Living with one parent instead of two can bring out different kind of emotions. These emotional states can be quite strong and they can be confusing too. Children might feel terribly sad and angry because they do not have complete parents but they also might feel happy that their parents split up and are not fighting anymore because living with parents who always fighting can sometimes be stressful. Grown children continue to see their parents’ divorce very differently than do the parents. 10 percent of children felt positively about their parents’ divorce, but 80 percent of the divorced mothers and 50 percent of the divorced fathers judged the divorce good for them (Wallerstein, 2004).
Parents’ speech, behaviors and attributes affect their children general temperament. Every parent is the first known environment where the child learns some basic feelings and behaviors in. Especially in child care, there are some stereotypes toward parent involvement. Because the perception of patriarchy in the society,
The growing period of a child life is very essential, due to the atmosphere they live and develop to commence being used to. But growing up is just a phase, because if a child lacks good role models in their childhood, then this incline to a conception that deplorable deportment is okay and presentable in the community. According to Parents’ Effect on Child Behavior by Rose Erickson mentions “Children model their parents and learn from them”(1). This means that every behavior from a parent is being observed from the child, and this is quite important, because when a parent struggle to make a living in the poor areas and a child does not understand the concept of saving money. A child simplify knows that they desire a certain toy and if they do get it then they are practically heart broken.
Many children go through many different foster families before settling down with the right family for them. There are both negative and positive impacts for children who are in the adoption process. Many have a wonderful experience in adoption, but some have a poor one. Negatively, the child feels rejected and feels like there is something wrong with them if they had to be put up for adoption. Researchers have said “They can react to the loss of their birth parent with overwhelming feelings such as depression, anger, anxiety, and fear.” (Ajmera) Which then leads to them wanting to find out about their biological parents such as their name, where they live, and why they left them.
Effects of divorce In nowadays society, divorce has become a very normal thing in our daily lives. Married couples are getting a divorce due to many different reasons. Most divorces have children that are too young and due to their age they do not have any idea on how to face with the type of situation. Usually children are mostly affected by the actions of their parents. They have to learn to face with divorce of their parents at such a young age, affecting them in a positive or negative way.
It is a fact that favourable grades are accomplished through hard work and effort, and not through mental ability. (Kricorian) A multitude of students in the world are perspicacious, but are disengaged, in view of the fact that lack of motivation is one real problem. As a matter of fact, 40% of high school students are not engaged in school, as stated by the 2003 National Research Council, a research arm organization in the U.S. (Crotty) In addition to this, numerous of them are also lazy and over-procrastinate. (Tait) According to a survey of 101 students in DeSales University, 85-95% of them are idle, seeing that they receive less sleep and that they keep on doing one activity over and over again in one sitting. (Gaille) Procrastination is probably the main reason of why students
Parents have been entrusted with the incredible privilege and responsibility of shaping their children 's behavior in a positive direction (Alto, 2006). Unfortunately, many enter this world with desires that are harmful, cruel and selfish to others and to their own selves even. Spanking by a parent to his or her child is still seen by many as a necessary form of discipline, and condoned, or sadly even encouraged and this trend needs to be stopped. Spanking, then, can be one effective discipline option among several in a parents ' options as they seek to divert their children away from negative behaviors and guide them toward becoming responsible, healthy, good and happy adults in the coming future. Almost all of the respondents in the survey assessed experienced spanking.
Child poverty denies children with the basic needs to survive, expand, and flourish. It also deprives children from having equal opportunities in school such as a good education based on where they live, the proper teachers needed, and the motivation to not drop out. The lower-class students of this generation are being deprived of a quality education whereas the rest of society not only gets an outstanding education, but is able to participate in after-school activities that increases the student's social skills as well as helps them educationally. One significant factor that serves to exclude children living in poverty from their peers is the increasing rate of children falling behind in school due to the lack of help that they have access
Children are a primary example of triangulation; they are born into their parents’ relationship and will remain in that triangle for their entire lives. As an example, during times of marital disharmony, children may be drawn into a triangle; parents take the focus from their own anxieties with each other and ultimately place them onto the child. It is in these situations a poorly differentiated child may find him/herself taking sides and even acting out in order to reduce the tension between the
Figure 1 Macoby and Martin’s simplification of parenting styles as seen in Bee’s The Growing Child (Source: Adapted from Macoby & Martin, 1983, Fifure 2, p.39.). Parents only want what’s good for their children and for them to grow intro great adults, for their children to be independent and to be able to undergo hardships. There are quite a few advantages of being over protective parents. Because over protecting parents control their children’s decisions and day to day activities, they are able to monitor their children and ensure their safety (Overprotective Parents, n.d.). Being over protective also helps the child to learn to limit himself and to control their emotions.