Goals. Love them or hate them, it’s that time of the year when just about
everyone starts to list them out.
Goals are meant to inspire and to motivate. They’re meant to give us focus and
direction in business and in life.
But goals often end up doing the opposite.
When you don’t manage to achieve your goals, you may feel like a loser or a
failure.
I’ve been there and chances are so have you…
When you fall short of your goals, it leaves the door open for self-doubt, lack of
confidence and other incredibly damaging beliefs to creep in.
To avoid this pain, many people vow not to bother with goals but this is a huge
mistake.
There is immense power in setting and achieving goals
When you have something meaningful to aim at and you hit
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You won’t be afraid to be more ambitious in your business or to try exciting, new
experiences in your personal life.
The point is not to give up on goals altogether but to reframe your mindset so
you can achieve the ones that you set.
Here are 3 simple mindset reframes that will help you achieve your goals in 2017
Mindset Reframe #1 Play the Long Game
One of the biggest mistakes most people make when it comes to creating and
hitting their goals is an unnecessary need for speed.
While some of your goals may be short term — run a marathon, go sky diving —
others need to be maintained over a lifetime.
Achieving a healthy body weight or quitting cigarettes are good examples.
When you’re going for a long-term goal, resist the temptation for speed. This is a
formula for failure.
Instead, look at ways you can sustain your energy and your willpower long
enough to turn these goals into habits that last a lifetime.
Reframe #2 Quit
It’s a four-letter word and you need to get comfortable with it.
Just about every self-help book will tell you that you must never quit. Ever.
This is wrong. It is even dangerous to approach your goals with a “never,
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