.
The documentary, A Death of One’s Own, explores the end of life complexities that many terminal disease patients have to undergo in deciding on dying and dignity. It features three patients, their families, and caregivers debating the issue of physician-assisted suicide or pain relief than may speed up death. One character, Jim Witcher has ALS and knows the kind of death he is facing and wants to control its timing. Kitty Rayl is suffering from terminal cancer and wants to take advantage of her state’s Death with Dignity Act and take medication to terminate her life. Ricky Tackett, on the other hand, has liver failure and together with his family and caregiver agrees on terminal sedation to relieve his delirium and pain.
Carol M. Bundy Carol M. Bundy was a ruthless serial killer. In her early years Carol M. Bundy was young kind and beautiful. Not many people would have thought or even believed that she would become a serial killer. She was kind too everyone she knew she helped people however when her mother died she became very nonsocial to everyone her mother’s death hurt her very badly. It eruct her hard she lost her mind completely.
Wishing for death is contrary to living with her child, and the disparity between those ideas is strong enough to ‘rip out’ her heart. Even so, the woman still chooses suicide, demonstrating the complete and utter hopelessness she felt. Next, the man’s last conversation with the boy before he dies shows hope manifesting the sake of survival. Here, the man’s health is failing substantially and he knows he will soon die.
“Death with dignity is a human right: to retain control until the very end and, if the quality of your life is too poor, to decide to end your suffering; the dignity comes from exercising the choice.” says Jason Barber, whose wife, Kathleen Barber, died in his arms. He had one question in mind when she died. What was he going to say if someone asked him how she died? Whether she went peacefully? He decided to tell people that his wife died in peace, without any pain or suffering.
More American die in hospital than anywhere else . Thirty percent of care is a waste. No one wants to die or face death . Patient are signing do not receive order because they 're tired of suffering In the film Facing death Karen has been in a ventilator machine for five day her family has decided to keep her off life support.
Involving a medically trained ethicist to provide family members with some guidance on this very difficult decision can be helpful. In the article, “When living is a Fate Worse than Death”, Christine Mitchell describes a sympathetic, emotional look into the life and death of a family’s little girl.
Imagine being unable to walk, unable to speak, unable to move and unable to breathe. Imagine being in a state of complete paralysis where the only thing that keeps on functioning is your brain, and you live chained to a machine doctors call life support. Imagine being told that you have an incurable disease that will inevitably kill you. Maybe next month. Maybe next year.