Introduction:
Family rituals happen in every family, passed down from generation to generations or establishing new family rituals as you start a family of your own. This paper will include my personal family rituals and what we do to form a strong relationship with each other. It will also include South African typical rituals and comparing it with our family rituals. Family rituals include celebrations, traditions and interaction with others (Spagnola and Fiese, 2007, 284). Taking that into consideration I will focus on these aspects as well.
South African rituals vs personal rituals:
Rituals help to build relationship with family members but also with friends and partners. Rituals can be the positive and negative change in relationships
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Talking about different cultures and using different vocabulary and language terms can widen children’s knowledge. After a busy and tired week we would have a nice Sunday family lunch together and hear about new stories and what we have planned for the week to come. Closeness and distance, connection with each other and detachment with family members can be seen through having rituals (Walsh, 485).
While having a dinner meal we as a family discuss past experiences and we also talk about future plans and things that we would like to do together as a family. My brother and I would talk about what we have learned at school and in this way we would learn from one another and widen our perspectives and
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I did not have a car when I started studying and my dad used to drop me off at class and my mother fetched me after class and this car rides were what made my day. We would catch up on everything that happens in our busy lives. Our talks were personal and yet also fun and we got to form a stronger bond in our relationship instead of drifting apart because of the busy lifestyles that we had. We believe strongly in the family bond. Because of my father’s past experience with his family, he concentrated on the fact that we as a family must grow strong and we should have a personal relationship with each other as opposed to being just another person in each other’s life (Stone, 2016).
Afrikaans people believe that when you have your first born child she or he will be named after the maternal mother or father. Children are often raised in a Christian household and attend church every Sunday. After a certain age the child then becomes a member of the church and are allowed to have communion. (Smith,
She introduces three aspects those will help parents and faith communities nurture children’s spirituality, they are, story, ritual, and relationship. Telling stories of faith and living lives in faith will become a great model for children’s own faith development and will help them establish their own “identities with God and with God’s story.” Children’s spirituality form and develop when they see adults participating faith community’s and family’s ritual regularly and consistently. The author introduces helpful examples of ways of participate in faith ritual which faith communities and families can practice together over and over because it needs discipline to become spiritual habit in our lives. This way, our children will more likely to “incorporate God’s value and God’s way of life into their lives as they move into adulthood.”
Presently, our friend does not happen to speak German, and only recalls of a few of her German traditions celebrated within her family. That 's why it is important to pass on tradition through generations so that cultures are celebrated and not forgotten. Intercultural communication is about mutual understanding and that is possible only if we understand each others ' histories and cultures. Of course, the knowledge of historical causes that shaped the decisions and circumstances in the past gives us a better understanding of our present. It aids us to understand why we make different choices, or why we don 't think and behave in exactly the same way.
English Essay Q3 Texts used : The Altar of the Family and At Seventeen Traditionally, society views males as strong, aggressive, dominant and unemotional individuals while females play unimportant and demure roles within society. Sheila Morehead’s “At Seventeen” and Michael Wilding’s “The Altar of the Family” challenge this idea of masculinity and gender roles, “The Altar of the Family” especially does this as the protagonist of the short story is a young boy, David. David is constructed to challenge the stereotypes of masculinity and through this the author is able to push the message that being a man doesn’t mean you need to conform to these gender stereotypes and not conforming to the stereotypes doesn’t result in being a failure as a person.
In the mid-nineteenth century, a girl named Ni-bo-wi-se-gwe (Oona) was born in pitch darkness in the middle of the day when the sun and moon crossed paths. The book Night Flying Woman by Ignatia Broker is the biography of Broker’s great-great-grandmother, Oona. It describes Oona’s life through what Broker has learned from her grandparents when they passed down the stories. In the book, one of the main themes is passing traditions on. I chose this theme because, in the book, passing traditions on is a major part of the characters’ culture.
With much of the world becoming focused on individual goals and ideas, it is necessary to remember the importance of family relationships. Through family bonds, people may find support that they would not find anywhere else, giving them the strength to push through difficult situations. The support that family relationships provide may be seen with an example from my own life as well as from Elie Wiesel’s novel Night. Family can be very crucial when it comes to dealing with tough situations in life.
Cultural relativism is the understanding of other cultures in their own terms. To achieve the understanding of the rituals used in the cultures of another, one must be able to look at them from an emic (insider) perspective. One must also be able to look at his own culture from an etic (outsider) perspective. The ability to look at one’s culture from the etic point of view will make it easier to explain the rituals to someone from a different culture, for example, rites of passage. Rites of passage are used to mark a life stage and are celebrated by tradition or religion, meant to separate a specific group.
List of traditions of your culture and how it related to your family The culture I identify is African American. The African American culture have several traditions that my family and I practice. The traditions of the African American culture that are practices among my family are maintaining family relationships, practicing Christianity, maintain hospitality, gaining education, and cooking.
Introduction Today’s society consist of a variety of different cultures. Each cultures has their own identity, customs, and beliefs. In my community we have several strong, family oriented cultures.
Speech, language and communication can be supported through play and activities in a number of different ways, children/young people need the opportunity to express themselves using language. It is important to help them develop language skills and to help them use language effectively. It is essential to listen to what is being said and respond appropriately. It is important to be aware of any additional needs, and if English is a second language.
As a child growing up in an Asian household, I quickly became aware of how different my parents’ style of teaching was when compared to my other friends in elementary school. I remember feeling very surprised to hear how lenient most of my friend’s families were. I could never dream of even asking my parents at that age if I was allowed to stay over at a friend’s house. Everything, for me, revolved around doing chores and getting good grades. It was also strange for me to see how close and warm my friends’ families were together; where there were dedicated nights for board games or nights where they would watch TV together.
These rituals also create a sense of moral community, in which people conform to, which furthers their purpose and meaning in
Culture is also important to consider the reason for this is because children are all different from one another and have diverse cultures. An example would be baking/cooking some ingredients are not allowed for certain cultures. Due to this it must be prepared for all the children to have and take place in the activity so that none of them are not
In a family there are many different roles; there's the role of the mother, the father, the child, the grandparents, then there’s the brothers and sisters. Every single one of those roles has different responsibilities. The father, according to most of society, is supposed to be the breadwinner for the family. However, nowadays the mother is actually quite capable of being the breadwinner just as much of as the father. As they work to show their children what it is to be an adult they are teaching them as well on how to be an active member of society.
transmitted from generation to generation by percept, teaching, and example, [are] not — at least all practical purposes — psychogenic in origin” (Turner 1978:573). In his study of the Ndembu tribe of Zambia, Turner (1967:19) defined ritual as "prescribed formal behaviour for occasions not given over to technological routine, having reference to beliefs in mystical beings and powers. " In Ndembu rituals are seen as authoritative and essential values for their tribe. Symbols are seen as a reference to the supernatural their religious beliefs.
South Africa has a vast range of religious groups. To list a few of the many religions we will be briefly discussing, are Christianity, Islam, Hinduism and African Culture. However there are many more. Every religious group serves a significant purpose to promote oneself as being spiritually motivated, with each individual possessing unique moral teachings, a code of conduct, values and norms.