Therefore, women have rights to refuse polygamy without violating the Islamic Law. • Polygamy would spoil the institution of marriage None of women are able accepting polygamy completely. Most of them would ask for a divorce once they notice their husbands’ request to remarry. It might be rush but what is the point to stay in that marriage? If the husband really loves his wife, why must him finds another?
There are no exact reasons for why he did what he did but we can at least study the conflict and go deeper about the story as a whole. The story in the book shows how Ethan was in love with Mattie. The only problem with that was that Ethan was already married to a woman named Zeena. Many marriages end because the husband or the wife cheats on their spouse. Most people go through life thinking ‘okay he/she is the one, I can feel it’ but unfortunately this does not work out for everyone.
Gatsby didn’t think so, “ ‘I don’t think she ever loved him’ Gatsby turned around…and looked at me… ‘Of course she might have loved him even for a minute when they were first married’…” (Fitzgerald 8. 152). Gatsby thought he was the only one who loved Daisy; could she have just tricked him into this, feeling like he was the only person she loved? Her personality was unlikable to some people, “A rather unpleasant inamorata, at best infantile and impressionable and at worst, possibly selfish to the point of pathology.” (The Problem With The Great Gatsby’s Daisy Buchanan). To many people this personality would not come off as appealing, but Gatsby had fallen in love with Daisy, her uncaring personality had not bothered him, it was just something she could use to help herself get ahead in life.
In Wuthering Heights, Heathcliff suffers injustice throughout his entire life. Not only was he unwanted as a child but he was also ridiculed for his physical appearance, tormented by Hindley, and emotionally stabbed in the heart by his one true love, Catherine. Although Heathcliff is in a constant search of justice, he does not know how to find it. Throughout the novel, Heathcliff constantly uses revenge in order to seek justice but always ends up more disappointed than he originally starts off as. At Wuthering Heights and Thrushcross grange, Heathcliff does not fit in.
He was there to increase the amount of guilt Hester and Dimmesdale had even though Dimmesdale didn 't know Chillingworth was Hester’s husband he still felt the guilt. I don 't necessarily believe that Chillingworth is as evil as he comes off to be in the story but I do believe that he is is doing far worse in his actions that Hester and Dimmesdale. I do feel sympathy for Chillingworth due to the fact the only woman he will ever love cheated and had another man’s child as well as the fact the love he feels for a child that isn’t really his in the end of the novel when he leaves his fortune to Pearl. I’ve come to believe that this act is him redeeming himself to Pearl and
Commonly this love can be mistaken for just pure lust, or the puppy love stage of the relationship, which ends at some point and breaks many couples. When you find someone that you have this emotional and physical connection with, it’s easy to rush in. It’s important to take your time to be sure about this before you rush to get married. I almost made this mistake, I was in a relationship for three years and it was very one sided but I was blinded by love. Luckily it ended because once I saw reality, I felt insane for wanting the spend the rest of my life with him.
Personal conflict I faced many conflict situations in my life where I had no idea how to deal with it or what I could do to make things better. I always saw conflict as a negative thing and something that will end up in damaged relationships, but Weeks (1994) explains how conflict can be seen as positive in many occasions. Anstey (1993) also explains
CROSSROADS In life, we are often thrown into tough situations, some of which cannot be avoided. Circumstances which make life changing alterations, and might not be pleasant to go through. A troubled marriage is one of such situations, and divorce is an example of a life-altering circumstance. The thought of divorce is frightening because pain and loss are often involved, so no one who is in their right minds willingly considers it. It is normal in every relationship, to have high and low points, but if you are at a stage where you continually question your relationship, these highs and lows can become exhausting.
While this image of an idyllic wedding is one many of us have dreamt of, it could not be further from reality. Marriage is steeped in patriarchal misogyny designed to suppress women. The emphasis placed upon the wedding ceremony is outrageous. Marriage also complicates things greatly for those unhappy couples among us want to separate. Despite all this people are still getting married.
Like the wife, Ann, I believe practically all people desire acceptance. However, life is not perfect and I know that I face rejection constantly. Like with the husband’s reasoning, often I have been excluded for insignificant reasons. Simply a change in skin color indicated an adjustment in the person he wanted to marry. In addition to the judgmental aspect, I can also relate to this man’s selfishness and desire for control in that I see people like him everyday.
Bathsheba and David soon conceived a second son, Solomon. The story doesn’t say if Bathsheba seduced David, then that would be a case of femme fatale, but for what I have read David is the one who fell in love with her at first sight and send for her. Not always women are the one to blame into mans misery, but man itself condemn themselves into a path of disgrace because they choose to sin. In this case scenario Bathsheba did not seduce David therefore David sinned as a choice of his own. But Bathsheba still gets blamed for David’s misery although she was just a women that did not intentionally try to get with David.
There was no love in that relationship and it was mentally draining Janie. She thought that being married to someone meant that you have love and passion, but that 's not what really happened. Their relationship was more of an obligation. Now a bit later after getting rid of Logan, Janie seems to get into yet another relationship