Triangular Theory of Love is a psychological conception of love, and permutation love has 3 main components, the intimacy, passion, and commitment, where intimacy is having communication, support, commitment is how the couple maintain devote themselves to the relationship, and passion is any arousal or having any emotions need from each other. Sternbury’s view that an ideal relationship contain all three love components. The various combination of these 3 psychological of love components create 8 separate permutations, the Non-love, friendship, infatuated love, empty love, romantic love, companionate love, fatuous love, and consummate love. (Hill, 2012)
Mason support his girlfriend by complementing her with encouraging words and YuYan support Mason by being next to him and talk to him. This show that in their relationship there is intimacy, as they show support and communicate to each other by talking to each other and give each other encouragement and support. This shows there is a feeling of attachment, closeness between the both of them as they share things that happen in their daily life. Thus there is intimacy in this relationship. There is passion component in their relationship because
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Couples in consummate love are closely connected, sexually and romantically attracted, and completely committed to their partner. (M, 1991) Robert Sternberg cautions that maintaining a consummate love may be harder than achieving it, and it is important to show love by putting it into action. Thus consummate love may not be permanent. Since Mason and YuYan are together in a relationship for about a few months, they are still considered “fresh” couples, in the honeymoon period where they are still feeling very romantically and sexually attracted to each other. Thus for them to have a good and long healthy relationship, over time they may need to show passion to each other by action of love to maintain their consummate
“Dark trees in the landscape of love” by Kao Kalia Yang is reading about the lives of Hmong girls married white men and how their lives are different. Kalia Yang started the story talking about his nephew preference for black trees, not bright trees, showing that all colors of the trees are beautiful not just the bright ones. Then she talks about his husband and when she first saw his husband, she never taught to marry him. Aaron used to hear her given the public speech and one day he sends her an email inviting for breakfast. She accepted for lunch and they met at the Hmong restaurant, but it was just a casual meeting to talk about work.
Love isn’t always easy and it doesn’t show any mercy. When Harry met Sally, he had a girlfriend but was moving to New York. He travelled 18 hours with his girlfriend's friend, Sally. And just like that they parted ways. After 12 long years they finally get what they want, a chance at love.
Women are exploited everywhere you turn. I always knew that women were presented in a negative light in music, especially Hip-Hop. It would bother me,but not as much as it does now. I am quickly learning how the women are just objects in the eyes of many people. My favorite genre of music is Hip-Hop/Rap, R&B, & Neo Soul.
They trust each other enough to love. Interesting Quotes 1.“Only when I hold onto nothing can I be the best, only then can I be what they expect me to be. ”-Cassia,
THE COURSE OF LOVE It is generally recognized that the course of love rarely runs smoothly. But it took two university professors to plot the course that love takes in the lives of actual young people. Professors Kirkpatrick and Caplow found that the most usual course of love is one starting with mutual indifference and moving upward through attraction to love, and then either dropping again to indifference, with the broken love affair, or remaining in love at a high level of mutual involvement. One out of every five love affairs studied is irregular in its course, with unpredictable shifts from love to hate to indifference to liking in various combinations throughout the history of the relationship.
Ludacris, a famous male singer released a song featuring Mary J. Blige in 2007 called “Runaway Love.” This song speaks for itself and Ludacris does an excellent job of portraying his message about various struggles that some people are faced with in life. Runaway Love reperents the struggle of life through hip-hop and rap music. The song portrays a story of little girls who are for instance “stuck up in a world of their own.” The people around them strictly don’t care about them, which leads them having to own up and care for themselves.
How to Live According to Irving Singer Throughout Irving Singer acclaimed trilogy, The Nature of Love, the viewer can observe how he unveils rich insight into fundamental aspects of human relationships through literature, the complexities of our being, and the history of ideas. In his sequel, The Pursuit of Love, Singer approaches love from a distinct standpoint; he reveals his collection of extended essays where he presents psychological and philosophical theories of his own. The audience can examine how he displays love as he systematically maps the facets of religion, sexual desire, love from a parent, family member, child or friend. Irving explores the distinction between wanting to be loved and wanting to love another, which ultimately originates from the moment an individual is born.
Do we really love what we do? In the article “In the Name of Love,” Miya Tokumitsu covers the issue that doing what you love (DWYL) gives false hope to the working class. Tokumitsu reviews how those who are given jobs ultimately cannot truly love what they do because of the employers who make jobs possible. These same employers keep their employees overlooked.
They, like all, have their ups and downs, their joys and fears. These all come to light as their relationship blooms.
A relationship is where two people care about each other and put their significant other before themselves. A good relationship consists of a lot of hard work, the couple should be loyal, forgive each other, and communicate. Each relationships change over time, sometimes get better and sometimes become worse. A relationship takes a lot of effort and time. One of the most dramatic marriages ever read about was Macbeth and Lady Macbeth’s.
The Constant Contemplation of Sharon Olds’ “Sex without Love” This poem dramatizes the conflict between the speakers opinions on sex, opposed to others. In this poem, Olds presents a speaker who is contemplating the mentalities and thought processes of people who are able to have sex without love, compared to themselves. Although no first person dialogue is presented in the poem, contrasting statements and implications of phrases used highlight how the speaker feels about the subject. The theme of the poem is largely one of personal contemplation and of human emotion.
Love and Logic was founded in 1977. It was founded by Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D.. It is a popular and practical choice among parents and educators for discipline worldwide. The book I selected Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years was written by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.. Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years helps parents to teach their children how to live with the consequences of their actions, how to avoid blaming others for their problems, and to make wise decisions. Love and Logic guides parents to do this with four basic principles; building self-concept, sharing the control, providing empathy before consequences, and to share the
According to this theory, nature of love is changing fundamentally and it can create either opportunities for democracy or chaos in life (Beck & Beck- Gernsheim, 1995). Love, family and personal freedom are three key elements in this theory. This theory states that the guidelines, rules and traditions which used to rule personal relationships have changed. “Individuals are now confronted with an endless series of choices as part of constructing, adjusting, improving or dissolving the unions they form with others” (Giddens, 2006). For instance, marriage nowadays depends on the willingness of the couples rather than for economic purposes or the urge to form family.
Ugly Love Ugly love is such a nice novel to read with somehow can happen in reality even if it’s a Fiction Novel. The book is a story more of the issues happening to our society such as love being hard to find and sex being easy to find. Ugly love like “ love that is ugly means lust is beyond happiness and lust is more spoken and active” Ugly love is a novel about love that is like no strings attached but more of like being friends with benefits and the trust, love and hope for a good future ahead. The Genre is more of Romance because of how they develop from strangers who Miles being drunk outside Tate’s room because he broke up with Rachel and then Tate became merciful to put a Drunk Miles
Effective relationships should be a common goal for all to strive for. The learner believes that there are four major signs that make us human; the need to love, the need to be loved, the need to be accepted and the need to be respected as an individual. None of these things can be accomplished alone, therefore, a relationship needs to be formed. The more effective the relationship the more these needs are able to be met. In the study of marriage and family we look into the areas that can either make or break relationships.