Woodrow Wilson once said, “Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together (Goodreads).” I didn’t comprehend what that meant until high school. Nevertheless, the transition from a private middle school to a public high school changed me for the better. It helped me realize what true friends are like and how friends can guide you to change and improve your life beneficially. Now, I believe it’s important to find friends who care about you and help affect your life positively.
Before I came into high school, I didn’t understand what real friendship was. I went to a small private school from preschool all the way to the eighth grade. Though I knew everyone in my class and my school, it was quite difficult to find a group of friends I could truly connect with through those years. However, from the outside, I did see the many groups of cliques in the school. Even though we were all in the same maroon and white uniforms, we were extremely separated. In classes, people would pass their wadded-up notes and
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However, in these past two years, I have learned so many things about friendship. Friends have struggles too. They fight, but they also come together in times of need because they care about each other and want to build each other up, like a second family. My friends want me to be successful in my life. I know that I will be with these same friends in the future because they have the same values as me. We all try to help each other with problems that we have relating to our futures, like looking at colleges and getting good grades through studying together and tutoring each other. At the same time, we help each other have fun and realize that life should be full of quality times with the people you love and shouldn’t always be so serious. I believe that it is important to have friends that care about you because they can help you in all kinds of situations and impact your life
Friendship is the divine feeling or relationship of care for one another. A friend is there to boost yourself confidence they stand by us confidently making us believe in ourselves. Friends are there to listen to the nonsense happening in our life and are understanding. In the novel Of Mice And Men by John Steinbeck it talks and shows the meaning of friendship and how it's important in our life and in the book.
Friendship offers numerous blessings that enrich life. A good friend makes happy days brighter and sad days more tolerable by demonstrating loyalty, optimism, and a spirit of adventure. Loyalty is staying faithful to a friend through both good and bad times. Optimism is looking on the bright side no matter how bad the situation may be. An adventurous spirit is being willing to take risks and try new things.
For the first year, I stayed in contact with my friends through Facebook and we would meet up once in awhile for playdates and birthday parties, but it would not last. Eventually, after a couple of years, I became more and more engulfed in my new circle of friends in public school. As a result, I grew more distant with my old Schechter friends and would only see them a handful of times a year. Fast forward seven years later, I’m a senior in high school and I’m at the point where I see them close to
What’s the purpose of friendship? Unfortunately, I was forced to learn this the hard way when I attended the ‘Virginia Aerospace Science and Technology Scholars’ Summer Academy over the summer of my junior year. The experience at the academy was unlike any other, but the challenge to make new friends was the most intimidating there than anywhere else that I’ve visited, especially at my own school. Yet, my school holds many of the common and well known people, such as teachers, that I could lean on for mental support, while at the academy had everything but Franklin County. What I meant by ‘but Franklin County’, I am actually referring to the wide varieties of different ethnicities and educational backgrounds that imploded into one single summer
You would never see a jock hanging out with the nerds or a richie mingling with a weirdo. Although, these groups are formed off of first glance, hair, style, social status, race, wealth, etc. If people had ventured out of their groups and actually listened and acknowledged the other people surrounding them, then maybe the characters would have already been friends. Or better yet there wouldn’t be any cliques in the first place.
Friendship can change a person, but it can also change in an instant. After my crucible with Alexa, I realized that it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Because of that incident, I became best friends with Nicole, and Nicole helped me redefine the meaning of a best friend. A best friend is someone that always has your back, supports you, and encourages you. Nicole helped me grow into someone that speaks her mind; she encouraged me not to be as shy as before. Because of the choice Alexa made, she realized that the friends she chose were not her real friends; she grew into a better, happier person. Alexa and I are friends again, but Nicole, and I are still best friends.
Gross Schechter Day School was my home for 9 years, I grew up there and it helped shaped me into who I am today. Imagine this, the same 7 girls, and the same 12 boys, your whole life. You might think you would fit it with everyone, and everything would be okay. Well, you would be wrong.
My friends always know how to make me feel happy and grateful for the littlest things. My friends also teach me that I should notice the small things in life. I am very grateful that I have friends and a family who challenge me to be a better person and live a better life. I believe what makes a life worth living is learning from mistakes, learning about life, and growing as a person, and my family and friends teach and challenge me with this
Some peer groups can be good and some can be bad. The peer group that I was a part of in high school was bad. In high school I was always a little different and did not have many fiends because the clique or peer group in my high school used the Social Typing which is a “labeling process that begins when a person violates a norm. Negate sanctions are applied to norm violates in the form of criticisms, punishments, and/or labels.” They labeled me as a “dorky weird girl.”
Hi Daniel. From reading your post, you seem like a pretty chill person! I’m very surprised that in your group of friends in middle school there wasn’t a ‘leader’. Usually, there is that one person that tends to stand out a little bit more than the rest, and sometimes without necessarily wanting too, they are seen as the head of the group. But, I think it’s a lot better to not have that ‘leader’, that way no one feels peer pressured to do something.
Accordingly, some people think they are what they do, what they achieve, or even what others think of them. Everyone has an expectation for who he/she will become, but does that define who he/she is? Friends have a tremendous impact on our lives. Sometimes they are there to encourage us and still other times they are the very ones to break us down and leave us all alone. Gene and Finny had a love-hate relationship.
People say friendship is key to life and i really think it is because they help you so much in ways you can't even explain.
As 7th grade started, my social life came to a definitive close. I struggled greatly with friends, primarily because one of my good friends had left Trafton in 6th grade to receive home schooling, and because all of my other friends from elementary schools attended other schools. I attempted to reach more friendly terms with people who I previously
According to an article Molly Edmonds, (N,d) you are with people for everything in your whole life cycle. Friendship is something that will give you a good time or bad time. All friends are someone you can easily talk to about your or their issues in life, For example, family problems or ask for help with school work like everyone needs help with something. A true friendship needs honestly, trust who will always stand with you in your bad or good times no matter what. You can easily become friends with anyone in one step of life is called communication with any type of age or a gender.
Be that as it may, my brother and I were not fond of the idea of hanging with the same people every day, so we started to meet with the many different groups all around the school. We were able to relate with and befriend almost all of the diversified social groups. Soon after, other people began to branch out as well by talking to the groups that they did not associate with. By the end of the school year, groups were not decided by race, but by the various hobbies and activities that each group enjoyed. Such examples include the formation of athletic based and school based social cliques.