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LOVE VS LUST
Thought our lives we all tend to need time away from the people we love most. Some people find that freedom or fulfillment through sexuality while others find it through absences. Adultery is usually wrong but in rare instance it can sometimes be justified. In the storm The Storm it’s understood that two characters that have an affair during a storm but after the affair they return to their normal ways of life. Adultery is every hard to defend because in most cultures or religions it’s socially or morally unacceptable, but The Storm challenges that position. An affair is normaly what ends relationships but for Calixta and Alcee, it makes them value their marriages like never before. Many people in today’s age
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For example in the story one can see that Calixta love her husband when the write says “She stood there with Bobinôt 's coat in her hands, and the big rain drops began to fall..” we get this image of how she feels that her husband is her protector and thus cares for him as well. In relationships normally couples are emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually compatible, but sometimes couples need have some other kind of experience in order in give more value to what they have.
Calixta and Alcee sexual relationship can be described as sexual exchange with no romantic involvement. Sometimes timing is the key because we can tell them meeting was never a plan but just something that happened. “But she felt very warm and often stopped to mop her face on which the perspiration gathered in beads. She unfastened her white sacque at the throat.” From this you can tell that even before Alcee come in the picture she was starting to feel the urge to have sex. Alcee was just in the right place at the right time. Alcee is desperate and Calixta is not thinking with her head but only her
In the novel Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward, love is highlighted as exclusiveness in some cases, and in other cases is shown as both constructive and destructive to different relationships. In Michael and Leoni’s instance, their relationship is toxic and exclusive. This means that they can’t find anyone else to be with when they are feeling empty or distressed. In Jojo and Kayla and Jojo and Pop’s instance, their relationships are positive. Kayla lacks a mother figure and a guardian, so Jojo works to support her.
According to the family tradition, which you were breaking” (Esquivel 213). Despite Rosaura being conscious of the emotional turmoil her marriage caused the entire family, she was too prideful to admit, even after the death of Mama Elena, that it was a mistake. This accusation came from a place of jealousy, with her being well aware that Pedro never felt loyalty towards her, and simply married her to stay near Tita. When John's young son jokingly told Alex’s parents he wanted to marry her someday, Rosaura immediately shut him down. “They all laughed at that, but when Rosaura explained to Alex that he couldn’t because this little girl was destined to take care of her until the day she died, Tita felt her hair stand on end” (Esquivel 150).
The characters perceptions of the meaning of love differ vastly, leading them to lose sight of love’s meaning or purpose.
Calixta has to pretend she is happy and that she is not sad to be with Bobinot especially when she knows Alcee is happy with Clarisse. “I don’ want to kiss you, Bobinot,” she said, turning away again, “not-to-day. Some other time” (‘Cadian Ball 5). In this quotation Calixta is merely accepting her reality and lying to herself by doing so. Calixta is putting up this façade to make Bobinot happy and to attempt to even trick herself in thinking she is or can be happy as well.
If both situations were handled properly, there would have been minimal conflicts. This leads the reader to believe that love was not the problem in these cases; it was the
Alcée was introduced at horse races, a place Edna felt liberated (Page 73). Alcée has a playboy reputation in the streets of New Orleans. Even though Edna had no emotional connection with Alcée, she felt a compelling physical interest in him, an interest that lead to her sexual awakening. The author leaves the many physical pleasure of their “affair” to our imagination. The irony of the word affair is that she did not feel like she betraying her husband.
Love is essential to overcoming adversity and it is the ability to cause change in yourself and others. In the book, Matched by Ally Condie, Cassia has to learn to be able to have independence and accept that she needs to break away from her society’s choices. This helps give her the confidence she needs to be with the person that she loves because she has begun to realize that she deserves to choose and that everyone else does too. Ultimately, Condie teaches us that love causes and solves problems, but those problems are the ones that you want to choose.
She not only wants her definition to include all couples, but she also wants to show how sex changes people and the relationship they are in. It isn't something to be taken lightly, and always alters the relationship no matter what, either bringing people closer together, or pushing them apart. Lastly the final part she wants to
She is devoted to Pedro even after becoming married to John. At her mother’s funeral, she has thoughts of wanting to accept John as her true love. Upon seeing Pedro with Rosaura, she becomes unsure of her feelings. This displays her devotion to Pedro even when she wanted to love John who was always supportive and at her
Calixta began to worry deeply about her missing family. She become hysteric the feeling of uneasiness overcoming her. Calixta turns to Alcee for comfort but what started as a simple embrace soon turned into much more. Women who are engaged in an unfulfilling marriage like Calixta will turn to other men for comfort and intimacy.
Calixta meanwhile differs and even though she appears to love her husband, she is unfaithful to him with her ex boyfriend Alcee. Both the women want to obtain freedom, although to a different degree. Louise Mallard is looking forward to long-term freedom from her husband, while Calixta only seems interested in a brief moment of freedom
When they kissed “it reminded him of Assumption” (89) and their emotion for each other grew. As the storm crashed outside, their emotion became stronger and “Calixta was a revelation in that dim, mysterious chamber” (89). She was in a revelation, because she
This affair also shows the relationship growing and the new interest the two characters have sprouted for
She cannot explore what she desires when she is only sleeping with one man. She feels a high level of comfort with herself when she is engaging with Alcee. Alcee clearly makes her feel a certain special way that her husband cannot for her. “Her firm, elastic flesh that was knowing for the first time its birthright, was like a creamy lily that the sun invites to contribute its breath and perfume to the undying life of the world” (89). By obligating to adultery, Calixta is liberating herself from her marriage.
The novel ‘Nada’ written by Carmen Laforet is a twisted heart-breaking tale about a year in the life of the 18-year-old female protagonist Andrea. Throughout this year, Andrea spends in Barcelona with her relatives, she developed various relationships, both homosexual and heterosexual. For the purpose of this essay I will discuss Andrea’s highly affective homosexual relationships with her best friend Ena and her aunt Gloria and how she views and describes both woman differently. I will also briefly contrast her homosexual relationships with that of her heterosexual relationships with Pons and her uncle Román. I will begin with discussing Adrea’s relationship with Gloria, as this relationship began before her relationship with Ena did.