As a young girl I was attached to the hip of my grandmother. Every morning, before my parents went to work, my father would drop me off at my grandparents house so they could watch me for the day. Although, my parents hated to leave me, I always looked forward to spending the day at my grandparents. As soon as my father and I pulled in the driveway, my grandmother would meet me at the door. I walked into her house and could hear the bacon sizzling, and eggs frying on the stove. I walked into the kitchen and pulled up a barstool and started helping my grandmother knead the dough for the biscuits. She popped the biscuits in the oven, and started to clean the house. All of a sudden the fire alarm started going off. Oh no! She said. The kitchen was filled with smoke, she began to cough as she opened the oven door. She quickly took the biscuits out of the oven. My grandmother looked so frustrated. She was quick as a whip and for her to forget something like this aggravated her. After breakfast, we would go play outside in the garden planting pink rose bushes, then finish the rest of the day indoors reading Tom Sawyer to me. Finally, my father came and picked me back up and took me home. My father asked me what I did during the day, and I told him about the fire. He had a worried look on his face. He came home and talked to mom, and she immediately called my grandmother. The next day, my father did not take me to see my grandmother instead I stayed at my aunt’s house, I quickly
When I was growing up, I barely ever got to see my father and brother. Lily grew up without her mother. When I was around 1 years old, my mother and father got divorced. My mother took me with her and my father kept my brother and sister. My mother told me, that my father was abusive told her and my brother and sister.
I remember our first days in US were difficult for me and my mother; especially, one night when I woke up and saw her fainting in the cold floor. I had panicked, I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t have a car, or phone to call anyone. I felt a shame of myself, I couldn’t help my own mother at the same time. Thankfully, one of my neighbors was awake, and she helped me with everything.
But at this point before we move on I should probably tell you a little more about my Grandma Lyanna Barrett. She was my mama’s mama obviously, and she lived up in a place called Mount Harrison, New York. That was where my mama and the rest of her family (whatever’s left of it) are originally from. I had never even met my Grandmother Lyanna, let alone have been up to her place in New York because my mama had ditched her hometown and skinned-out back when she was just eighteen. Yeah, she just grabbed her cigar box of running away money and took off for the
Seven million, three-hundred thousand children, nationally are affected by parents being incarcerated for days, weeks, months, and even years. For ten days I was affected by my father’s incarceration at the Leavenworth County Jail. To some this is nothing, but to my family, this was a huge ordeal. Not only was he absent from our lives for ten days, which was longer than he’d ever been gone, but we had to transport him there, plus watch as he walked away from his wife, his kids, and his freedom.
I was out of the building just as it was about to collapse. My dad, My dad’s best friend, and the firefighter were not out of the tower. A paramedic came over to me and carried me over to the ambulance to check me out. My wrist was broken but I didn’t care because all I could think about was my dad, my dad’s best friend, and the fireman that didn’t make it out with me and the others. I saw my mom and ran to her and she was in tears and heartbroken like me.
Even hours later when i was at my grandmas watching the news, a report on a house fire in chesapeake. My dad’s face came up on the television. that's when i learned he suffered 3rd degree burns trying to save the house and get us out safely. All i could do was
My dad hurried over and finally extinguished the fire with a blanket. I was able to move again. That 's when it hit me. The foul fragrance of burnt flesh and hair. Half of his face was black, part of his ear was missing.
I put my pink star pajamas on and made me some buttery popcorn. While the popcorn was popping I turned the table into my bed. By the time I was done the microwave beeped, which meant the popcorn was done. When I opened up the microwave the buttery smell of the popcorn made my mouth water. It was 10:30 when I was getting tired, so I dumped the popcorn kernels out into the trash can and went to
When I saw the flash of my mom 's headlights my body shook with fear and I held in a sob. My mom opened the front door and I ran to her, clinging to her like I did when I was a child. I felt the warmth of her skin against mine and listened for a moment to her heartbeat. “Can we talk about something?” I asked, letting go of my mom.
The next day, I woke up in a room, there were mixed genders, so when I got up and dressed, I immediately began to look for the young boy I had met the day before. I found him, he was sitting along the wall next to an older woman who looked so much like my grandmother. Since I had realized that it couldn't be her, because she was supposedly “dead”, I realized I should just stop and ask the boy how he was. I walked over there, and the lady looked at me and said, “Alexis, is that you?” I immediately grabbed her and pulled her into my arms, it was my grandmother.
I woke up on an especially cool winter morning and looked over to my mother’s side of the bed. She was not there, I knew that, but I secretly wished she was. I swung my legs off the bedside and rushed to the bathroom to brush my teeth and get myself ready for school. This was a typical morning for me.
Every Thanksgiving my family gets together. When we are together, we always take time out to remember my great-grandmother and my grandmother, Meme and Liz. This year my family gathered at my auntie and uncle’s home. My aunt called all the family members that were coming because she needed to tell them what to bring. When we got there, we sat and watched the football game until the food was finished.
Since I was young, I have been passionate about lending a hand, to a person I felt needed support and this passion helped shape what my future may hold. An event happened that has been instrumental in developing my character and guiding my choices ever since. It was a late summer night and it was almost midnight when my soccer game ended, After the game, I ran into the washroom because I was dying to ease myself. I took an excessive time and missed my ride home; they must have thought I had another ride home. My situation made me become bewildered at what to do next then, I thought to myself on giving my mother a call.
January 11, 2013, I wake up to yelling, prayers, and crying. I walked into the kitchen where all the noises were coming from and I found my mother on the floor crying, talking on the phone with my godmother. My father was there by her side, trying hard not to cry while supporting his wife. I didn’t know what was happening, this was the first time I’ve seen my mom so vulnerable and broken. My parents didn’t tell me anything other than my grandmother was in critical condition at the hospital, but with god's help she would overcome this hard time.
Ana Buha is a wise woman from a small place in the heart of Bosnia & Herzegovina called Vitez. She is a hard-working mother and wife. Ana is my grandmother who gave everything to her three kids: my mom, and two of my uncles. She is one of the most interesting and funny people I know. Her life stories make me cry and laugh at the same time.