The Cause Of Divorce

Divorce is the action of legally dissolving a marriage and going in separate ways. According to www.theguardian.com “a brief history of divorce” in Britain, Before the 1850s divorce was largely open to men only and because it was very expensive it was open to the rich only. Then The 1857 Matrimonial Causes Act allowed ordinary people to divorce. During this time, it was difficult for women to divorce because they had to prove that their husbands had been unfaithful. Then in 1923 A private members’ bill made it easier for women to file for divorce for adultery, but they still had to prove. The big change came in 1969, couples could divorce after they had been separated for two years. Now that divorce has been legalized and it does not

Having affair is the same as cheating on your husband or your wife behind their back. It is having a relationship with a third person without letting your spouse find out. All over the world, there are people having affair while they are still married. People usually have an affair for many reasons such as their needs whether it is psychological or sexual, are not met in marriage. For example, one lady might think that her husband does not appreciate whatever she does to please him, and she met someone else who is more appreciative and admires what she does; the lady will then go to the other man who is not her husband and will have affair because she is psychologically more satisfied or content with the one that is not her husband. One cause of having affair is not appreciating each other. As soon as the husband or wife finds out that whatever they do is not appreciated by the spouse, then that is the time they are more likely to go seeking someone who is more appreciative. They will choose the person that admires them and their work and are more likely to walk away with that person. Another cause of having an affair is that one of the spouse tries to be the superior usually the men (in Eritrea) and so the women feel they are always under control by their husbands; so as soon as they find someone who can set them free and can be not only their husband, but friend also, then they are more likely to take the road with the person who is not

Abuse is when you treat someone with violence (verbally, emotionally or physically) repeatedly. There are many people who get divorced simply because their spouse is abusive verbally, emotionally or physically. Even though their spouse is their other half some people feel insecure when they are with them because they are attacking them physically, using harsh words and shouting or doing things that would emotionally hurt them. One of the main causes of abuse is having difficulty tolerating (managing) anger. Instead of trying to discuss the problems they have or talking out why they are angry some find it easier to just verbally or physically abuse their spouse and feel better without caring or knowing that this might hurt the other person. Another cause of abuse is simply their past-history. If the mother of the spouse was very abusive or has never appreciated what he does, then he is most likely to take revenge on his wife. Abuses can be proven in different ways such as showing the bruise marks on the body, recording phone conversations and having a hidden camera in the