The theme of loss in literature, is an incident that most characters have to face within their story. How characters deal and overcome with losing something, can make them weaker or stronger. In the two literary works, a wife and husband lose important elements in their marriage, needed to sustain their boned relationship. In the short story “Answers,” in “Half-Mammals of Dixie” by George Singleton and the poem “Conjoined,” by Judith Minty, a wife and husband lose trust, connection, and unity within their marriage, revealing that the breakdown of trust results in devastating loss. In Singleton’s story “Answers,” the main characters loses the element of trust with each other, causing tension in their marriage. The husband loses the trust he has with his wife because of the revelation of her dishonesty during an honest game. In …show more content…
The wife from “Conjoined” describes how her marriage has become a force unity, “Joined at the chest by skin and muscle, doomed/ To live, even make love, together for sixty years”(Minty 227). She feels as though the marriage legally unifies her husband and herself, but she sees both of them as two seperate people, indicating a loss of unity between one another. In “Answers,” the Alexis’s action towards her husband 's response shows readers the current state of their unity, “ I said, ‘We should stay together… and maybe our relationship could be better- but I have a feeling that this is about as good a marriage as two people can have, living under that same roof’...My wife didn’t answer me like I thought she should’ve. She didn’t respond”(Singleton 109). The action of not responding to him, was a clear understanding that she feels more separate than unified with Ronnie, and that living under that same roof was not going to be enough to hold their marriage together. Together, both couples have issues that are affecting their unity within the
The worst bearing of both Rowlandson and Equiano has to face was being separated from their own love ones. Rowlandson was separated from her family and relations when her village was attacked then eventually lost her only child that was with her. Nevertheless, Equiano also endured tormented pain when he was parted from his sister while she was the only comfort to him at once. He was a young boy in a fearful atmosphere with nothing to convey a positive perspective. “It was vain that [they] besought than not to part us; she was torn from [him], and immediately carried away, while [he] was left in a state of distraction not to be describe”.
The characters perceptions of the meaning of love differ vastly, leading them to lose sight of love’s meaning or purpose.
In the United States, 50% of marriages end in divorce. In most cases, lovers lose their trust in each other and fall apart. It is not until they are gone that they realize what they truly lost: a companion, a lover, a best friend. In the novel Tim O’brien sheds light on such relationships alike Kathy’s and Wade’s by utilizing symbolism and setting. Wade and Kathy lose their trust in one another and they split apart with Wade the protagonist is immensely affected by it; understandably, loss in trust is backstabbing but without it, humans cannot appreciate what they have.
Loss is one of the hardest things to cope with. However, one doesn’t always realize the different ‘types’ of love they can experience until they’ve experienced more than one of them. In these three stories, “Gwilan’s Harp,” by LeGuin; “The Washerwoman,” by Isaac Singer; and “The Last Leaf,” by O’Henry a theme of loss presents itself.
By using a multitude of others’ works in her book, it displays the myriad of individuals who have struggled with the grieving process and losing a loved one. Further, this representation creates a feeling of comfortability and acceptance for the audience, providing them with a depiction, perhaps, of their own thoughts, feelings, and emotions as they too deal with loss. In addition, Didion tells the readers that there is a “certain look” that she has noticed on the bereaved once she lost Dunne (74). This look, she explains, is one of “extreme vulnerability, nakedness, and openness,” which Didion had perceived on several occasions with multiple individuals (74). By adding this detail, the author creates a unifying feature for mourners; she creates a solidarity between them.
In particular, Corso’s structure, examples that encourage tone, and theme can help us understand Updike’s story in a clearer way. Corso organizes his thoughts in a similar way throughout the entirety of the poem. While the author clearly depicts the features of a marriage, acknowledging both the positive and negative aspects, he does not fail to include how these features contribute to the experience of a committed relationship. The author uses a set topic to establish structure in his poem, but then follows up his statement with a counter-argument that presents the opposite point of view. For example, Corso begins his stanza by reflecting, “Grocery store Blue Cross Gas & Electric Knights of Columbus / Impossible to lie back and dream
Marriage is usually perceived as a momentous event that finally unites man and wife as equals. However, in Zora Neale Hurston’s novel, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Janie, the protagonist, faces the contrary. Although her second husband, Jody, treated her as an equal during the beginning of their relationship, she eventually is treated as a lesser part of their union as he asserts his dominance over her. After the death of Jody, Janie eventually found Tea Cake, who treated her fairly throughout their relationship, as shown through his natural willingness and patience to teach her how to play checkers. With their relationship, Janie experienced a marriage where she had the right to make her own decisions and express herself.
Eric Bartels analyzes the difficulties of modern-day marriage in his article, “My Problem with Her Anger,” by examining his own marital experiences. By optimistic confrontation and resolution of his family’s problems, Bartels believes that not only will he save his marriage, but he will also be rewarded for his sacrifices (63). The author claims he realized the separation between men and women during his late night chores (57). To illuminate this separation, Bartels acknowledges that his wife contributes more to childcare than he does, but asserts that he tries to reduce as much of this pressure as he can through cooking, cleaning, and shopping (58). Despite the author’s attempts, he contends that his endeavors to decrease his wife’s stress
The short story,The Painted Door, by Sinclair Ross, focuses on a woman who commits adultery due to her husband's absence and neglect of emotions. It is set in a rural farming community. It is written in the third person’s perspective and produces high levels of intensity, emotions, and drama. The Painted Door compels the reader to ruminate on the implications long after the reader has finished reading the story through the use of symbolism, and an interpretative plot.
What are the aspects of loss? The characters in the short stories “Gwilan’s Harp” by Ursula K. LeGuin, Isaac Singer’s“The Washwoman” , and “The Last Leaf” by O’ Henry, all suffer great losses in different aspects. Ursula K. LeGuin characterizes Gwilan as a skillful, lighthearted harper; however she suffer a great loss later in her life. Unlike Gwilan, in the short story of Issac and O’Henry, the washwoman and Behrman both live a tragic life since the beginning of the story. The characters in three different short stories suffer losses materially, emotionally, and physically.
02/12/2018 Psychologist have studied it for years. Human relationships are arguably the most complicated relationships on planet Earth. Going a bit farther, Peg Streep, a psychologist that studies primarily marital relationships, says that husband and wife relationships, sometimes, can only be understood if one is in the relationship themselves (Streep). However, Tobias Wolff, the author of “Say Yes,” published in 1985, uses symbolism to give his readers a plethora of room for interpretation of the husband and wife’s relationship in this short story, in hopes that many readers are able to relate to the couple’s issues.
The Wife’s Story Ursula K. Leguin is a short story describing a wife retrospective of her husband who she thought of as a loving and caring father and husband a somewhat perfect person always gentle. Yet he had a fatal flaw that led to his death that the wife failed to recognize until it was too late. Throughout the story, the wife recounts important events that led to his deaths events that should have been clues to aid her to recognize the flaw within her husband. In the story, Leguin shows us how the wife’s perception was deceiving her. She was looking at her husband but couldn’t see him for whom he really was.
The dialogue in Hemingway’s “Hills Like White Elephants” reveals a man’s and a woman’s incongruent conflict on abortion, and the author’s fundamentally feminist position is visible in the portrayal of the woman’s independent choice of whether or not to keep the baby she is carrying. The plot is very simple in the story which is less than 1500 words long. A woman and a man spend less than an hour on a hot summers day at a Spanish train station in the valley of Ebro as they are waiting for a train heading for Madrid. Their dialogue takes up most of the space and only few major actions take place.
In Moris Gleitzman’s novella Two Weeks with the Queen; Gleitzman demonstrates how characters deal with loss differently. Firstly, Colin is illustrated to deal with loss through the 5 stages of grief, transitioning from denial through to acceptance. Secondly, Colin’s Mum is shown to deal with loss using a “brave face”. Finally, Ted deals with loss by attempting to spend his last moments with his significant other. Gleitzman elucidates through these characters which ways of dealing with loss are the most beneficial to a sustain contentedness.
When Richard’s heard the news of her husband’s death, he assumed Mrs. Mallard would be devastated. While everyone knew Mrs. Mallard was “afflicted with heart trouble” (57), him and her sister, Josephine, wanted to give her the news with “great care” (57). Josephine broke the news to Mrs. Mallard in “broken sentences”