Many people want to reach self reliance and become one with themself. Although, some people never get the experience to live the life they want. Most people are bound down to a certain standard by society and feel obligated to obtain that standard to make the people around them satisfied. However, Edna Pontellier was not fettered by society and traveled down her own path. Edna gathered many choices of individualism, transcendentalism, and nonconformity. With regards to individualism, which means the habit or principle of being self-reliant, is widely shown in both Emersons and Chopin’s work. Emerson creates the idea that “There is a time in every man’s education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is …show more content…
A nonconformist is one who does not follow generally accepted beliefs, customs, or practices. Emerson states that “He who would gather immortal palms must not be hindered by the names of goodness, but must explore if it be goodness, nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.” (paragraph 3). Meaning if anyone truly wishes to have self reliance they will become a nonconformist because a nonconformist acts and thinks for only himself. Edna does indeed become a nonconformist; she turns her life upside down solely for herself and herself only. Edna says “ ‘I would give up the unessential; I would give up my money, I would give my life for my children; but I wouldn’t give myself. I can’t make it more clear; it’s only something which I am beginning to comprehend, which is revealing itself to me..’ ” (page 65). Edna voicing this to a close friend made it clear that she was a nonconformist. Emerson says “For nonconformity the world whips you with its displeasure.” (paragraph 5). Meaning that a person who does not follow the “correct way” of living will be looked at as an outcast. Even Though, Emerson states this he also explains to the reader that it is okay for to be looked at as abnormal or different. He explains that if a nonconformist was to care then the person would be sitting at home sad and alone by himself. Although for a nonconformist not to care is self-reliance …show more content…
Emerson’s says, “It is the harder because you will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it. It is easy in the world to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude…” (paragraph 4). Edna faces this challenge when her father comes into town and scolds her husband saying “ ‘You are too lenient to lenient by far...put your foot down good and hard; the only way to manage a wife. Take my word for it.’ ” (page 98). Edna’s father, the colonel, tires to edify Leonce and his wife 's relationship to keep Edna in line. However, Leonce lets Edna freely make her choices even if he does not agree with them all the time. Without a doubt, Edna achieved many goals throughout the novel. Throughout the novel Edna goes through many struggles with discovering herself. She comes to terms with what her idea of individualism and self reliance. Many people throughout their life do not get the opportunity to become one with themselves; although Edna was lucky enough to get to experience
I grew up hearing the saying that a little girl could have an old soul, or that someone is well beyond their years. These sayings are popular to societies, because they try to explain why certain individuals differentiate from the acceptable norms in ways that may be more complicated than just personality traits. In The Awakening, Edna Pontellier is no exception. Her society’s expectations differ from who she is and how she is willing to act so that she would fit in. Chapter one of The Awakening begins the story with several examples of how Edna does not fit in with her society.
In Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Self Reliance, he passionately expresses his views on individualism. Emerson’s views on individuality are views of following oneself’s own thoughts and passions, rather than fearing men and following the world. The speaker is successful in getting his point across with the use of allusions, anaphora, and thought triggering metaphors. As discussed previously, Emerson employs strong allusions of well known people to get his claim across, which is how important individuality is.
Edna broke free from the mold of her society. She was trying to find her purpose and her worth in a world where she did not have many rights or individual stability. Edna Pontellier worked to disregard the influence and power of men and society as a whole to discover more about herself and what she really wanted out of life (Bommarito). She gave up the “unessential” such as her home, possessions, and reputation to do things for
Kate Chopin’s novel, The Awakening, shows a women trying to go against gender norms in the nineteenth-century. The protagonist, Edna, is not the normal nineteenth-century woman. She is more like the normal twenty-first-century woman. For example, she refuses to be a wife and a mother. Throughout the novel, Chopin continues to examine gender relationships.
By Edna conforming to society’s expectations, she was able to question what she truly desired. If Edna did not conform, then Edna would have not understood that she longed for independence and the novel would have no solidified
Edna tries to satisfy this desire by taking part in an adulterous affair with Alcee Arobin, a known playboy. However, this relationship doesn’t satisfy Edna’s wish for companionship as she uses Alcee only to satisfy her sexual desires. This all changes once Edna meets Robert Lebrun, who invokes a sense of excitement and love in Edna. Edna sees her relationship with Robert as her only chance to gain freedom from the confines of society; additionally Robert gives Edna the chance to have a fulfilling relationship as opposed to her loveless one with Leonce. Although the two are deeply in love with one another, Robert is unable to reciprocate Edna’s desires to be together.
Edna struggles by herself, and does what she determines best for her, against the wish of her friends. She leaves her husband and children behind to explore her sexual fantasies. Elizabeth however, grows and matures with a strong relationship with her mother, and sisters. Edna also runs away with a man, and embarks on a long journey of self fulfillment that leads to her suicide. This pleasure seeking trip is a direct response to the selfish values that she holds.
By coming into the world that men are in control of Edna is becoming more independent than ever before. Since she is now able to have a income she can afford to own her own house and live on her own, which is another step to her freedom. Edna decides that neither Adele Ratignolle and Mademoiselle are not the best role models for her awakening. The awakening that Edna is trying to go through is one that goes against nature and society.
Edna Pontellier in the novel, The Awakening, is a self-driven woman determined to become independent and free whilst undergoing a significant change in behavior throughout the novel. She attempts to withstand societal expectations by doing certain things that were not socially acceptable during this time period. While doing so, she experiences many different struggles during her awakening. These struggles that Edna undergoes may be described as internal as well as external. In the awakening, there is a constant conflict between inner and outer Edna.
Moreover, when her children tumbled, she will not pick them up just let them get up on their own. In contrast to Adele, Edna is not contributing herself to her family as well as Adele. Edna tries to fit in as the role to be a good mother, but, she cannot definitely, to be a mother-woman cannot fulfill her eagerness to be a special, independent and egocentric person. In Chapter XVI, Edna said to Adele, she would give her money and her life to children, but never herself. And that is what she is trying to understand and recognize.
Edna sets personhood limits on how much she would give up for her children through a recalled conversation with Adele where Edna spoke her views on motherhood: “I would give up the unessential; I would give my money, I would give my life for my children; but I wouldn’t give myself” (47). Her statement is revealing because Edna goes against what society says a woman is supposed to feel towards her children. She would give up superficial things like money, or a even a vital thing - her life - for her children. However, Edna states her unwillingness to become a ministering angel where to reach divine status she would have to erase her personhood, who she is as an individual. Edna will not give up her self for anything.
Kate Chopin’s The Awakening was written at the end of the nineteenth century, where many roles for women began to change; therefore, the it appears to have been a turning point for females (“The Role of the Wife and Mother”). These changes in female roles were mostly due to the actions of women themselves, motivated by their desires to break away from the limits imposed on their gender The nineteenth century was a critical point in time for women, in regards to their roles in society (“The Role of the Wife and Mother”). In The Awakening, Edna goes through noteworthy changes in the course of the novel, which reconstructs her into a woman who goes against societal ideals regarding motherhood and marriage . In the 1890s, motherhood was viewed
Edna’s life is less rough than the women because Kate Chopin the author of the Awakening plays with the connection of reality vs. appearance. This connection highlights the situation of people as she puts on a mask to fit the social expectations. In the novel we can see, Edna lives in a life with two different personalities. We can see this at the beginning of the book in chapter 7, “even as a child she had lived her own small life all within herself. At a very early
Edna’s awakening is the realization that she is not - and has never been - truly free. This discovery leads her to question
Edna’s inner identity reaches the breakpoint where it is necessary for her well-being that it is expressed. At this point, nothing else matters besides her intuitions and desires. This brings difficulty to her familiar relationships and friendships due to her rejection of living according to her role as a mother and a wife. Even though this conflict is addressed, it does not make an impact on her decision to remain a bit selfish through this time that she is finding herself. As a way of explaining her state of mind, Edna states that she "would give up the unessential; I would give my money, I would give my life for my children; but I wouldn't give myself.