So, when you have a growth mindset you want to be challenged, you want to try new things. However, accomplishment can become a major setback, when someone succeeds you want to give them praise; “good job!” or “I’m so proud of you!” As you go one the challenges get harder, eventually the person will want to stick with the challenges they are good at. So, when you are challenging someone, and they succeed, rather than praising them just tell them; “good job, now let’s move on to the next task.” This will help them be less scared on
As I become more open-minded it allows for the flourishing of empathy that creates the conception of me being confrontational. From creating and expanding of my new understanding of the practicalities importance that is associated with evolving a connection to enhance the development of an environment that is deemed to be supportive with anybody that I interact with can feel that what they are saying is being believed. A further development of this is that it will encourage me to make less number of decisions that are based on my need to be impulsive in these situations as by having high levels of impulsivity could alter the way that I engage with them. Due to building rapport with someone it can take a small amount of time to develop additional, there is an emotional investment in the
It was that learning was too easy. This is a great sin, to be born with a head which is too quick. It is not good to be different from our brothers, but it is evil to be superior to them. The Teachers told us so, and they frowned when they looked upon us” (21). It seems that the class was too smart for their own good, but remember “I” and “me” weren’t allowed in this dystopian society.
Their lack of a bond could very well be the reason why Virgil doesn’t go to school, as latchkey kids are often psychologically affected in that they are more likely to create their own rules as no one is making them for him (Huff, Ken. "The Lonely Life”). If this is true, then it shows how the destruction of their culture has created a disinterest in one important activity such as school. He also lacks a bond with his mother and the rest of his family as he doesn’t get to spend time with them because they are not placing an importance on unity like most First Nation cultures do. This is further proven when Virgil’s uncle Wayne says, “Maybe it was the son of her’s what’s-his-name… Vinnie… Virgin…Virgil” (Taylor 34.)
Here we are taught to listen to others’ advise, take in criticism, and transform our fixed mindset into growth. With this skill we have been taught we are able to do the opposite of the definition, and act according to wish, but we do allow ourselves to be deflected or change our opinions based on facts. The students here have an advantage, but it does not make a large counterpart to the wooden-headedness prevalent in our nation and around the world to make a difference in human
These feelings bring us hope, they bring us into ourselves which proves itself to be more important with each passing day. Solitude is being abolished due to the pressure we take from technology in our lives, quickly humans and technology are becoming co-dependent. This is not to say that technology is despicable or that we should put an end to these items that make our daily lives remarkably easier, but that we must be comfortable with ourselves before we can embrace them. In the same way, one should not go into a serious relationship without first loving themselves. Solitude, and in turn, Introspection allows you delve into your mind, reflect on life and the person you are today, as well as the person you wish to become.
The rise of new technology and media enables people to become more intelligent instead of harming our brain. Pinker explains the controversy that the constant arrival of information can distract people, however, the development of self-control should more necessary to pay attention to. Pinker asserts that “the effects of experience are highly specific to the experience themselves”(221). If people are trained in only one thing, they might be mastered in it. By contrast, if multitasks are assigned to them, they will not be able to perform them well.
In order to reduce these controlling behaviors while maintaining the benefits of creativity and high performance, I should internalize the truth the best project outcomes are more often a result of collaboration, the development process and timing rather than the exact implementation of a particular plan. Even if working with people on tasks rather taking over the task could generate slightly less stellar results, the process of growing with and teaching another person could help me sharpen my aptitudes in those areas and my patience. In addition, the repetition of such a behavior could help me understand that people truly are capable of growth, even if it seems as if they could never change. As such, I should develop ways to transition to a transactional leadership style with these causes in
Proving that deep down, we were meant to connect and care for each other… labels only distort our vision” (On YouTube.com). This shows how meaningless these ‘labels’ are they are just creating more problems and holding people back from caring for one another, this distorts the people’s peace and bright futures, just waiting for them. Without ‘labels’, people grow and innovate together, without each other people would be growing slowly. Additionally, people might also might argue that diversity is unpleasant since it can provoke more problems like racism, distrust, discomfort, and disrespect. In “How Diversity Makes Us Smarter” by Katherine W. Philips, she states “Being around people who are different from us makes us more creative, more diligent, and harder-working” (paragraph one).
Technology is everywhere and we cannot escape it, it literally involves every part of our lives, whether we like it or not it affect us all. From how we work, play and live our lives, technology has created a revolution that will grow for as long as humans continue to advance in their capabilities. Technology just get better and better, what was once latest and popular yesterday is old hat today and the bottom line is technology doesn’t wait for anyone if you not keeping up with it, you will surely be left in the dust. If you compare the lifestyle of people living in the life of today’s time you will see that it is highly advanced, busy, complex and easier compared to the life of back in the days. My topic is basically about the effects of technology that affect our lives in different ways and determining whether they are affecting us mostly in a negative or positive way.