Happiness is something we all experience, some more than others. It is thought that we should be happy all the time; however, that is not realistic. Everywhere we go in life, we are told to “Stay positive” or to “Smile through it”, like it is the healthy thing to do or even the right thing to do. Hearing this influences people to do it and it is not always beneficial to them. Constantly being happy is not healthy and can be very dangerous.
It becomes an obstacle and a distraction to be excessive interested in this things, it makes people think that what they really need to fulfill themselves is this kind of stuff, and obviously made them live to get more and more, to do whatever it takes to get the best car, phone, clothes and even a position, this could be to impress the society around them and to try to satisfy their desires and gratify themselves, and the only true is that at the end they are totally empty inside. Most of this kind of people can get enough, they based their life and spend their time and energy on this things that are completely distant from the spiritual side of life. Focusing just on the economic part, made this people to don’t get involved on other activities such as spending time with family, friend, or even on sentimental relationships, and this are moment s that need to have priority in our life,and here is when they show the selfishness and reaffirm the idea that money does not buy happiness, to really reach gratification it is important to don’t base our life in the idea that money can give it to us and try to control ourselves and identify what we really need and what is feeding our desired for material
This probably happens more often in long distance because since they are not seeing each other all the time they put on their positive face and they start to create a halo effect within their mind about their partner. Normally the act of idealization will keep people committed to their partners and leads them to believe that they have a chance at marriage later in life. Idealization falls into my relationship because it is a very bad habit of mine. Why is it a bad habit you may ask? Well, hold your horses I will get there.
On the other hand, clock-dependent alerting will make you stay alert and awake throughout the day. As most of us know, it is quite hard to stay awake and alert when you are feeling very drowsy. When you are going to bed at night you begin to notice how it is hard to keep your eyes open and you eventually fall asleep. Drowsiness is the last stage in advance of falling asleep. So, if you are drowsy while driving or simply studying, the next step is falling asleep which can be extremely dangerous.
Due to today's standard there is a huge focus of why love is so amazing and puts relationships on a pedestal. Reality sets in and many are let down by their significant other and it seems as if they can never be as good as one hopes. The focal point of love should be less focused on romantic love and more on friendship. Music and movies put a huge expectation on relationships that are unrealistic for people to accomplish. Friends know the real you better and can give you better advice.
So, when living abroad in a culturally different country, it becomes nearly impossible to avoid culture shock easily -despite how positive your attitude might be- since it is a natural and an enriching process a person must go through so as to grow as an individual. Firstly, one of the reasons that make culture shock to be an unavoidable experience -when living abroad- is that it is a natural temporary stage in a major process of adaptation. No matter how hard you try to stay positive and blend in, the ‘negative effects’ of culture shock will always affect you since people cannot decide whether to go through it or not, it just happens. Trying to avoid cultural shock is quite impossible since, as it just happens as any other experience in life, people have to deal with it, unwillingly or not. So, why do
Now the transition to this was rough; my schedule had been so dominated and determined by someone else that it was difficult to be put back into the ‘driver’s seat’ of my life. Not determining my own life had taken its toll as it had lulled me into apathetic complacency. I was lucky enough to have friends who saw this and did their best to draw me out of this state. Once my eyes were opened to how great it is to decide what I do I realized how much I had been
I guess that would require a lot of courage and self-introspection on the part on any individual. It is very difficult to let go of temptations but to hold oneself together in spite of that brings out the true individual in anyone. Dystopia is present everywhere- in our minds, in our lives, in our thoughts and in our habits. Dystopia is much easier to fall into. One might thing that life is all about happy endings and a bed of roses but somewhere we fail to see the stark connection of these with hard work and
In dictionaries, a journey is often described as an act of traveling from one place to another, but to a traveler, a journey has a deeper meaning. A single journey can make one’s mind more open to challenges and opportunities in life. Not only it causes the person to have a bigger perspective, but it helps the person to become who they really are by understanding their true identity. First of all, staying in one place makes me feel like I am cooped up and for some individuals, it even makes them go insane. We humans are not designed to stay in a particular place and do unchallenging chores, we, the most intelligent species, are capable of learning and apprehending about the outside world.
If you have friends to commute with you, you will surely have a lot to talk about that you won’t notice that you have already arrived at your destination, making the trip less tiring and stressful. Commuting with friends is also safer than commuting alone, because you have each other for