Bullying is taking over the world as we know it. Bullying is harmful physically and mentally whether you 're meaning for it to or not. According to www.verywell.com, "When it comes to bullying, a lot of people blame the victim instead of the bully. For instance, some people think that victims of bullying bring it on themselves, that they cause the bullying in some way." Being a bystander is worse than being a bully because they had the opportunity to help someone, they could get in trouble, they encourage the bully, and they make the victim suffer even more pain.
According to www.psychologytoday.com, you may not know it but bullies truly do feel bad for themselves, for example when a bully looks in a mirror. They will feel sham and humiliation when others see how the bully acts. Also if the person the bully is bulling harms themselves the bully can feel guilty about it. Also, from all of the guilt the bully can have depression. Haters don’t hate you they hate themselves.
If students don’t have someone to take after and be a good light for them that might lead to being a bully. Madigan Laura, from Tales of Bullying It is my belief that the reason why students would be a bully is because they keep feeling like people aren’t like everyone else so they go and bully the ones who are not like them. If you feel like people aren’t like you then you will go bully those people. For instants, you will be a bully to feel cool or try and fit in with the cool popular kids. Being a bully is worse than being a bystander.
In conclusion, bystanders are even more horrible as bullies. Being a bystander is awful thing to be because they have the ability to stop bullying but they don’t, give zero support to the victim/target, they encourage the bully by doing nothing, and suffer tremendous guilt. We need to be the generation to stop bullying. If you see someone who is being bullied, don 't just stand there, help the victim. As I explained in the paragraphs above, there are and countless ways to help a victim.
My third reason is a bully would have guilt but a bystander would have more guilt than a bully because they would be the person who could’ve done something to stop it but didn’t because their lonely or scared. A quote from the article “Tales Of Bullying” is “I was bullied about my hair and about what I wore to school but there was
Bibi: Okay! Why do you think evil or bad things happen in this world? For instance, like hundredths of innocent children and young adults around the world are kidnapped, raped and sexually explicated all over the internet. Mrs. Anwar: Those who don’t believe in God, make choices that are bad and wants to bring pain because they don’t have anyone to fear from, like God. Evil occurs because many people are cold blooded and don’t have love, feelings or sympathy for innocent individuals.
Do you ever wonder why teenagers hate coming to high school? A major reason students hate coming to high school is all the bullying that occurs. Bullying is when a student brings down another student by saying hurtful things or hurting them physically. Students who are bullied sometimes feel helpless because they believe the adult, teacher, or friend they open up to about their problem won’t do anything to help them. Another reason they feel helpless is they are afraid that if the bully finds out they told someone about what was occurring, they would bully them even more.
Primarily, violence is one of the most detrimental effects resulting from spanking as spanking encourages children to commit bad acts upon their parents. Instead of resorting to physical punishment, parents should attempt to understand why their children are acting out instead of rashly spanking them. If they are continuously punished, children will tend to hate their parents and other authoritative figures, like teachers, as well. Additionally, punishment like spanking may lead to the child to being emotionally stressed. Thirdly, misinterpretation is likely to occur with the spanking of kids.
Low- self esteem is another mentally effect this is when majority of the time the victim starts to believe what the bully say to them like your stupid,you are ugly ,or the worst your life means nothing. Bullying is one of the main causes of suicide due to the fact that technology made cyberbullying this when people bully through the internet.Victims of bullies are always in some way unequal in some making them sadly an easy target.For instance some bullies will chose disabled kids to pick on because someone they think that disabled people can not stop them .Also if you were in elementary school ,and you where the smart one in class you usually were picked on because others were jealous of you. All people think is that words cannot hurt people but in reality they can