A difficult struggle that I have experienced in my life would be having a child at such a young age. The struggles I would have to face didn’t face me at the time. This decision made me grow up and have to be more responsible. Not only was I responsible for myself, but having to be for another life. I never thought someone like myself would be in this predicament that I was in. Hearing that my pregnancy test had come back positive wasn’t something my mentality was ready for at the time. Thinking about how I was going to take care of my baby was always on my mind. My situation wasn’t like babysitting, I couldn’t give this baby back when I was done watching him. The baby was mine, and mine forever. I didn’t care at the time about my …show more content…
After the birth of my son was when everything felt surreal. I couldn’t go out with friends anymore. I couldn’t relax and sleep in. Being a new and young mother was very hard. I can’t do anything or go anywhere without brining my baby along. I was very scared when he first got sick. I wasn’t experienced with this sort of thing. So I would have to take him to the hospital. If I didn’t go there I would have my mom help me when she could.
I thought every time that he got sick that I was doing something wrong. I was very scared of making the wrong decisions for the both of us. I was kind of thrown in to being a mother not realizing how much work there was. I started to get the hang of things and got a job once he started preschool. As my son grew he had so much love from my family, that he was well taken care of.
As the years went by, seeing him grow up, I thought about my education a little bit, but it was not enough to continue. I went through a selfish faze where I wanted “me time” and explore my freedom. Maybe it was due to me missing out on so much “so I thought” when I had my son. My love didn’t change for him, I was just confused, young, and my priorities were messed
We went to the attendance office to pull him out of class and they said they couldn’t because they were outside and my Dad was starting to get mad because my Mom was about to give birth to my little brother any minute and my Dad could not miss it. We finally got him out of class and we flew to the hospital. When we got there we went straight to a room because my dad had to go to my mom because she was having a baby. While we were in the waiting room we watched T.V on a big flat screen T.V. We sat in there for about four hours waiting, it was like watching paint dry it was the longest time of my life. Justin and I were watching some Zeke and Luther and the doctor comes in and says “Do you want to see your baby brother”.
As a parent for the weekend, I lost a lot of sleep, didn’t get to do much, and struggled getting my homework done, but I learned a lot. I learned that I overall liked having a child. The fact that I had to care for another human being brought me joy. Along with learning what I did like, I learned about what I didn’t like. One thing I didn’t like was very time I picked up the baby I wanted to play with him
Shortly after moving back to Peachtree City, my mom had my little brother, Luke, and not long after, four months to be exact, we were in a car accident. A young lady ran a red light and t boned us in at an intersection. My father hit his head and got a severe concussion causing him to forget a lot of things. My mom had already had a bad back and the accident made it worse. That being said, I really had to step it up, and help my siblings and parents take care of Luke.
All I wanted to do was go back home. I started to feel better when the nurses introduced my mom and I to the playroom in the hospital. There were blocks, Legos, and even a play kitchen. I was so happy, despite being sick. My mom played with me during the daytime.
It was tough growing up raising seven children all on your own. Out of the seven only two graduated high school. My parents never finished school, so they weren’t the type to push us to attend to school. At one point of time I thought to myself since they didn’t show us that they cared. Then I shouldn’t take my education serious either.
so that was a challenge. Again, I say within 3 months I changed my position, so by the time our daughter was born, we were on the same page that we would do everything possible for our
I was looking for love, something that I missed growing up. I was totally in love. Not knowing that I was going to live through the same thing that my mother did. Everything, change when I had my son. To him, he owned me.
Since Fate had told me I wasn’t good enough to be someone’s Mom, I had felt at liberty to live a pretty unconventional life; a U.S. Marine, Operating Engineer on heavy equipment, Land Surveyor, a wife, and now an airplane mechanic. Life had afforded me so many great adventures, sometimes rationalizing their importance in lieu of motherhood, was soothing. I mulled over all the times in my life I had hoped against the laws of nature and medicine; I could be that miracle case. Out of desperation, once spending thousands of dollars on In Vitro Fertilization; resulting in a failed marriage, and excessive drinking.
You become worried about your physical and psychological states. Not to mention the added things that you should carefully think about like baby names, pregnancy health and care, which foods are safe to eat, and your baby’s movements. You are able to deal with everything despite of all the changes that are happening to you while thinking about more changes that will occur when your baby is born. If that isn’t awesome, we don’t know what is!
‘But we did work it out. You see, before a child comes to one of us there is a period of utter exaltation—the whole being is uplifted and filled with a concentrated desire for that child. We learned to look forward to that period with the greatest caution. Often our young women, those to whom motherhood had not yet come, would voluntarily defer it. When that deep inner demand for a child began to be felt she would deliberately engage in the most active work, physical and mental; and even more important, would solace her longing by the direct care and service of the babies we already had.
The day I changed my first diaper was one that changed my life. When I was at the pubescent age of eleven, I was asked by my family to change my Cousin Isabella’s diaper. For most people this would seem like an easy and simple task that would be done very quickly. This was not the case for me. Isabella is one of the feistiest toddlers that I have ever met, and I love her with my entire heart.
It was apparent that becoming a father was undoubtedly John’s greatest achievement. Despite his pride in becoming a father, John was not the most compassionate, and spent most of his time and
Giving birth to a child is one of the jubilant privilege gifted to a woman. The feeling of having a life grow within you, is beyond any comparison. The decision to become pregnant can be monotonous or planned. But, the emotional aspect of nurturing a life within you and then with you, is the actual feeling of motherhood.
I can still remember like it was yesterday the day my son was born. The feelings leading up to the day he was born were the most nerve racking days of my life. On August 27th 2015 me and my wife sat at home expecting the our son any moment. My mother was also with us and was there to help us after the baby was born. As the day went by the house filed with boredom and the feeling of nervousness, and outside being gray and rainy I knew that it wasn 't a beach day.
Being a teen mother was super hard I just couldn 't keep up with my homework anymore. I also had to think what was more important and I knew it was my son, It was starting to get harder for me money wise, so I decided to get a babysitter and a job. One year later I was making decent money wisely and got used to being a mom. There were times I would struggle slightly, but one day my friend told me why didn 't I try to get welfare I told her "I don 't know how to."