F. Scott Fitzgerald once said, “That is part of the beauty of literature. You discover that your longings are universal longings, that you’re not lonely and isolated from anyone. You belong.” I strongly believe that this quote could not be more accurate when it comes to losing someone you love. Unfortunately, losing someone you love is unavoidable in life, whether that be the breakdown of a friendship or the loss of life. These changes in your life are always hard to deal with, and literature is a great way to escape these emotions or find comfort in the ways characters deal with them. ‘The Sky is Everywhere’ authored by Jandy Nelson and ‘We Were Liars’ written by E. Lockhart are two novels that I believe illustrate death and how to deal with it quite well and have definitely helped me cope with the recent loss of my Uncle John and the loss of my close friend Sebastien in 2012.
‘The Sky is Everywhere’ by Jandy Nelson is about an average teenage girl named Lennie, who recently lost her talented, beautiful and older sister, Bailey, to a heart arrhythmia. The novel then goes on to show how Lennie deals with this loss, and how she learns that she can be happy and love without feeling guilty that Bailey can no longer do these things. The novel
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How could they abandon me? Everybody thinks this way when they lose someone they care about, and they feel a great deal of anger and guilt. I was angry that they left me, and I felt guilty that it was them and not me, despite my absence when both deaths occurred. Reading this text by Lockhart has aided me in dealing with my losses because it helped me realise that it is okay to be angry that they’re gone. My eyes have also been opened to the fact that even though they’re gone, they are still with me in my thoughts, much like the liars were with Cady while she was discovering what happened to her and
We have been shown that we can deal with loss in many ways, such as moving on after loss, having trouble moving on and instead taking some time to ourselves, or embracing the loss and acknowledging that whatever has been done is done and nothing else can change that. Robert Newton has shown us through this novel that no matter how bad a loss can be, ultimately, finding the right way to cope through it and enduring
Refugees are people flee their home countries to another country for better life due to the war in their home counties. The story of The Other Side the Sky by Farah Ahmedi is about an Afghanistan girl who had a physical disability tries to flee to the United States with her only family for better life. More than 75 years ago, a group of refugees were trying to flee Europe before World War II. They were Jews. Anne Frank, the author of The Diary of a Young Girl.
The Other Side of the Sky It’s crazy how different cultures are when we all live on the same planet. It’s also crazy how similar cultures are when we live so far away from others. That is what makes our world and our people so diverse. In The Other Side of the Sky by Farah Ahmedi and Tamim Ansary there were many events that showed great amounts of cultural differences, and similarities.
Here they share three tips for dealing with just such a loss: Allow Yourself To Feel: For many of us, our automatic response to an uncomfortable emotion is to deny or distract. This coping mechanism, however, may not be the most helpful when it comes to grief. Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is your feeling, and know that not all of those feelings are going to be easy or pleasant. This is a key step in coming to terms with your grief over the loss of
Everyone can relate to losing someone you have feelings for. In the book Roberto loses his best friend Enzo and now he is all alone, “ Roberto rocked back and forth on the ground, holding Enzo’s body tight, keeping it tight, keeping it warm, though it no longer mattered. Sadness blanketed their world. Roberto curled over and whispered hoarsely in Enzo’s ear, “You didn’t freeze. At least you didn’t freeze”(Napoli 100).
Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide was a very important documentary based of the book by Nicholas Kristof and his wife, Sheryl WuDunn. It talks about the gender-based violence that goes on across the world. Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl both work as journalists for The New York Times. Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide was filmed in 10 countries: (Afghanistan, Cambodia, Kenya, India, Liberia, Pakistan, Sierra Leone, Somalia, the United States, and Vietnam) and follows Kristof, WuDunn, and celebrity activists America Ferrera, Diane Lane, Eva Mendes, Meg Ryan, Gabrielle Union, and Olivia Wilde on a journey to tell the stories of inspiring, courageous individuals. Across the globe oppression is being confronted, and solutions are being fashioned through health care, education,
When I was nine years old (2010), death touched my family through my older sister, Margot Kate Jackson Fowler, known by many as Katie Fowler. This affected me in tremendous ways which will stay with me for life. Whenever I see or hear of death regarding family members, I draw instant connections to the death of my sister. When guddu and Saroo were separated that night, not knowing that it would be their last moment together; they didn’t say goodbye. I can relate to this on a personal level as I never got to say goodbye to my sister.
It was up to me to carry this grief on my shoulders. “Grief is really just love with nowhere to go,” this is a quote by Melissa K Moriarty. Going through a death can be tough, especially when you're use to their presence everyday. This helped shape me into the selfless person I am today.
That comes as no surprise because the author Emily Bronte dealt with a little bit of depression . In a biography about Bronte it states that she dealt with a lot of death in her family. “Brontë 's mother died of cancer; her death came nearly nine months after the birth of her sister, Anne.” (Biography.com). Her mom wasn 't the only one of her family members who died.
Grief is a difficult subject to write about. Especially when wanting to write about the life of a teenage girl after her sister 's death. Jandy Nelson, author of The Sky is Everywhere, tells a heartbreaking story about life after death. Unlike many young adult novels, The Sky is Everywhere talks about serious problems that many teenagers face. Nelson crafts a perfect story that is inspiring and tragic.
After a death or loss of something close, people usually react similarly by going through the five stages of grief. These stages include denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. During a death of my Great Aunt, my family went through the stages of grief. I was close with her when I was younger, but I do not have many memories I remember with her so I did not experience much grief. On the other hand, my Great Uncle went through a lot of grief since she was his older sister.
Is the Sky Everyone’s Limit? Americans live, breathe and speak of the “land of opportunity” where no matter what the pigment your skin is, where no matter what your ethnic background is, and where no matter what religion you follow is, you can reach your dreams with some hard work. This world renown belief is called “The American Dream”, but is this just a comical statement? What is the American Dream?
LOSS, GRIEF AND HEALING As human beings, we suffer losses of many kinds and sizes in our life time. While some of these losses are small and do not hurt much, some are big and hurt deeply. Those that are accompanied by pains that are difficult to bear include the loss of a loved one through death or divorce, cheating or unfaithfulness in a trusted relationship or loss of good health when a diagnosis of a terminal illness is made. In all these instances of loss, pain and grief are experienced and an emotional wound is created which needs healing.
All the memories are still there. You live on-in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.” Finally, “Death ends a life, not a relationship.” The main theme behind these three truths is that even when our loved ones are
“When Death laughs, no one else does” - Amy Neftzger. The hardest thing in life is to lose a person you confide in, a person that has helped you grow and prosper in many aspects of your life. In April 2014, a very dear friend of mine passed away. The accident happened so suddenly and had come out of nowhere. I still remember the state of shock I was in upon hearing the news, I literally had no words to respond.