The character of an individual is not judged on the mistakes made throughout a lifespan, but is based on what knowledge that individual has gained through those experiences. The only way to make mistakes in the first place is to take a chance, and famous actor Jim Carrey says; "I learned many, many lessons from my father, but not least of which is that you can fail at something you don 't want, so you might as well take a chance doing what you love.” I am not exactly where I want to be in life, but I am taking the necessary steps to get there and when a barrier is set in front of me I don’t give up; I just look for an alternate route. Being a candidate for the Rent Free Housing would create a less stressful environment for me and help with financial …show more content…
To sum it up, I was a young shy girl born in North Carolina. I have one sister and two parents who cannot stand each other. When I was five years old we moved to Virginia, and shortly after my parents thankfully got a divorce. Although a divorce is not ideal, I believe in my case that the situation was improved by my parents separation. My parents are great people as individuals, but they turn into terrible people when they are together. So, they didn’t get a real divorce until many years later, just because they couldn’t agree on anything. A huge portion of my childhood was spent in court discussing my home life with a judge. Something that always got me through was my sister. No matter how scary a situation was I always had her to protect me. As I got older, around 15, my parents started to loosen up. They still hate each other, but instead of arguing about things they started to let me make my own decisions; I wasn’t very good at it. Around this time I started to get into trouble with drinking. I was a tolerant and nice girl my whole life and at the time I felt that I would take the opportunity to stop caring about anything. So, I started partying and
I have been in many different family dynamics. I can relate to the people who have both parents in their life and I can relate to the people who don’t have any parents. This period of my life is where I grew the most. It is the period when I realized I get to choose my outcome. I can choose to be angry for the rest of my life or I can choose to be happy and look at the past
When I was growing up, I barely ever got to see my father and brother. Lily grew up without her mother. When I was around 1 years old, my mother and father got divorced. My mother took me with her and my father kept my brother and sister. My mother told me, that my father was abusive told her and my brother and sister.
I grew up with a single mother who eventually married and had two children, but then divorced and is a single mother again. I was relied on by my mother to co-parent my sisters, being 8 months and 3 at the time. My whole teenage life consisted of being a second mother to my two little sisters. It was a taxing, unfair, resentful time in my life. I love my sisters more than anything
and then was court ordered to move in with my mom, things changed. I know had a little half-brother who would grow up to be my best friend. Throughout high school I would turn to my family in support with bullies and petty girl drama. They were my rock. My Junior and Senior year were the toughest emotionally.
One of the biggest difficulties during this time was my brother was very sick when he was born, and he needed surgery to fix a problem with his stomach, and she was taking him back and forth from the doctor frequently plus my sister was only 18 months old. My mom stated, “I don’t know how I got through it, “while discussing this stage of her life but never felt isolated in any way. I was born later which a five year age gap between me and my brother. My mom told me, “After Eileen and John were born, I felt like I was going to be pregnant very year because they were born so close together. It was my biggest fear I would have all these kids, and get lost, but thankfully this did not happen.”
My parents still fight over little things. Not nearly as much as they used to though. The road back is still in progress along with my “Hero 's Journey.” Throughout this whole time all of my experiences fell into place on the cycle of the “Hero 's Journey.” Mine will continue on until the day I die and so will anybody else 's.
About a few months I was with them trouble making and everything drugs, fights, and vandalism. Starting high school I began to notice that the decision I 've made were wrong I began to change I started to pay attention to school, I got out of what I was in, grades began to change and my way of life hanged to began to care and
So here I was a 9th grade being only 14 taking care of my sister (who is two years younger than me) having no license or anything to help me. I learned to be really independent and caring, also I matured for my age faster than most kids at my age. After my Mina passed away my parents fought worse than ever and seperated and I went and lived with my mom
My senior year, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. She was given six months to live since she refused to take chemo and radiation. At that time, I was a teenager, recently kicked out of my house by my stepfather at the age of 16. Let me explain, I was at work, I had done nothing wrong it was my sister who he was mad at, but I paid the cost of her actions. My mother stayed there with him leaving us to our own device.
When you are older people tend to take divorces much harder than someone who is younger. Younger kids can not always comprehend what is going on. They usually do not realize what has happened until they are much older. I was very understanding at the time on what was happening. I took it harder than any of my sisters ever did.
Next, my mom started yelling at him because he lost his job with drinking and drugs. Finally, my mom told my dad that he has a drinking problem and that she was going to move out. Also because he wasn’t treating her right by cheating and having an affair with another woman. Kelsey, my mom, and I then move out after they have had enough with all the yelling and fighting. My mom and dad soon then got divorced and all goes good but only for a while.
I never thought my parents would get in a divorce. In fact, when I was younger I did not think parents ever got divorced. I was very upset and I felt like the whole thing was my fault. When I started fifth grade, I used to get dismal about the divorce and it started to affect my behavior at home and at times, it would even affect my attitude at school. My mom informed the school counselor and arranged for me to meet with the counselor weekly to express how I was feeling.
I don’t believe that every family is perfect. Even though as a young child I thought my situation was abnormal, little did I know most of my friends were going through the same thing. Even though I handled my parents separations relatively well I am not one to believe that this is the case for everyone. My parents always told me the truth. They didn’t sugar coat the situation or lie to me.
Making mistakes is an important part of life. We learn from our mistakes. Mistakes are the best lessons of our life. They are something that happens unintentionally and without the knowledge of a human being. The only way mistakes can be avoided is to never do anything.
Ever since I can remember, I have always wanted to be successful in life. I have always wanted to be the better version of my parents and achieve many things in life. During my freshman year in High school, I knew I was going to major in business. I come from a household of five, my father, mother, two younger sisters, and myself. I am the first in my family to go to college and with that being said, I have always felt the pressure to be the best role model and example for my younger sisters.