The short story "Just Be Yourself" by Stephanie Pellegrin tells the story of a girl named Lily who faces the pressure to fit in with her new high school friends. She likes being unique and independent, but when she starts high school, everyone seems the same. Her best friend even starts to change her looks and personality to fit in. Lily is confused and feels like she has to decide between fitting in or being true to herself.
Throughout the story, the author uses Lily's character development to show that it's important to stay true to yourself, even if it's not popular. The author also uses emotional words to make the reader understand how Lily feels. When Lily's best friend changes, the author makes Lily feel confused and sad, which makes
Lily's creativity, activated by religious observance, allows her to be more creative. Later on in the passage, when Lily describes her outward expression, she notes that “[She] wanted to cry, but in the next instant, [she] wanted to laugh” (Kidd 71). Through the use of juxtaposition, Kidd carries out an image of Lily about to sob until she suddenly starts chuckling. By using the diction of “cry” and “laugh,” two words that completely differ in emotion, Kidd shows that the religious statue made her recall events of her past, truly making her analyze the type of person she was. Religion allowed her to have the trait of being self-aware allowing her to forgive herself for her past and move on because she knew that the religious statue could see good in her.
I Just Wanna Be Average Mike Rose talked about his high school education and everything that went along with it. He starts off talking about how he was accidentally placed in vocational education due to a mix up of him and another student with the same last name. Although Rose was quite intelligent he was forced to sit in classes that were simplified and did not challenge him. Due to this fact he spent the first two years of high school paying more attention to the people around him than to his actual school work. He talks about each of his friends that shared the vocational classes with him and how they got into trouble and how they steered him in the wrong direction.
Lily’s idolization of her mother is shown in how she describes Deborah’s belongings. A photo, which she see’s her mother's beautiful, gloves that Lily holds as if it were actually hers, and a photo of the black Mary which she keeps close. Right before Lily finds out T. Ray was right in saying Deborah left them Lily says she never believed him and she wants to prove him wrong. Characters with flaws are a lot more sympathetic and likeable to the reader instead of the perfect flawless unrealistic ones. Kidd got the reader to understand these flaws with how August tried to explain the situation to Lily, “All she did was cry for a week.
Three characters who have changed really stand out, Lily is one. Lily has changed a lot from the beginning to end; she had some prejudice buried inside her in the first few chapters. She said, “August is so intelligent, so cultured, and I was surprised by this. That’s when I knew I had some prejudice inside me” (Kidd 78). Throughout the story Lily was able to cope with the loss of her mother.
Lily leaves the person who makes her life miserable, her father, and finds a new family full of goodness and love. Her desertion of the old life she had lets her have happiness. It is not too often that being rebellious and unlawful will lead to greater joy and a true family, but this novel illustrates the idea that there will be times when you must look at the big picture of life. In certain cases you will have to solve problems and follow your heart. You have to work at having a good life, and whatever is required to make that happen should be a
Lily’s mother was stripped of her limits by Lily’s father and her sense of independence was gone. As Lily’s mother said, the more she accepted her husband's apologies, the more her tolerance for the abuse went up, which ultimately resulted in Lily’s mother being somewhat of a villain while her father was alive. Lastly, Lily’s dad plays the role of an antagonist perfectly as he shows the reader what a negative force looks like. Lily continuously shows the reader of the book the violent temper and the mental and physical abuse that they had to encounter with Lily's father.
Her father, whom she loves, never shows any affection for her, and she has reason to believe that her mother, whom she so desperately wants to have loved her, abandoned her before Lily accidentally killed her. This complicated relationship to love leaves her without a clear idea of whether love can be a positive force in life at all, and she reaches the extreme, negatively charged opinion that the fiery passion of love destroys the world. Later in the novel, when Lily learns that love is not only about rejection and longing, her opinion of love softens a great deal, although she never recants on these poignant, passionate
Lily feels that these words were directed to her and felt like a bad person for the mistake of killing her mother. In a newspaper written by The Newcastle Herald, a statement stands out to the resemblance of this book and what the author is trying to show. As it states, “Lily finds solace in the guidance of the senior sister August, who holds the key to her past and slowly the rhythm of a new life with its funniness and sweetness is born…” THis helps to support my statement that Lily’s happiness and funniness grows when meeting and spending time with these girls. This was just the thing the young girl needed because at the time, Lily was feeling deep guilt for her actions.
Continuing, another theme that led us through Lily’s adventure of growing up was her discovering how important storytelling was. She was going through gruesome horrid things, and when she read things like Shakespeare she realized how important it was because it helped her escape to a fantasy world for a little bit of time. Lastly, Lily learns the power of the female community. Lily grew up without a mother, so for a large chunk of her life she didn’t know the real power the female community held.
Throughout the book Lily revisits her memories of their time together by reading through her old journal entries from when she was a teenager, which help make sense of her current relationship with
There’s no shame in saying I’m not the person I want to be. But there is shame in not facing who we really are” (Hoover 88). This quote shines a light on the importance of self-awareness– traits that Lily develops as she begins to confront her past traumas. Through her journey, we see how her father’s abusive behavior affects her perception of what love is supposed to look like, and how it influences her relationships with others. In addition, while she and Ryle are having a discussion, Lily mentioned to Ryle, “Just because someone hurts you doesn’t mean you can simply stop loving them.
In the end, Lily realizes that she has a family and she does not need her
Throughout Lily’s life, she had encountered a lot of harsh punishments, feeling unloved and not appreciated. Finally, after years of torment and pain, she finally found a lady named August who knew Lily’s mother very well. August actually helped Deborah many different times in life. Lily even opened up her eyes to things that she wouldn’t of before. She realized that people of different race are equal to the whites, even though her whole life she was taught different.
Although Lily is young, she feels that she has the right to make this statement because she has already experienced so much in her life. With that being said, people may judge Lily because of what she says or does but that is because not everyone knows about
When the truth is reviled, and the chaos can not be undone, everything simply ends. Just like an abusive relationship. With this Lily had been exposed to the darkest side of love firsthand. Even though she never imagined she would end up in the same position as her mother. Lily went through her whole childhood trying to protect her mother.