Alyssa Tan
Ms. Brown
ENG2D1
21 March 2023
The Universal Truth About Parent and Child Relationships in “First Day” by Edward P. Jones
In Edward P. Jones's short story "First Day," a young girl's view of her mother changes from infallibility to imperfection. As her perspective shapes into her own, the ingenuous thoughts of her mother fade, and the mother reveals her shortcomings, the story conveys that as children grow and mature, they will inevitably begin to see their parents' imperfections. At the beginning of the story, the mother goes to strenuous efforts to get her child to her first day of school. Despite not being able to attend the school closer to home after they visit multiple schools, the child is proud that “this is [her] mother: She says, ‘One monkey don’t
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The girl firmly believes that her mother is hardworking and willing to do whatever it is to give her a good school. As a result, she sees what most children do at this age, their parents as infallible. Nevertheless, the mother begins to demonstrate her imperfections and shortcomings. While registering her daughter at Walker Jones school, her inability to read begins to slow her, as she hassles through many papers looking for the right ones. This is embarrassing and new to the girl as “[she] knows almost all of her [mother's] looks, but this one is brand new to [her].” (3). Until now, the child had only seen her mother as perfect, but her mother’s new shortcomings have made her realize that she is not. Her mother is almost diseased with her flaws, and this development puts the child in a difficult position as she now sees what the rest of the world does. Finally, the girl develops a perspective of her own as she grows up. Retelling the story, she recalls that it took place “long before [she] learned to be ashamed of [her] mother” (1). Her perception of her mother changed a lot as she grew up, transforming from her naive
In the article” The First Day” written by Edward P. Jones, the author describes the first day that his mother took him to register in a new school which was not near his mother’s church. He uses some details to show his mother and he had close relationship. Jones states that his mother and he met a rich woman and her daughter who were very unfriendly. The author also states that his mother asked the unfriendly woman for help to fill out registration paper and told the woman she could not read or write. Then, they met a pretty woman who was the author’s teacher.
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The moment she gave birth something sunk into her mind, that she could never fully comprehend until that moment. As she holds her child in her arms, taking extra precautions, so that her child doesn’t get hurt, she realizes that it is now her job to take care of her baby. That her biggest concern is no longer herself, but the child who was not in her arms yesterday. That yesterday’s problems are no longer of concern to her. That it is her job to provide and raise a human being.
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(Anderson 35). Melinda’s grades at school are starting to have an impact on what goes on at home Melinda’s mother begins to be fed up. Although her mother doesn’t know what’s been going on with her own daughter. This is sad because Melinda should be able to talk to her mother about what’s going on. Nobody will understand her or her pain that she’s going through or how she’s feeling.
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This puts stress on the mother and shows how much the mother wants a great education for her daughter and what she will do to try and get it. We learn throughout “The First Day” that the mother is very ashamed of herself. “My mother looks at me, then looks away. I know almost all of her looks, but this one is brand new to me.” (Jones, 87)
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