The grief in one’s life
Have you ever read poems that had sad stories involved? Authors such as William Blake and Lydia Davis talk about grief in their poems. According to Merriam- Webster dictionary, the definition of grief is “deep and poignant distress caused by or as if by bereavement”. In William Blake’s song of experience, “The Chimney Sweeper” the poem describes a boy grieving for his parents who left him in the snow. In Lydia Davis’s “Head, Heart” explain the feeling of grief between two people and how it is not easy to move on. Both the poems discuss loss of a loved one and they want people to know that there are different types of grief between the two poems. There are several literary techniques shows how both William Blake and Lydia Davis’s poem have a common theme of grief by using techniques such as imagery, figures of speech, symbolism, thematic/narrative elements.
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In the second stanza of William’s Blake’s “The Chimney Sweeper”, the boy describes the things his parents have done and how he feels about his parents’ betrayal that caused him grief. The boy describes the outfit his parents left him in as clothes of death. The boy states, “They clothed me in the clothes of death” (Blake 7) the line meant that his parents who left him there were leaving the boy there to die because the clothes of death are for people who are left to die. In addition, the boy speaks about his parents; do not think they had hurt him in any way possible for what they did. The boy states “And because I am happy and dance and sing, they think they have done me no injury.” (Blake 10&11), even though he acts as if he is happy, he knows how badly he is treated. His parents think he is fine however; the boy is actually grieving over what had happened to him. Likewise, In “Head, Heart” the symbolism found is head and heart. Head represents the helping person and the heart represents the grieving person in the
English Report "There is a sacredness in tears.... They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition and of unspeakable love." These words spoken by Washington Irving, tell us that somethings, whether beautiful or wretched, cannot be expressed through ordinary words. However, this should not stop one from sharing it with the world. Though not everyone is able to express themselves in a perfect way, everyone has the capability to do so.
Grief, the universal process of mourning, materializes differently in each person. Some swiftly overcome it, able to accept their loss and move on. Others concede to despair and develop Complicated Grief Disorder: “a period of mourning after a loss…that exceeds six months and is expressed through…a maladjustment and lack of acceptance of death, social isolation and suicidal tendencies” (Avrutin para. 5). Ethan Frome, the protagonist of Edith Wharton’s novella of the same name, continually struggles with this particular disorder.
Many people go through grief at one point in their life but some are more susceptible to having a difficult time dealing with it. Grieving individuals go through their own processes at their own
For hundreds of years, people have used art as a way of portraying strong emotions such as passion, lust and joy. One of the more powerful of these emotions is that of loss, which is often portrayed as a overwhelming and devastating feeling. Various forms of art have different ways of conveying emotions, whether it be through the use of melody in music, with colors in paintings or through the thoughts and actions of characters in literature. Several characters in Andre Dubus’ “Killings” clearly display their feelings of loss in the story through the way they are characterized and the varied reactions that they display each represent a different aspect of grief. The protagonist of the story, the grieving father, Matt, expresses his feelings
Both Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, by John Foer, and When There‘s no Word like Widow, by Kyleigh Leddy, are stories detailing a person‘s experience around grief. ELIC is about a 9-year-old child, Oskar, who lost his dad on 9/11. Oskar‘s weird personality leads him on a journey to try and find out the purpose of a key in his dad‘s closet. Throughout the story, we see how Oskar’s actions correlate to his grief such as hitting himself or spending lots of time in his father’s closet. WTNWLW is a personal narrative about Kyleigh and how her sister went missing and committed suicide.
This is widely depicted in the song “Can the Circle Be Unbroken” which discusses the suffering and grief associated with the death of the narrators mother. This song successfully generates lament from the audience through its lyrics which ultimately paint a story. One may see this as the author states “But I could not hide my sorrow when they laid her in the grave…went back home Lord, my home was lonesome since my mother was gone... all my brothers, sisters crying, what a home so sad and lone”. However, although the author paints a story of his/her mothers funeral, they also express their comfort in knowing that their mother is gone but present with the Lord.
That particular adversity is melancholia, which is when an individual is unable to fully recuperate from a loss and consequently their lives remain stagnant as they never seem to exit the grieving mode. This translates to the tension between mobility and immobility that each individual thus experiences. To say that there is a precise manner in which an individual should lament in would be flawed, because every individual approaches life at a different kind of lens. I will be discussing this in terms of the causes and the consequences of grief and the detailed ways in which the individuals deal with the grief. One could say that the most evident origin of grief in this chapter is fixed around the usage of alcohol.
For instance, a loss of a loved one of both narrators. The narrators in these poems deal with their loss of loved ones in very different ways. In Annabel Lee, the narrator lies down in Annabel’s tomb with her as she passes away. “Of my darling, my darling, my life and bride, in her sepulcher there by the sea in her tomb by the side of the sea”.
Max Miller Nelson English III 11 May 2023 Beyond Tears The Protagonist Stanion’s journey through grief and heart break gives the reader a clear understanding of the human experience of grief. The story is about a father who is trying to parent his kids without his wife who died. In Larry Woiwode’s short story “The Beginning of Grief,” the theme of living with grief is is demonstrated through the setting along with Stanion, Kevin, and Jim.
‘When we two parted’ and ‘Neutral Tones’ both present the idea of negative relationships, but do so in an array of similar and contrasting ways. In ‘When we two parted’, Byron recalls the day he and his lover parted, showcasing his strong personal feelings of heartbreak on the incident as his poem is written in lyric form with an octet structure. Whereas, in ‘Neutral tones’, Hardy recalls the day he and his lover ended their relationship, as their love for one another had died out, using enjambment to show how his lover was thoughts were no longer present, when with him. Firstly, the idea of negative relationships is portrayed in both poems using an anaphora. In ‘Neutral tones’ a “pond edged with greyish leaves” is featured at both the start and the end of the poem.
When people are traumatized by an event they are pushed to experience the five stages of grief. The “Gospel”, by Philip Levine and “the boy detective loses love”, by Sam Sax both use characters that are going through one of the stages of grief. Levine and Sax both explain the thoughts and process of what a person thinks when they go through these stages with imagery. Levine uses symbolism, a sad tone, and a set setting in “Gospel” to illustrate that grieving takes you into a depth of thoughts. Sax uses anaphoras, an aggressive tone, and an ambiguous setting to convey that grieving takes you into a tunnel of anger and rage.
In the short stories: “Gwilan’s Harp” by Ursula K. LeGuin, “The Washwoman” by Isaac Singer, and “The Last Leaf” by O. Henry, all of the authors make their characters go thorough loss. Gwilan in “Gwilan’s Harp” loses her harp—her livelihood. The Jewish family in “The Washwoman” experiences the loss of their servant, and Johnsy in “The Last Leaf” loses a friend that saved her life. However, none of these stories end with a sense of loss. All of them finish with a sense of victory over their specific hardship.
There are seven stanzas in this poem and the techniques appeared in the poem are Imagery, Simile, Metaphor, and Alliteration. The imagery is the techniques used all over the seven stanzas in this poem to describe the image of the Death the movement, and the sound which included Auditory, Visual, and Kinetic. The First stanza described the environment in the cemeteries, the heart refers to the dead bodies in the graves and a tunnel could be coffins. The dead bodies sleeping in a tunnel which give the image of the coffin and in this stanza the poet also used a Simile in the last three lines by using word “like” and “as though.”
The attitudes to grief over the loss of a loved one are presented in two thoroughly different ways in the two poems of ‘Funeral Blues’ and ‘Remember’. Some differences include the tone towards death as ‘Funeral Blues’ was written with a more mocking, sarcastic tone towards death and grieving the loss of a loved one, (even though it was later interpreted as a genuine expression of grief after the movie “Four Weddings and a Funeral” in 1994), whereas ‘Remember’ has a more sincere and heartfelt tone towards death. In addition, ‘Funeral Blues’ is entirely negative towards death not only forbidding themselves from moving on but also forbidding the world from moving on after the tragic passing of the loved one, whilst ‘Remember’ gives the griever
LOSS, GRIEF AND HEALING As human beings, we suffer losses of many kinds and sizes in our life time. While some of these losses are small and do not hurt much, some are big and hurt deeply. Those that are accompanied by pains that are difficult to bear include the loss of a loved one through death or divorce, cheating or unfaithfulness in a trusted relationship or loss of good health when a diagnosis of a terminal illness is made. In all these instances of loss, pain and grief are experienced and an emotional wound is created which needs healing.