Grandmothers can change our lives, Influence us, and most importantly, make references and jokes we will never understand. We can truly learn a lot from people who came from another generation, and to us, another world. My Grandmother has taught me and the world around her how to hold high morals and be kind to one another. I will be sharing with you the life story of my Grandma, Joan Van Buskirk, a typical woman who has had an anything but typical impact on the world. Grandma Joan was born in February 1943 in a small town called Carthage South Dakota, she was born in her small home, on the country side of the town. Grandma Joan was born the youngest of all her siblings, so young that her siblings were all out of the house, on their own. Her parents were older, and didn 't like much comotion, her dad, great Grandpa, hated noise, the house never saw much clamor. A daily schedule for Grandma Joan was going to school, coming home, and occupying herself till dinner, after they eat dinner, then her and her parents would go to sleep.. This was my grandma 's routine every day. Years of this passed and Grandma found herself in high school, it was quite a …show more content…
Well, after they did leave, Grandma had a case of Empty nest syndrome (the listlessness that comes when child is old enough, then leaves the house) Grandma decided that with her free time she suddenly found herself with an abundance of, she would include charity and volunteer work in her routine. I admire my Grandma for her personality, she 's not the person to wait around doing nothing, my Grandma wants to make a positive difference for others. After a few years, my Grandma, heard that she was going to become a Grandma. As she described it it was “All the amazing things about babies, without the work. It was someone else 's responsibility now”. After all the grandkids all rolled out my Grandma had so very much to show for years of hard
Her seven grandchildren provided her with a way to still be a very helpful person before she died.
She never graduated from the third grade. Yet she's managed to travel the world, raising 6 kids and 10 grand kids and many great-grand children. Not to mention she could make the best banana pudding. I've known my sweet granny all my life. She was a nurturing soul.
She taught her how to appreciate what she had, and how to get a job done.
She was taking carre for me with put me to sleep, feed, wear the cloth and same learning activity. From my early child I will flip my memory to tell you about my generation where I became mom and I give care to my children. My dougter was born on 2001 and my sun 2005 in the same hospital when I was born. They both were bresfeed for more than 1 year and I give care to them until they were 3 years old which means I do not working in this time.
When I think about the person I am today I think about the people that have helped raise me. We all grow up with different experiences, environments, lifestyles, and people in our lives who help shape who we are. One person that has made a big impact in my life would be my nana and her name is Bea Wilson. She has been in my life since the moment I was born. My nana has shown me that you can make something good out of bad situation.
TITLE, Lauren Helgason, September 25, 2015 Over a year ago my Aunt Bernadette and my Uncle Glenn got divorced. My Aunt didn’t take it very well, but to the rest of my family it didn’t come as much of a surprise. They were always fighting with each other over petty things and didn’t get along. However, my Aunt couldn’t accept that she was part of the problem, so she decided to push the blame onto someone else.
They also served as caregivers, but not to the certain extent as my grandparents. In my opinion, the more uncles and aunts that are involved in the child’s life, the more influence they will have on that child. Also, it helps boost self-esteem. In other words, constant encouragement and motivation from various sources more than likely will boost self-esteem because a child will have so much influence on his or her life that pessimistic comments will not cause the child to become socially isolated from those around him or her. This very concept applies to my life.
Brief Background: My great-grandma, Ruth Trumble, is 87 years old and suffers from minor alzheimer's disease. Her responses to the questions I asked her would sometimes vary and often led to a fair amount of confusion. With the assignment of this project I began to think about the fact that in just a few years time, these personal interviews won’t be possible. With that in mind, I took down my great-grandma's words with the goal of learning about how the war affected her while she is still capable of providing me with the information.
She said, “My life now is not how I predicted it to be. I must rely on my family, especially my daughter, to help take care of my husband and I because I’m getting to where I can’t. If it wasn’t for her coming over every morning and night, I don’t know what we would have done. My son doesn’t live as close as she does, but he will help us by driving us to the doctor sometimes. We have both been to a nursing home in the past, and although they were good to us, it is nice to be home.
I was constantly depressed, and crying myself to sleep knowing that I didn’t say goodbye to her, that she wouldn’t be there for my quinceanera. My grandmother was the person that influenced my parents into coming to America, and finding a future for me, a better education, and opportunities, things I would never achieve in Cuba. My mom would always tell me to study hard, and keep moving forward because my grandmother would always ask about me and how i’m doing in school, as well as to keep pursuing my dreams. At school I was able to focus on my work with the help of my friends.
Growing up, I’d always thought that death was the worst thing that could ever happen to a person, but it wasn’t until halfway through my sophomore year that I discover the truth. I had never really thought about the horror of watching someone you love wither away into a shadow of their former self; that was something that happened in books and movies, not in real life and definitely not to me. I was only 15 when my grandmother finally decided that it was time to take my mom up on her offer and come live with us. Her motivation? She knew she didn’t have much time left and wanted to spend her final moments at our house with her family.
While she was working long hours cleaning people’s houses, as the oldest of three children, I had to quickly learn how to cook, how to clean and take care of my siblings. From getting the kids ready for school, helping them with their homework, and
Growing up with my grandma, there was never a day where I didn’t feel loved by her. When I would be over at her house, she always made sure I wasn’t hungry, and when I was, she went out of her way to cook for me. If we were out in the streets together, she would always ask me what I wanted to eat and got me exactly that. There was not a birthday I had, that she didn’t get me a present or a birthday card. Every valentines, she would give me a box of chocolates.
Even though I could not cure my grandparents old age and illnesses, I did help them and made sure they knew they could count on me to make them feel just a little bit
I have so many wonderful reasons to be thankful. Being thankful allows you to experience life to the fullest. I believe it is important to be thankful for my family and friends. Thankfulness allows you to appreciate what you have so you take care of your things. We should appreciate what we are given and use them with care.