Everyone has something to complain about, it is in our daily lives. Some complaints might be too much and annoying to others but we don’t know why people complain the way they do. The reason is we don’t know what people went through in life. So how we look at things will be different. We all have things we complain about and some decide whether to complain or not.
Be a good listener: To be a good listener is one of the greatest abilities you can have. It doesn’t matter what role you play as a listener a parent’s, teacher’s or a friend. If you want to be good at conversation and desire people to enjoy your company, you would have to be an observant and attentive to the thing people say. To make others interested in you, first you have to be interested in them. Invest your time in a person and they would return the favor.
While it’s OK to share your struggles with people (I recommend it), if you’re complaining all the time, and are generally negative about other people and life in general, then people get tired of the complaining and negativity. We have enough trouble in life without having friends who are negative all the time. That said, a good friend will always listen when you’re in need, so don’t take this as “never complain.” Instead, just generally try to be a positive person, and if you have struggles, also try to show how you’re tackling those struggles with a positive
• I have the ability to act with confidence. Weaknesses: • I sometimes find it difficult to resist helping people even when they don’t want my help. • I tend to become self-sacrifical who cannot do enough for others and in the process wearing myself out. • I tend to have trouble saying “NO” to requests and sometimes become stressed by trying to help others too much. • Feeling unappreciated is a trigger for me and I sometimes tend to feel sadness and self pity.
I still experience momentary negative thoughts about myself sometimes, but rather than let it take hold of me, I assess the situation to identify the cause of the feeling, and I banish them from my thoughts. Self-love takes perseverance. There is this nagging little voice that’s always telling you of your inadequacies; you must not listen to it. Get a hold of yourself and impress positivity on your consciousness. The journey is not a smooth ride, it really is bumpy.
Listening breaks down the barriers between individuals by paving the way for mutual understanding and cooperation. Good listening prevents communication gap and facilitates a fair grasp of the objectives and priorities of individuals and institutions. Attentive listening prevents the need for repetitions and thus save precious time. Normally, people listen to improve their knowledge, to obtain information, to follow directions, to be able to solve problems, to share experiences and feelings of joy and sorrow, to express opinions, to give judgments, and finally to learn new
It is such a delicate time in one 's life and you may be additional touchy to everything. Numerous individuals don 't realize what to say to somebody who is harming. Frequently the individual will endeavor to improve you feel by attempting to give you an answer in the matter of why the misfortune happened or let you know how you ought to feel. You may have likewise encountered those individuals who simply dodge you in light of the fact that your misfortune is excessively uncomfortable for them. These individuals don 't comprehend that everything you need is minding and solace, or perhaps they simply don 't know how to give it.
Responding can be done verbally by paraphrasing, summarizing, asking questions or by expressing their own thoughts on the matter. The receiver can also respond non-verbally by nodding their head, smiling, or by maintaining good body language. Without this step, communication would not be collaborative. The receiver’s feedback is part of responding and helps the sender ensure you understood what has been said. Developing the skill of being an effective listener is a vital communication skill.
Often they need mentors, advisers – someone to give them a friendly nudge. I want to spend less time talking about myself, and more time listening to what other people have to say about me and them” I do not mind being hated for who i am than be loved foe who I am not! I am who I am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me. I don't care what other people think of me. I don't care how they see me because at the end of the day it's just between I, ME, MYSELF and GOD.