In Andre Dubus short story “The Fat Girl” it follows Louise from age nine until the time she became a mother. Louise faces the negative outlooks society has on food addictions and its affection on women. Louise’s mother is ashamed of Louise’s weight problem as she constantly mentioned Louise’s possibility of being attractive to males will be unlikely. Louise’s mother tries to monitor her food intake, but that only made Louise stash snacks in her bedroom or sneak into the kitchen when her mother was sleep or not paying attention. On the other hand, Louise’s father feels as if Louise should not be limited to what she eats. Even with the unconditional love of Louise’s Father, Louise finds it hard to overcome his sympathy and the verbal abuse from her mother and friends.
Her two childhood friends, Joan and Marjorie were both thin although they saw themselves differently. However, Louise intentionally picked those two friends because they’re thin and she was always concerned about the way others see her. In addition to her self-image , Louise is uncertain of her ability to find happiness in an intimate relationship. Her mother set up this negative outlook by saying, “In five years you’ll be in high school and if your fat the boys won’t like you; they
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While searching, she meets the only close friend she’ll make, Carrie, who is thin but has emotional problems. One day, Carrie caught her secretly eating and offered her with her food intake. Though Carrie is basically reinforcing Louise unfit body( self-hatred) she decides to take Carrie’s offer. Starting the diet, Louise begins to become unhappy and irritated with life. This can be further seen when Louise feels disgrace and shame when she goes to Carrie's home for thanksgiving. Louise is uncomfortable and feels barred in sharing of the numerous dishes the other thin individuals can agreeably
" The primary thing shown, is that fatness is a bad, temporary thing that leaves people forever traumatized. Negative characteristics of the character sends the very untrue message that all fat people are or should be ashamed to be that way, and do their best to shrink down their bodies as fast as
The novel, Zac and Mia illustrates this by using the main character, Mia and portraying her struggles to fit in after undergoing surgery which affects her looks and her perspective on herself, positioning me to relate to the issue alongside Mia. Following the surgery, Mia faces difficulty finding where she now fits in as she loses her purpose and what made her popular, her looks. She was conflicted about whether or not she still fit in with her friends due to her newfound flaws. “They are fish, I realise. I see them in their spotless bowl swimming around in shallow circles.”
In Alice Randall’s “My soul to Keep, My Weight to Lose”, Alice discusses her developing insight into her large weight problem.
When seeing the title “The Fat Girl” by Andre Dubus, I assumed it to be another story about a fat girl who would be depressed and insecure about her size. However, as I started reading, I learned that Louise, the fat girl, was not ashamed of herself and I became interested because my assumption was wrong. All the conflict about her size came from her mother and other relatives or friends. The title itself tells what the entire story is about. The entire story is about the life of “the fat girl”.
When reading chapters seven and eight from Peggy Orenstein book, Cinderella Ate My Daughter, it was interesting and yet horrifying to see it written out on paper. The chapter that really stuck out to me was chapter eight, Its all about the cape, was still the issue of girls and their weight. I know from growing up I have heard all about physical appearances and how it should be maintain in a healthy way. During my late high school days and even into early college days, going on diets was the newest trend and even television shows were participating in them. The latest gossip was about which diet people were on and who was going home on, The Biggest Loser.
The short story by Andre Dubus follows Louise from age nine up until the time she becomes a mother. It gives insight to the damage that can be done when loved ones force negative body images on young children. Louise’s mother starts her on a self-destructive path, which Louise will never overcome and continually affects her life. This is reinforced by the similar opinions of her relatives and friends who make her feel that she will only be truly loved if she is thin. The prevalent theme of Dubus’ “The Fat Girl” is the destructive way society views food addiction and how it adversely affects women.
In Andre Dubus’, “The Fat Girl”, Louise decides to stop dieting when she finally accepts herself. In Louise’s first step of accepting herself, she recognizes that her husband’s flaws are greater than hers. Louise’s husband, Richard is a shallow and vapid character who only cares about materialistic and vain things like boats. When Louise gains weight he is unaccepting and callous towards Louise. This becomes evident when Louise says, “I never knew how cruel you were” (170).
Connie had a “nervous giggling habit of craning her neck to glance into mirrors or checking other people’s faces to make sure her own was all right”(Oates 1). This vain behavior has Connie comparing herself to everyone she comes in contact with. The only thing Connie cared for was her looks “she knew she was pretty and that was everything”(Oates 1). Connie constantly compares herself to her sister June. June was “plain and chunky and steady”(Oates 1) unlike Connie who’s beauty, thinness, and unsteady attitude upset her mother.
Every individual is different and unique in their own way, may it be their body size or the color of their skin. No individual is similar, which is precisely the point that Cheryl Peck makes in her essay “Fatso”. The essay portrays Peck’s view of the conflicts that she goes through in her life as an overweight person. She makes a point by point contrast to her imaginary life, repeating the phrase “I have never”, and her real life where she faces discrimination because of her weight. Peck’s use of tone and word choice highlights the purpose of her essay, which is to raise awareness about discrimination against overweight people to audiences who are thin and have not experienced any judgment from others.
In The Pigman (2005) by Paul Zindel, two teenagers, John and Lorraine, form an unusual friendship with an old man, Mr. Pignati. Over the past few years, this book has become one of many illicit books in schools because people believe that it is inappropriate. However, The Pigman should be taught in schools because it contains characters that many readers can relate to and teaches valuable lessons. Many students who read this book can relate to what the two main characters deal with at home. Mrs. Jensen, Lorraine 's mother, is very overprotective and is constantly reminding Lorraine to stay away from boys.
She believes that Louise is very fragile because of her heart condition. As a result, she gently informs Louise of her husband’s death. When Louise locks herself in her bedroom, Josephine shows concern and worry for Louise because she believes she will make herself ill from extreme grief and keeping to herself. Josephine assumes Louise is highly emotional and distraught is reflective of typical Victorian female views on how women react and feel when faced with tragic news, especially news about the death of a husband.
Sitting at the kitchen bar table, I was watching my mom count her calories at the small meal she was preparing for herself. My mother had never been overweight, but she was not supermodel skinny. For most of my childhood my mother had been so cautious about her weight. When I was around the age of 10, she started to diet and exercise extensively. And around that time, my eldest sister started to do the same.
In the poem, When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny, by Blythe Baird, the poet addresses the issue of social ideology and how these trends affect young women. Told in a first perspective point of view, the poet supports her theme by describing how teenagers are being affected, establishing a social conflict of false need to achieve trends by identifying motifs for teenager’s actions, incorporating the use of life experiences from the past to the present tense and finalizing with a shift to highlight positivity in change of habit. Baird’s purpose is to illustrate a major conflict among young women who are being affected by social idolization of being skinny. She creates a mood of hopeful in order to inspire young teenagers who are currently harming
So when people look and see that they don’t look like they’re favorite super-model it can put a downer on their self-confidence. This causes many girls feeling that they aren’t good enough in society, society won’t accept them because they aren’t perfect and they start to not like their body. When for many females they can’t lose as much weight as their friend can just because of their genes and how they were born. “The lack of connection between the real and ideal perception of their own body and firm willingness to modify their own body and shape so as to standardize them to social concept of thinness…” (Dixit 1), being focused on unrealistic expectations can cause women to lose themselves and change their attitude on how they view their body, and not for the better.
Meaghan Ramsey's TED Talk "Why thinking you're ugly is bad for you" is a powerful speech about low body confidence. Ramsey talks about how society's pressure to be perfect is one of the main reason for young girls' (and boys') low body confidence and how these feelings of low esteem can impact their lives and futures. I chose to analyze this speech because I have experienced low body confidence and I have felt those feelings of low self-esteem. In Meaghan Ramsey's speech "Why thinking you're ugly is bad for you", she discusses how low body confidence is undermining academic achievement, damaging health, and limiting the economic potential of today's youth who are growing up in a world of social media. Ramsey has a strong start to her speech, using a photo and a story about her niece to gain the attention of the audience.