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The Man I Killed By Tim O Brien Friendship Quotes

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In the chapter “The Man I Killed”, Tim O’Brien explores the importance of friendship and how emotional support can have a positive impact on a friendship. The chapter outlines Tim’s regret after he killed a young Vietnamese soldier, and his friend Kiowa is there to listen and stick up for him. After O´Brien is distressed after killing the soldier, the nearby soldier Azar makes jokes about how Tim ¨shredded the soldier¨ with a tone that O´Brien does not appreciate. Kiowa his friend tells O´Brien, ¨Forget that crud, no sweat, man. What else could you do?" (O´Brien 80). Kiowa standing up for O´Brien after being made fun of by Azar and letting him know that he had no other option, helped O´Brien feel more content with the situation. Kiowa ́s presence

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