The Importance Of Self-Confidence

“ You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself. I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along. You must do the thing you think you cannot do”- Eleanor Roosevelt.

From the quote above by Eleanor Roosevelt, we can see confidence is important factor to everyone because it can lead us to become a greater strength and capabilities. It is important to everyone as a potential manager soon. The more self confidence in our self, it will make us feel more powerful in doing anything in a daily routine.

What is actually self-confidence? Based on my opinion, Self-confidence is a believing in our self of what our capabilities

Some people believe they are able to do anything instead of giving a chance to others. There are three categories level of confidence which is low, over and moderate confidence. People who have low in self-confidence often having a problem in term of believing their ability and low motivation as well. They tend to be a silencer among a group members when having a meeting or discussion because of the feeling unable to give an ideas or might be fear of rejected by others. Besides, mostly people who have low self-confidence can be a negative thinker where is this people always put negative view on others. The also do not have any drive or direction in order to accomplish their goals in future. What are the causes this people are having low self-confidence? It is might be because of pressure from family, work and from friend. Bad history also tend to make people feel low in their self-confidence. “According to ( Dr. Vincent Berger, 2005 ) absence of self-assurance is not as a matter of course identified with absence of capacity. Rather, it is regularly the consequence of concentrating a lot on the unreasonable desires or models of others, particularly guardians and society. Companions ' impacts can be as effective or more intense than those of guardians and society in forming emotions about one 's

In my opinion the characteristic people who have overconfidence, they often feel that they are perfect in doing anything and underistimate the risk. They expect everything they have done it must be in a good result. When they faced a failure or judgement from others that want to improve thier skill especially in presentaion, they cannot easily accept that " People with high self-assurance commonly have little dread of the obscure, can support what they have faith in, and have the valor to hazard shame. Losing certainty is no more confiding in the capacity to perform. It might be sensible as the aftereffect of past inability to perform, or outlandish, on the grounds that one "simply has an inclination" about something or is having question. ( Dr. Vincent Berger, 2005 )”In addition, talking about self-confidence, for me I want to be more confidence in many aspects such confidence relationships, confidence in communication skill either in public speaking or personal communication, it can be confidence in writing and confidence in appearance. Confidence in relationships its related to us on how we develop a relationships among team members or relationships between employer and employees if we become a manager soon. Some people believe, if somebody has confidence in writing or confidence communication it does not mean they have confidence in building a good