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Tough Love Is A Approach To Love

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1.1 Introduction
What is love? Love as defined in Oxford Dictionary is a strong feeling of affection: babies fill parents with intense feelings of love’ ‘their love for their country’. Basically, there are many types of love. The most common type of love that we know and widely we use by most parents for their children is tough love. Tough love also is a philosophy which is to help parents in manage their children in any scope. This term also refers to numerous parent’s support in create the principles of tough love. It is for support the parents in dealing teen those always problematic.
Besides that, there are many parents have found helpful in raising a troubled teen which is tough love. Tough love is an approach to parenting. Actually, …show more content…

In addition, through the tough love also, the parents will increase the chances a child will grow into a well-rounded and successful adult. With the combination between discipline and warmth, the youngsters are more to develop skills such as empathy, application, and self-discipline. As we can see, sometimes the social problem among students is caused by their parents. As a teenager, they do not like when themselves are strictly controlled. A problem of teenage and parent is one common thing in most households. Even though the problems among family members are common in some houses than others, but almost every teenager has a problem. As teenager grow up, they like to try something that could test the limits of their ability, and sometimes they get into trouble because of this. The parents will be worry if their teenage starts acting more distant and starts behaving …show more content…

Love feeling is the interesting feeling that can change people from positive to negative and negative to positive. Love also related to tough love in which it is more to parental to have it. Parental tough love is quite important to handling their children in the academic performance aspect. According to Hollihan and Riley (1987), the parents do not believe that their child has been involved with drug and alcohol abuse that instructed in how to document such abuse. Something that may lead to student’s misbehavior is because of the tough love that is not used properly. If this situation is happen, it also can give negative effect to student’s performance. This is because, the students feel stress and will not take serious about their academic performance.
The purpose of this study is to examine the relationship between KPTM KL’s student academic performance and parental tough love.

1.3 Scope of the Study
The scope of the proposed study is researcher will investigate about “Does KPTM KL’s student academic performance affected by parental tough love?”. For this research, the researcher will have the respondents which consist of Degree and Diploma programme. The researcher will conduct this research at KPTM KL. The duration that researcher take for the research is about 3 weeks. About this research also, researcher study about the title like above. The title is about the parental tough love that can affect to their children in

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