“Human experience, for centuries, has been synonymous with masculine experience with the result that the collective image of humanity has been one sided and incomplete. Woman has not been defined as a subject in her own right but merely as an entity that concerns man either in his life or his fantasy life” ( Singh-7) The male centered view of human life, which goes on to privilege one gender over another, has led to an inability to work towards a holistic development. An increasing awareness of the injustices done to women gradually gave rise to the feminist movement The woman is the backbone of a family. Though, men considered to be the bread winner of the family, without women a family is incomplete. In India, the women were …show more content…
The novel can be called as a semi autobiographical work. The story tells us how marriage becomes a potent weapon in the hands of man in controlling and vanquishing woman to live in her own space. The story moves from innocence to experience. In the novel she has evidently dealt with poignant observation on Janaki’s life in Maraar family, and terminates in a wise and a balanced view of life. Janaki the protagonist in the novel is brought up in Delhi, but rooted from Kerala. When she was 16, she met Arjun. He was a cricketer at the local school. They became friends and slowly the buds of love started to bloom between them. However, it took a shoddier turn, when her parents discovered their secret meetings. They dithered the secret relationship. Mindset of Janaki’s parents’ reflects conservative Indian parents who consider that pre-marital love as a social evil and it destroys younger generation. In addition to that, they believe love in young age is a great sin. Soon they shifted to Kerala to get her married to Suresh who was handpicked by them. Janaki wedded Suresh, for her parents’ wish. Suresh listed out few conditions on how his better half should be, but the contradiction can be observed in the marital expectations of Janaki. She accepted this life for her parents’ desire. Moreover no one was willing to ask her opinion about the Marrar family or the …show more content…
Janaki’s in-laws granted her permission to go ahead with her graduation unenthusiastically. She sacrificed her love for Arjun, for the sake of her family happiness. She tried her best to get merged to the new ideal life. Suresh was not interested in the family matters and was quite talented in the art of escapism. He always looked forward for the betterment of his business. He never enquired to his wife about her happiness. This shows that he has no esteemed characteristics of a better half of a woman. Maraar family was a typical, traditional family, where everyone was fighting for affections and acceptance. She was forced to resent her Delhi background. They out casted her from all household duties and discussions. Few years rolled by but the family remained the same unconcerned manner, particularizing the plight of Janaki. Janaki hoped that the arrival of child might change the family’s attitude towards
The uncle introduced Mr.Chhay to Ma and proposed that Sourdi be married to him because he is financially stable. I can totally relate to this because my parents were arranged married and they expect the same for me as well. They believe that love marriages end way before they even start. It was the beginning of the end.
Adnan’s and Hae’s relationship in high school was a story of love where both loved each other. At first, they had all love for each other and both went to prom together. As the relationship aged, it started going downhill for both of them, both Adnan and Hae started to see the struggles in their
Watching the movie of Odyssey makes me realize of what great love is. Odyssey makes me realize that love is not much an inevitable ending as it is the beginning that will happen. It is what you do with what you begin that helps to determine your future. So we must design and pursue our destiny. We prove that promises is not made to be broken.
By far, this confrontation has been the worst, and out of all people, her dad was the one to call shame upon her. Unable to count on her father since he is relentlessly selfish, she take matters into her own hands; going as far as to fornicate with the doctor as a substitute of money Her brothers; she cannot count on them either, Vardaman is too young to understand while Jewel thinks is better than everyone ones and is not part of the family and does whatever he
As Anu said, "The only person taking care of my child was Sanjay and occasionally a grandma from India. " This made Anu Rode feel very bad because she felt like she did not take enough care of her daughter because Sanjay would take care of her. Because of these challenges and hardships, Anu had felt like she had to give up, but Anu decided to make a different, harder
Regrettably, she was forced to commit a suicide. For her entire life what she imparted was unbelievable, as the responsibility of the household should be privileged and
Since the dawn of time, man has always pondered whether women were equal to men. Questions about women’s physical and mental abilities have come up in every society and although every outcome is not the same, the general consensus was that women were the inferior gender. Because of this assumption women, as a whole, have experienced maltreatment, injustice and equality. In the United States, there have been instances of small movements here or there, for voting or for equality.
As women, centuries ago, they have always been expected to do a certain things throughout their lives, such as being around their children the majority of the time or maybe just maintain the house. For all this time, society established a sort of misplaced control over their lives. Recently, however, this has changed; a new generation of society was born which started to accept women for who they are. Many women fought for their rights as well as a change of living for not just themselves but for everyone. Now, as a new dawn breaks, women can be seen in the seats of power and responsibility which they were wrongfully denied for generations.
Prior to the rise of these activist women were expected to marry, cook, clean, and birth children. All these things were seen as traditional values and a societal norm. However, as time went on more women started to challenge these norms and bend the boundaries. The rise of women rights activists inspired many women’s dormant voice was to speak volumes. It left many people uncomfortable and surprised.
In a patriarchy society where males are the narrators and voices being heard, one is rarely educated on women struggles. In the Western world gender is a construct made to keep one group superior and the other inferior. Gender concerns what it means to be women or men in society. The traditional notion of gender is acknowledged to not be defined the same all over the world. The general concept of gender is challenged
With the rise of civilization also came the rise of patriarchy-based societies and the slow decline of the importance of women in society. For the longest time the history of the world has been written by men who have been the head of the patriarchy and have forgotten the role of women in history. It is important to realize that women do in fact have a place at the table with men when it comes to importance in history, and are not just the ones cooking and serving the meal. It is women who tasked with raising the next generation. By looking at women of the past, people of the future can learn and evolve to fight oppression and gain their own power.
While reading the story, you can tell in the narrators’ tone that she feels rejected and excluded. She is not happy and I’m sure, just like her family, she wonders “why her?” She is rejected and never accepted for who she really is. She is different. She’s not like anyone else
Patriarchal Oppression Since the 19th century women have always been treated differently than men. Feminist analysis is the examination of the different standards of a woman 's role in the social empowerment. Throughout centuries, women have been stereotyped as these stay at home “slaves” to take care of their husband and children. The patriarchal oppression often led women to suffer from physical and mental disorders.
The issue of women’s rights and how different societies and cultures deal with it had been on the table for many centuries. In the United States of America during the 1800s, women began to move toward and demand getting equal rights as men, they decided to speak up and fight for their stolen rights. In the 1960s, continued working toward their goal, women broadened their activities through the women’s rights movement which aimed to help them in gaining their right to receive education, occupy the same jobs that were once titled only for men, and get an access to leadership positions. The women’s rights movement has a great impact on women today, although it started a long time ago, but it did not stop and women are reaping their fruit today,
During the 1890’s until today, the roles of women and their rights have severely changed. They have been inferior, submissive, and trapped by their marriage. Women have slowly evolved into individuals that have rights and can represent “feminine individuality”. The fact that they be intended to be house-caring women has changed.