At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking; who innovate but loathe self-promotion, dislike small talk, and feel exceptionally strong emotions. It is to introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Steve Wozniak, Eleanor Roosevelt, and Mahatma Ghandi—that we owe many of the great contributions to society. In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and also shows how much we lose in doing so. She shows the rise of the “Extrovert Ideal” throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture. From a clever, energetic public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the …show more content…
Because an introvert “enjoys solitude,” they are generally frowned upon at school and are looked at like there is something mentally wrong with the individual. Although students who are introverts tend to have better grades and test scores than extroverts, teachers still try to “get them out of their shell.” In Arnold Henjum’s article, “Introversion: A Misunderstood "Individual Difference" Among Students,” he states that “Many well-meaning teachers and parents try to mold the youth into socially outgoing individuals without understanding the …show more content…
“Introversion – along with its cousin’s sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness – is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology. Introverts living under the Extrovert Ideal are like women in a man’s world, discounted because of a trait that goes to the core of who they are. Extroversion is an enormously appealing personality style, but we’ve turned it into an oppressive standard to which most of us feel conform” (Cain, 4). Cain uses this simile to compare the introverts in an Extroverts ideal to a woman in a man’s world because most people would agree that it is very hard for a woman to get as much respect as a man, especially in a profession that is male-dominant. It explains how hard it actually is for introverts to get the respect they deserve in today’s society. Later on, Cain states, “I worry that there are people who are put into positions of authority because they’re good talkers, but they don’t have good ideas. It’s so easy to confuse schmoozing ability with talent. Someone seems like a good presenter, easy to get along with, and those traits are rewarded. Well why is that? They’re valuable traits, but we put too much of a premium on presenting and not enough on substance and critical
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The Many Persuasive Way of Jonathan Edwards During long, tiring speeches, is everyone always focused on the deliverer? Some people stray from the message very early in the presentation, others can hold on longer. There has to be a way to capture everyone’s attention at the same time, to involve every person in the same activity. Some people may have found that technique, in fact, one man had definitely accomplished this task.
He connects with the audience by establishing an agreement. He expresses gratitude by acknowledging that he has “privilege to speak in this beautiful Hall” (70). His humble introduction sets a peaceful tone for his speech. This offsets the potential for a defensive attitude within the audience. In appearing agreeable and humble, the audience relaxes.
Speakers play a big role in our every day lives. People give speeches around us all the time, whether it’s an intentional speech or an impromptu. Not every speech is given in a big auditorium with a humungous crowd. Some of the best speeches are given in a normal setting with just a small audience. When analyzing and critiquing an outside speaker there are many things that need to be accounted for that I am going to discuss about the speaker who I saw give her speech.
One specific mode which the speaker demonstrated very well in the speech was the use of ethos. Ethos is the credibility of the speaker that comes from their intellectual, moral and social qualities. Their credibility depends on the occasion, topic, and the emotions imposed on the audience. Suzuki mentioned her career as a professor of neuroscience and expertise in “memory work” to show the audience that she is educated about the specific topic. Nonetheless, I believe that the speaker should have included more information regarding her profession such as what her research interest is so she could seem more knowledgeable.
Considering that he speaks to large groups of students every day, he managed to keep his voice animated, and even though he stumbled over his words a little, he overall was very composed and kept the audience engaged. For the most part his physical delivery was minuscule because he was behind a podium. But he would use hand gestures at certain points to further express his point. The overall impression I conveyed from David McCullough is confidence, and because of title, as well as his confidence, he seemed very credible. And because of his confidence and credibility, the audience was very engaged and responsive.
Albert Einstein, Dr. Seuss, J. K. Rowling. With such an honorable registry, surely introverts must be appreciated members of society, right? Wrong. As Cain divulges, introverts are put at a disadvantage from the moment they are born, throughout school, and into the workforce, not by any flaw of their own, but by a society that upholds what Cain calls the “Extrovert Ideal”. From kindergarten to office jobs, it’s safe to say that life in America (and other countries, mainly those in the West) is geared towards the gregarious.
Extroverts can be some of the best people you meet. They have plenty to offer and thrive at the attention of others. However, being introverted can be just as great. In a society where being extroverted is the ideal, it can be very difficult to be an introvert. Susan Cain argues in her Ted Talk, “The Power of Introverts”, that introverts can share many brilliant ideas with the world and should be encouraged and celebrated for who they are.
“Are outsiders simply those who are misjudged or misunderstood?” When presented with this question, I immediately formed my opinion. This immediate reaction was most likely formed from the defensiveness I have allowed myself to have towards varying subjects. As my mother always says, “past predicts future.” I understand the argument of people who are “outsiders” are misjudged.
For an utopian society to exist, there needs to be a merging of conformity and individualism in the society. Pure individualism or pure conformity in a society leads to a lopsided and corrupted society; they need to exist in synchrony. In Merry Mount, the people follow an ideology of complete freedom of thought and of individualism. The Puritan’s society shows what happens when everyone conforms and no one expresses their individual beliefs. When the ideologies of conformity and individualism merge it combines into a greater society as a whole, better than either of the individual half’s.
He is immediately the center of attention. Pete makes short statements with little depth to them, and the crowd of people cheer/fawn over him while he makes these bland announcements; as confident people make great statements, but never ask non-rhetorical questions. " "We
Anyone that has ever literally tried having a conversation with a brick wall could come to this realization - having a real meaningful and effective conversation requires two logical people both interested in the other. After reading and studying Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People, I discovered my tactics for interacting with others weren’t parallel to the ways you can actually triumph in the social world. The quote by Dale Carnegie painted a clear picture for how I should go about interacting with others – “There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it.” The techniques used to obtain what we desire from people stem from our interpersonal skills and situational awareness.
His speaking skills, eye contact, and posture make the audience confident in his ability to improve their lives, making up for the lack of logic, and adding to his ethical and emotional appeal. The audience was so entranced with his speaking abilities and caught up in his message, they missed how the information seemed to jump around. The transitions between main points were seamless, so when only listening the first time it is not noticeable. It is the topics that are not put in a logical order and overall make him seem like he is not a credible
Digital Media, Social Interactions and Human Connections How has digital media changed social interactions? Do you believe it has deepened or weakened human connections? Defend your answer. Introduction In the premodern era, human communications were mostly through face to face interactions.
Personality is defined as the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual 's unique character. Personality theory is the approaches to understanding the “What”, “How” and “When” of characteristics and features that make up an individual 's personality. An insight into personality is important to understand the function of a person’s mind. By doing this you would be able to understand and observe your own psyche from an outside perspective, interact with others better and understand why they do what they do or predict how someone may react to something. My personality can be describe as Introverted since I am reserved, practical and quiet.