Society has made the world an extrovert’s paradise. Everywhere you turn, there is an opportunity for interaction. Without really even realizing that we do so, we tear down introverts and their ways of living. We make it exceptionally harder for introverts to truly be their selves. Susan Cain goes into more detail about how we do this and why we should change in her TED talk “The Power of Introverts.” The audience that Cain is reaching most likely introverts, however we all can learn to accept introverts and their unique ways. Cain establishes her credibility by discussing how she has always fallen toward the introverted end of the spectrum, and she has dedicated approximately seven years of her life to writing her book “The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking.” …show more content…
On the first night at camp, she pulled out a book to read, and one of the “cooler” girls asked “Why are you being so mellow?” so she felt that she obligated to put the book away. A few days later when she makes an effort to read again, the camp counselor approaches her and advises her to be more outgoing and sociable. Cain states “I got the message that somehow my quiet and introverted style of being was not necessarily the right way to go, that I should be trying to pass as more of an extrovert.” This incident and others similar to it that caused Cain to learn to deny her introverted ways at a fairly young age; this lead her to becoming a Wall Street lawyer instead of the writer she had always longed to become. Cain isn’t the only person that has felt this way; the majority or people shame others for having introverted ways without realizing that they are doing so. We internalize this thinking at a young age, and this can cause introverted individuals to either become depressed or force them to feel the need to act like something they
The theme of self growth and isolation can be seen throughout the novel Speak (1999) by Laurie Halse Anderson, which follows the main protagonist, Melinda Sordino through her freshman year. When Melinda is first introduced, she mentions a secret that she is afraid to talk to anyone about. Melinda later reveals to the readers that she was raped by a high school senior at an end of summer party. Everyone at school acts hostile towards Melinda for calling the cops and ruining what was the best night of their lives, unbeknown to them, that night still haunts her dreams. This causes Melinda to become isolated from everyone, as they only see her as the freak who called the cops.
Contradicting Poisons There are two sides to every person, what society sees and who they truly are. Someone who does not live in the traditionally and became a social outcast could easily be the most benevolent, selfless person, but had not been given the chance before they were silenced by the world around them. Such is the case in Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird, a story showing the relentlessness of hatred and humanity. Lee’s creation represents that isolation from humanity creates the most humane people.
Throughout her memoir, Sebold consistently finds herself in situations where she is ostracized, whether it is intentional or unintentional. Once she comes home, she notices that “While the rest of the family sat at the dinner table wearing the normal clothes of summer, I sat in my chair wearing a long white gown” (58). By
This is where the question of “Do I like who I am?” comes into play. Self-esteem, more so than the other major components of self, weighs heavily on how one interacts with others. For instance, if an individual is insecure about their uneven teeth because they are viewed as an imperfection, one may be less likely to willingly interact with others in fear of judgment. This lessens the amount of friendships made and overall lessens one’s confidence. On the other hand, if one is secure of who they are, it is evident in the way one communicates and their good feelings associated with life in
Is being an introvert a good thing? Introversion is characterized as being inwardly energized. Although approximately *50% of the population is introverted, it is not considered to be a desirable trait. However, is it an advantage or a disadvantage? To help me unearth this truth, two short stories dealing with highly internalized characters will be discussed.
Extroverts will likely recognize the behavior described in their friends and family, and be reminded that while extroversion certainly has much to offer, so does introversion. This is a book that intends to improve all aspects of life through appreciation of diverse skills and tendencies, a book that simultaneously calls out the flaws in our culture and shows us the way to fix them. This is a book for everyone, loud or
This kind of surprised me because I myself wouldn’t expect introverts to be described like
Extroverts can be some of the best people you meet. They have plenty to offer and thrive at the attention of others. However, being introverted can be just as great. In a society where being extroverted is the ideal, it can be very difficult to be an introvert. Susan Cain argues in her Ted Talk, “The Power of Introverts”, that introverts can share many brilliant ideas with the world and should be encouraged and celebrated for who they are.
You read and I look around, but there isn’t anybody!” (Bradbury 73). This quote from Mildred is so painfully ironic, considering she, as stated before, spends most of her time watching T.V., which is nothing but fake people in fake situations. This quote also defines Mildred’s close-mindedness and how content she is without change or really any ‘life’ in her life.
Susan Cain’s nonfiction novel is about how introverts live in a world overpowered by extroverts. One out of five people consider themselves introverts, but some people who consider themselves introverts try to act like extroverts to fit in better with society’s standards. This nonfiction novel explains how since the early days of America, society has attempted to influence the way an individual thinks about his or herself. It uses forms of propaganda, peer pressure, and neurological drugs to change the way that people act. Cain supports her claim by using many examples on how introverts have been put below extroverts.
In Susan Cain’s book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking she proves that introverts are vital to the world and everything typically thought of “the quiet ones” is wrong. She starts the book by introducing the idea of the introvert. This term is derived from psychologist Carl Jung who basically invented the personality test. When deciding on a name for different types of individuals, he called the more reserved people who gain their energy from being alone and are typically not very open introverts.
Yet when they are judged by people it is because of the observations those people have had which lead them to judge someone in a certain way. Outsiders are simply misunderstood. It is impossible for outsiders to be misjudged because they are clearly judged by people already who just don’t understand them. Most if not all people have felt some sort of exclusion at some point in their lives. These experiences can either lead us to be more of an extrovert or more of an introvert.
After viewing this week’s videos, I found them challenging and fascinating, but I connect more with The Power of Introverts video by Susan Cain. As an introvert, I agree with Ms. Cain in that our culture misunderstands and underrates the characteristics and abilities of introverted individuals. This video has some serious implications for education. First, in our current culture, schools mainly accommodate extrovert students’ need for a lot of stimulation. Next, the manner in which particular instructional trends as collaborative learning and flipped classrooms are utilized often disregard the needs of introverts.
Practice 2- Introverts are outnumbered by extroverts. It’s challenging for introverts to be in the social stratosphere. In schools educators can add a bit more straining by making participation part of the grading process. Ergo, introverts have to develop more skills to deal with the hardships.
In our modern society, confident and assertive individuals seem to be favored over the shy and solitary introverts. The society refers introverts as anti-social, tedious, solitary, aloof and give countless negative nametags and they create stereotypes to extroverts. Yet, just because introverts are shy and quiet, that does not always define that non-introverts are superior than introverts. In the past and present, numerous talented people who are known to be introverts changed and impacted the world. From Steve Wozniak, the Apple co-founder to the one of the greatest intelligent scientist, Albert Einstein, they broke the stereotype towards introverts and demonstrated that even shy people can have great leaderships and abilities to influence