Family is the important and basic unit of society. The components of a typical family, the parents and their children, have their own duties, responsibilities, tasks, and reasons as to why they exist in the society. Children are not only sources of genuine happiness, but they also ensure the reproductive success of their parents’ lineage. Parents, on the other hand, are considered as the backbone of the family because the power is in their hands to plan, decide, and control family matters and events. It is their responsibility to nurture their children by means of providing the physiological, security, social, and self-esteem needs of their children.
Parenting styles literature review At present, it is well known that parents are not the only ones who contribute to the socialization process in children but they are still the main key concept in child development and socialization of children in society as the constitutes the first element of socialization for human beings (Maccoby, 1992). The relationship between parents and their children has a significant influence on the children, the parental styles are considering as effective elements that help the child to shape their view of themselves and their world (Santrock, 2005 as it cited in Sartaj and Aslam, 2010). Pinquart (2017) stated that there were two of perspectives had been adopted in parenting literature: first; a dimensional
school ,religion / spirituality exert external pressure on each of us . As the primary agent of socialisation and the first educator, the family plays an essential role in the transmission of fundamental values that encourage and nurture learning in the young Children’s s social background. It is still the most significant factor in determining their success. The performance of the child in school is determined by where they come from. Social background in this case refers to how the child is raised in terms of family setup i.e.
United Nations Declaration of Human Rights in Article 16 declares that “the family is the important group unit of society, and it was their responsibilities to protect the society and state too”. Family must guide their member especially children with values and norms of society. When a child was born, they carry the genetic makeup and biological traits of their parent. However, who they are as human beings will be developed through social interaction. Research says children more strong and understand when they belong to a caring and supportive family.
Especially for a primary school-age child, people always claim that parents are the role model of their kids. How parents treat them, how their kids behave. By learning unit 5, I better understand the concepts about parenting styles and how are they connecting to child development. It makes me start to recall my memories that how my parents taught me when I was young. By staying with my parents in these eighteen years time, I aware that they treat me a bit authoritative.
Hence it is clear that students’ attitude and performance is dependent on the stimulus the home provides. Educational nurturing is very much connected and influence by the family of an individual. Each and every member of the family acts as a model to the child as he/ she copies from each of them. Eyake (1997) quoted. Learning difficulties in students may perhaps be traced to other factors such as gender, locality, student’s attitudes, their intelligence, culture and their socio economic status.
Jesus taught us a long time ago how to teach responsibility, and to teach responsibility we must be responsible. We can and must teach responsibility for the good of our nation, families, churches, and children. Parents teach responsibility to their children while they are young, so they know better and learn as they get older. Part of that learning process is suffering the consequences for their actions. Parents giving and teaching responsibility to their children allows them to learn the importance of it, and the appreciation they 'll have for it once they 're older(Asher).
In this course, various motherhood concepts were represented in different picture book. Motherhood is a state when the mother takes care of her children and raises them with care and love. The cognitive behavior of parents affects children in either negative or positive manner (Joan E., G, Tanya, D., 2014). Children are the mirror of their parents as they reflect them in every way. Parents make their children opt for things that they like and restrict them from things they dislike.
Parents is a very important thing in shaping the personality of children. Parents are role model to their children. In reduce this problem, parents must spent time with their children though they busy with their works, take time to bring the children hang out like picnic, watching the movie or shopping with them and take time to hear the children problem. Another solution that can we use to reduce this problems is with the collaboration with government. In this case, government can do a campaign like dangerous of free sex.