Interpersonal Relationships, especially close and intimate interpersonal relationships, are imperative for the social and psychological growth of the people in the relationship. In today 's society, people in close relationships desire emotional support, acceptance, and love. These characteristics and needs are part of our nature, and individuals strive for these types of interpersonal relationships in order to fulfill their need for close interactions with others and, above all, to make sense of life through trust, sharing, and caring. Throughout my high school years, and during my time at Clackamas, I 've been able to meet and form friendships with many interesting people. In high school, I was able to meet many close friends and acquaintances, …show more content…
Dr. Mark Knapp 's theory suggests that interpersonal relationships develop through several stages. My relationship with my best friend, Massimo, has gone through the coming together stages of initiating, experimenting, intensifying, and integrating. At this point, we have only experienced the differentiating and circumscribing stages of the coming apart stages of Dr. Knapp 's model. During my Sophomore year at Gladstone High School, I was the president of the Robotics club, and it was my responsibility to recruit new club members during schoolwide assemblies and other large events. Anyone who knows me well would say that I am a shy person, and I detest speaking in front of large groups. During the first assembly of the year, I was very nervous because it would be my first time addressing the school as a whole. While I was speaking, I suddenly noticed a boy who looked very familiar. He sat …show more content…
During this phase, we engaged in a lot of small talk, searching for common ground between us. It was a natural feeling and desire to want to get to know him better. I could tell from his nonverbal communication of friendly facial expressions and inviting hand gestures, the feeling of wanting to get to know each other seemed mutual. We exchanged information about where we grew up, what schools we attended, why his family decided to move to Oregon, and what we wanted to be when we grew up. We asked many superficial questions such as class schedules, likes and dislikes about other students, the challenges of living with older siblings, and about the nasty cafeteria food. After discussing about the classes that we were taking, we realized that we were taking the same classes. Then I suggested we study together for the midterms and finals. He liked the idea and
The teacher told us to stop talking again. We were sitting in the center of the gym (where we sit every time). We all were looking for someone to talk with when I found Jimmy. I walked over to him and we started talking.
We also were talking about where he graduated and I asked him about his college career. Then we were able to play catch on the official New England Patriots field. Then we went on a tour of the field. We went around and
What’s the purpose of friendship? Unfortunately, I was forced to learn this the hard way when I attended the ‘Virginia Aerospace Science and Technology Scholars’ Summer Academy over the summer of my junior year. The experience at the academy was unlike any other, but the challenge to make new friends was the most intimidating there than anywhere else that I’ve visited, especially at my own school. Yet, my school holds many of the common and well known people, such as teachers, that I could lean on for mental support, while at the academy had everything but Franklin County. What I meant by ‘but Franklin County’, I am actually referring to the wide varieties of different ethnicities and educational backgrounds that imploded into one single summer
Another instance is when we talked about taking a speed reading class. One day I got off of work. Bob was waiting at my house. He signed us up for a
Friendships Within the Pilot Episode of Freaks and Geeks Interpersonal communication is crucial to the development, advancement, and maintenance of friendships. With well- developed communication skills, one can turn a casual acquaintance into a lifelong friend, or an acquaintance into a significant other. This being said, communication is a double edged sword. If one lacks the ability or willingness to communicate openly and effectively, they may experience social isolation or a loss of previous friends.
In my study group are my two friends, Porter and Alyssa. I know Porter from high school and I know Alyssa from ballet, so both member of my study group are former friends. We meet on Thursday nights after dinner. We started this study group about a month ago, so we’ve met four times so far.
We get to college and we have to go to orientation. They split the freshman into groups and Liam and I are in the same orientation group. Everyone introduces themselves to the group and we talk about what we want to do when we get out of college. We head back to our dorms and unpack. And my roommate is really nice and we become friends.
I was struggling to find out why I was losing sight of my favorite trait: being a social butterfly. When I first entered college, I was so energetic and spontaneous with all the people I met. But, after my sophomore year, I realized something changed within me. I stopped trying to keep friendships alive and barely surrounded myself with others, besides those who are close to me. Through this course and backpacking trip, I was able to gain insights on why I was like this.
All around the world people beat themselves up over trying to find love to have these fantasy and unrealistic relationships in books, movies, and even social media, nowadays you see it everywhere. This is not the only way to find a trusting, dedicated, and committed relationship with another person. Thomas Oppong's article “Good Social Relationships Are The Most Consistent Predictor of a Happy Life” states that for people who want to experience happiness in their life, it's important to not “forget to connect and build better relationships with people” (Oppong). By doing this, connections around us can be a lot more positive and make our relationships better. These meaningful relationships can come from family, friendship, and even pets.
As a student in elementary school, I never had very many friends. I was never invited to parties or hang outs and was always kind of left out. Sure, my classmates didn’t mean to do this to me, but the reality of it hurt. This year, I changed. I took what I had learned and I made something better out of it.
Although researchers have tried to defined friendship simply focused on the differences between friends and non-friends, Willard Hartup (1996) cited in Brownlow (2012, p. 239) argues that a whole range of relationship is possible from best friend to good friend to occasional friend to non-friend. Therefore, it is far more complex than just a definition between friends and non-friends. Now that friendship is defined it is essential to define and understand qualitative approach. Unlike a quantitative data, qualitative method or approach involves the analysis of talk, interview material and written text such as transcripts, newspaper diaries or articles and it does not use any measurements nor is in numerical form.
The pillars of friendship, including trust, communication, and empathy, are the traits that enhance
At lunch I sat next to Marco who i had met in a one of my classes. He told me more about how the school functions and such. Lunches here were different you could go anywhere you wanted and for the first day I hung out with Marco and then as the days progressed I didn't know who to hang out with. I spent most of my time in the library and did my
Friendships should be sources of warmth and comfort for those involved, but this “friendship” does not provide any
He mentioned his occupation and I immediately grew more interested in our conversation. I started asking him many question of firefighting and starting growing in love with the idea of being a firefighter.