Sylvia Plath’s “Daddy”
The poetry of Sylvia Plath is shrouded in a heavy veil of figurative language and is often accompanied by her grief, producing themes of a harrowing darkness throughout many of her poems. In one of her most famous poems, “Daddy,” it is clear that Plath draws upon her own life experiences. Weaving in her deep, explosive, and even despondent emotions into the lines of the poem, Plath creates a familiar framework of grief and bitterness. However, Plath leaves no poem ordinary; the unofficial queen of metaphors, Plath coats “Daddy” with a thick layer of comparisons while simultaneously providing evocative imagery and allusions to the holocaust. With a tone of bitterness and the use of extensive figurative language, Plath
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While “Daddy,” can work as a stand alone poem, knowing about Plath’s life can deepen the effect and provide an understanding of why the poem is heavily masked with such an abrasive tone of discordant hatred. In “Spluttering Plath,” Sexton notes that, “The decisive event in Plath’s life was the death of her father, Otto, when she was eight.” The death of her father sent her spiraling into a fathomless depression that left an incessant overcast on the rest of her life. Described by Sexton, “[Plath] both hated her father for dying and longed to join him in death.” Eventually, when she was twenty-one, Plath attempted to reunite with her father through committing suicide, but did not succeed (Sexton). However, even with the numerous similarities between the poem and Plath’s life, the speaker of the poem is different from Plath herself; Plath employs the use of exaggeration and creates big, hyperbolized characters for the sake of poetry, but still utilizes her own emotions. To summarize, in the words of Rosenblatt, “The plot of “Daddy” is almost completely invented. Plath’s father was not a Nazi, and her mother was not Jewish”
he explains how his father’s motive for loving him and raising becomes a challenge for the son to accept, because of his adolescent behavior and likewise in Sharon Old’s poem “The Possessive” the narrator would describe how uncomfortable she felt when she her daughter grow up too fast. Both poems use a narrative that suggest that there are
Throughout the poem, the speaker uses his poetic style to reveal a friendly yet distanced relationship that the speaker and father share together. Beginning the poem with “Thirty-three years of coughing thick factory air,” the speaker introduces his father as a diligent factory worker (1-2, Daniels). The use of the alliteration “thirty-three” in this line, strategically draws the reader’s attention to just how long the dad subjects himself to such straining labor in order to provide for his family, showing a love from the father for his child (1). The speaker continues with “of drifting to sleep through the heavy ring of machinery, of twelve hour days” painting the image of the father working nonstop, and as a result, repeatedly falling asleep on the job (3-4). By saying, “In my sleep,
A recurring theme in poetry is father-son relationships; however there are three well written poems that really stand out. The first is a poem written by Robert Hayden called “My Papa’s Waltz”. The second poem was written by Theodore Roethke named “Those Winter Sundays”. Finally the last poem is “Sign for My Father, Who Stressed the Bunt”. There are many differences between the father and son in each poem, some easier to catch than others.
“My Papa’s Waltz,” written by Theodore Roethke, tells of a boy's waltz with his father. While light on the surface, the words hint that there may be a darker nature to the poem. The father, who is a hard-working laborer, has different sides to him that leave the son with ambivalent feelings. Told from the first person point of view of the son, the speaker describes the details of a waltz while his mother simply stands to the side. Theodore Roethke’s poem, “My Papa’s Waltz,” uses an extended metaphor and carefully placed syntax in order to portray the complex relationship between the speaker and his father with a light tone.
My father’s Song, the speaker is narrating the memories they shared with his father. These two poems are written with a focus on the father and child relationship. The two poems also reveal the narrators ' memories and shows how fast time can go and what was meaningful in the narrators’ childhood is gone. The two poems share the themes of Love, Childhood memories, and endeavors of the male parent. Likewise, the two poems contrast like love, reflected by the two fathers, the memories of childhood and the narrator’s feelings about their memories.
Everyone has a father, whether their relationship with him is good or bad. Webster’s Dictionary defines the word father as follows: a man in relation to his natural child or children. “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke and “Those Winter Sundays” by Robert Hayden are two poems with themes set around a father. These poems deal with accounts of the poets’ fathers as they reminisce about certain scenes from their childhood. “My Papa’s Waltz” and “Those Winter Sundays” show similarities and differences in structure, literary elements, and central idea.
This poem was a way for the author so get his bitterness out at his dad, anger toward his mm out while also showing love to
The conflicting interests of the mother and the father result in a situation where one must make a sacrifice in order to preserve the connection in the family. The flat depressed tone of the poem reflects the mother’s unhappiness and frustration about having to constantly
The poem targets a broad audience, but is specifically interesting to those that can relate to the situation sketched in the poem. These would be people that suffer from a difficult relationship with their father, but love their father nonetheless. Roethke himself lost his father, and feels like a lost child without him. This can be concluded from the tone and mood, which will be discussed in a later paragraph.
“Daddy” by Sylvia Plath is a daughter’s overdue words to her dead father. As a vessel for the speaker’s emotional outbreak, the poem alternates among her idolation and fear, and her love and rejection for him, feelings that she constantly struggles between. The work reveals the destructive nature of the memory of the speaker’s father, and portrays her final attempt to break free of its shadow. The poem is one big apostrophe directed at the speaker’s dead father, and in doing so she regresses into her childhood self.
The son writes this poem as “the sign” that he understands his father’s lessons (22). Moreover, the relationship between the son and his father has clearly changed with time. In the past, the two were unable to appreciate fully each other, whereas now the son finally breaks through the disconnect that he formerly shared with his father. Through points of view, this poem conveys both the former misunderstanding between the father and the son and the son’s newfound recognition of his
Every story consists of different elements, such as characters, plotlines, and settings. Nonetheless, many stories portray the same messages or ideas. “My Papa’s Waltz,” by Theodore Roethke, depicts a reckless father who is loved by his child, while “Those Winter Sundays,” by Robert Hayden, depicts a hardworking father whose child is indifferent to him. Though the poems depict exceptionally different childhoods, both contribute to the idea that perceptions of parents alter as one grows into adulthood. Both poems use harsh words and critical tones in order to convey this notion, however in “My Papa’s Waltz,” they signify the recklessness of the father and how the narrator perceives his father as an adult, while in “Those Winter Sundays,” they
Robert Hayden uses tone shift in “Those Winter Sundays” to showcase the complexity of parenting styles and how easy miscommunication can be caused between parent and child. This is done through the speaker's perspective of childhood and how his father influenced his experience in his youth. By shifting from a regretful to an enlightening yet reminiscent tone, we see how our speaker misunderstood his father’s expression of love and why it was misinterpreted. Towards the beginning of the poem, a regretful tone is shown from the speaker who feels guilty for the way he treated his father in his childhood.
“My Father’s Song” describes the close, tender relationship between a father and his son, while “Those Winter Sundays” depicts a more distant, strained relationship between the father and his family. Ortiz’s lively descriptions of pleasant memories, illustrate how the father’s interactions with his son reveal his love and strengthen their relationship. A darker, emotionless tone fills Hayden’s poem as he emphasizes a father’s austere, yet sacrificial love toward his family. These poems both set different examples of how some families choose live out the bond between one
Comparing and contrasting Sylvia Plath’s “Daddy” and Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz”, one finds the two poems are similar with their themes of abuse, yet contrasting with how the themes are portrayed. Furthermore, the speaker 's feelings toward their fathers’ in each poem contrast. One speaker was hurt by the father and the other speaker was indifferent about how he was treated by his father. The fathers’ feelings toward the children are also different despite how each treated the child. Both poems accurately portray the parent-child relationships within an abusive home, even if they have different