Unburdened Heart Analysis

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9TH COMMANDMENT
You shall be open to yourselves.
Unburdened Heart
‘They were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed ’-
Genesis 2:25.
Whenever couples become ashamed of one another; something has gone wrong in the relationship. Someone is definitely hiding something. ‘A sound heart is life to the body. But envy is rottenness to the bones’
- Proverbs 14:30
A burdened heart is one that is imprisoned by a negative mindset. In a real marriage both parties should have nothing to hid from one another
– no secrete, and no skeleton in any one’s cupboard, and both hearts should be freely opened to each other. An unburdened heart is devoid of fears, suspicions and superstitions. She could pick his calls and he could pick her calls without
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It lacks understanding, and caring.
It is insincere and does not effectively communicate.
The troubled spirit is often filled with anger, disobedience, malice, and the willingness to revenge.
The troubled heart cannot partake in sexual intercourse genuinely and freely.
Such a heart is always frightened and tormented by anything. The burdened mind cannot love and does not appreciate kind gestures because it has a lot of secretes hidden within.
Warning: With this kind of heart, the marriage is sitting on a keg of
‘gun-powder’, which is ready to explode at the slightest provocation.
Explanations:
One: With a burdened heart, there is bound to be anger, which does not speak peaceful language.
Counsel: For a successful marriage, banish every suspicion from your heart. As a child of God your partner cannot wish you evil. Just believe that even if he or she does, you are harmless.
Two: A burdened heart, which is filled with revenge, cannot understand appeal and such heart is equally destructive.
Counsel: Remove all forms of despiteful thought from your mind so that you would understand your partner, for progressive and peaceful dialogue. When you are able to banish or expel all evil thinking, such
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A heart that is freed only can be occupied with love.
Warning: An evil ghost shall ultimately kill who ever has any skeleton in his or her cupboard.
10TH COMMANDMENT
You shall always love one another.
Love
And now abides faith, hope, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
– (1Corinthians 13:13)
Love summarizes all of the progressive qualities enumerated and explained above.
Love is the more excellent way to have all such good qualities that make marriages successful. Love can be defined as; ‘likeness, obedience, and value for eternity.’ Love does no evil, is not wrathful, but patience and enduring.
When love is properly cultivated and truly practiced in marriage, it is the greatest commandment for success.
With love in your heart you will speak well and with understanding spirit your marriage will become enviable and honorable. Love does not speak evil, provocative, unkind, or abusive words, but soothing, encouraging, faith building, peaceful and joy producing language. Love does not misunderstand another as to act foolishly or to fight destructively. Love bears all things, endures all things, and faithfully believes that all things work together for good to
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