Childhood memories are not only significant but lasting in many people’s lives. They can be positive, negative, or a combination of both and result in a lifelong full of happiness or a lifelong of hope, despair, and regret. Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” gives a great example of a grown man remembering both positive and negative childhood memories in his life. The poem is written from the child’s point of view and has an acquiescent tone. Throughout the poem Roethke discusses the child’s negative but positive memories of growing up with his father through the use of the boy’s acquiescent tone, meaningful and forceful words, metaphors, the mother’s bitter tone, and rhyme patterns.
Analyzing the tone can be quite difficult throughout this
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Half of these words have negative connotations that signify some sort of abuse, the other half are mostly positive and signify love. This combination of words can be very confusing for the reader who is trying to decipher the poem. Despite what many people think, these childhood memories are neither dreadful nor delightful, the poem is actually a combination of both positive and negative memories. The boy may have not had the best relationship with his father but he still has a lot of love and respect for …show more content…
The father is holding his son “with a palm caked hard by dirt” (Roethke 14) and brings him off to bed “still clinging to his shirt” (Roethke 16). It didn’t matter if his father was sometimes violent, what mattered was that he was a hard working father who supported his family. Although the memories of the boy’s past may have not been the best, we know he still looks up to his father as someone to admire for all that he has done for him. His father’s good outweighs his bad.
The young boy in “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke did not have the easiest relationship with his father. The seemingly harsh words showed signs of abuse but left the boy unshaken, holding onto love and respect for his father. At times they may have struggled to get along, facing bumps on the road and a bitter mother who could do nothing to help. Although they didn’t always click the boy had true love and respect for his father who worked hard and supported the family. In the end he wouldn’t trade anything, even a waltz, for these
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Do you understand”(113). The man has to put the boy in a position that nobody should ever have to be in. Death is always an option to them and this is a constant reminder.
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When speaking of how childhood remembrances were a drag for Black people, Nikki always associates the outsider’s opinion of her childhood with sadness while her own opinion suggests more delightful words to show that she held her own childhood in a different light. Although people tended to want to put her childhood in a negative light, Nikki retorts by stating things such as “… how happy you were to have your mother to yourself…” (6). In the poem, Giovanni frequently elicits imagery to exaggerate her point on how her childhood wasn’t as heart-wrenching as people believed. She writes about how good the water felt when she took a bath in a big tub and speaks of fond memories such as holiday celebrations. She also demonstrates negative imagery to make a point that even though some bits of her childhood were unpleasant to remember, it was full of happy moments, as well.
Both sons understand their fathers efforts but they are shown in
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Diction of the poem effects the tone in various ways. The diction of the poem affects the tone by the play of words and their difficultly to understand. The tone is set in the poem by the author’s meaning, however when the diction is harder to understand the