In any era of mankind, from the earliest Homo sapiens to the people of the 21st century, human lives have been shaped and affected by the loss of others negatively or positively, whether it be a family member, a friend, or simply someone who is part of your everyday life. (BS-1) In the book Under The Persimmon Tree, Najmah loses her youth mainly because she lost family members. (BS-2) Besides losing her youth, she has also lost her voice after losing everyone she loved and cared about, both in terms of her literally losing her ability to speak, but also in terms of her say in the direction of her own life. (BS-3) The loss of her loved ones also motivates her to make risky and dangerous decisions, it also both forced and encouraged her to restitute …show more content…
I have forgotten my childish quarrels with Nur.” (Staples 37). The loss of her father and brother cause her to recognize the dangerous situation her family is in with the Taliban around, her mind is now more focused on the dangers of the Taliban lurking around, not on trying to think of a way to beat Nur in a childish and unnecessary competition. (SIP-B) Beside Najmah’s mental development to maturity, Najmah is now also more protective of her family and her family’s property, Najmah is now doing the job of protecting her family and land, a job that was supposed to be for her father. (STEWE-1) Najmah is willing to defend her land and animals against any threats, she is willing to fight anyone that is unwelcome and is an intruder, even if she has to risk her own life, “I push aside the curtain and step outside, holding the curved knife in one hand, the blade pointing toward the ground. Uncle turns in surprise. I thought it was the Pashtun Talib, I say. I don’t want them to steal the animals.” (Staples 58). Najmah immediately took the curved knife and went to investigate, which was only after she noticed an intruder on their land, this should have been a job that her father should have done, but with both him and Nur gone, Najmah is forced to do the job. The Taliban could have easily killed her if she fought back, however, she still risked her life in order to defend her land …show more content…
(SIP-A) Najmah has lost her actual voice after witnessing the horror of her mother and baby brother are killed in an American drone strike. (STEWE-1) With her mother and baby brother gone, Najmah’s body and mind are not agreeing with each other, leaving her completely silent, “I try to communicate, but although the words form inside my head, my tongue and lips will not cooperate” (Staples 88). The loss of her mother and brother causes her own body to turn against her own mind, even when her mind forms the words for her mouth, her voice refuses to come out, and her mouth stays shut, it comes to a point where even if she wants or intends to speak, she in unable to because her own body is not cooperating. (STEWE-2) Najmah is also unable to speak because she is in shock from losing her mother and baby brother. “But I feel as if my tongue has been locked inside my mouth since the moment I saw my mother airing the quilts just before the bombs fell” (Staples 88). The loss of her mother and baby brother traumatizes her and bring her into a state of shock, leaving her to be unable to speak, Najmah was only twelve years old when she witnessed the bombs falling toward her mother, brother, and their house, an event of such violence of such violence and
Imagine waking up every morning with the Taliban in rule, imagine waking up not knowing if you or your loved ones would die today, with bombs going off and gunfire ringing in your ears. This is what it's like every day in the book Under the Persimmon Tree, by Susan Fisher Staples. This book takes place in Afghanistan and Pakistan after 9/11 the main character is named Najmah and she is in a family of five living on a farm in Golestan, Afghanistan. Her father and older brother got taken by the Taliban and the mother and younger brother got killed in the bombing. at the end all that is left is Nur and Najmah.
The lost of a loved one can have a huge impact on a family that they failed to notice the present. In the novel, Bone by Fae Myenne Ng, Leila wondered if she mattered to her mom because of the lack of attention she received, "I resented Mah her stubborn one-track moaning-crying over Ona who was dead, crying over Nina who was gone. Crying over her two lost daughters... What about me? Don't I count?
(MIP-1) Najmah’s trigger avoidance, a vital symptom of PTSD, stems from her fear of reliving the bombing when her mother and baby brother died, but by running away to save herself, she prevents recovery by isolating herself from those who wish to help her. (SIP-A) Trigger avoidance appears in Najmah after the death of her mother and baby brother as she fears to experience the event once more. (STEWE-1) Studies have shown that when under the effect of PTSD, there are triggers which may cause the individual to live through the event again. As a result, they usually attempt to avoid the triggers which cause them pain (“Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder”).
(AGG)Post traumatic stress disorder(PTSD) affects many people in the book Under the Persimmon Tree and also affects many people in real life who have experienced a traumatizing event. (BS-1)PTSD causes for the characters of the book and people in real life to have nightmares and flashbacks of a traumatizing event they may have experienced. (BS-2)Many who have PTSD will change from who they are to a new person and shut others out of their life to get over their past and get over a traumatizing event.(BS-3)PTSD gives Nusrat, Najmah and anyone else who has the disorder depression that may cause them to change their lifestyle and to be unconcentrated on what is important for their own health and safety. (TS)The author of Under the Persimmon Tree
In the book “The Lovely Bones”, Alice Sebold talks about how sexual assault can affect the family of the victim. This lead to the conclusion of that there are many ways to deal with grief. Susie’s father wanted justice for her death and turned craze looking for the killer. Susie also changed when Mr.Harvey raped and killed her. She came to understand that life will move on, with the people in it.
In the written texts, The Hunger Games, The Real Katie Lavender, Goodnight Mister Tom and Looking for Alaska a common theme of how people change after loss is explored. Through the examples of Katniss’ father’s death, Neil’s suicide, Tom’s wife’s death and Alaska’s death, the theme of how the people close to those who died, change the way they live is illustrated. The theme of how people change after loss is shown through The Hunger Games, a novel written by Suzanne Collins. Katniss has horrific flashbacks of her father’s death, that occurred because of an explosion in the coal mine of District Twelve. “ Five years later, I still wake up screaming for him to run.”
“Jesus wept” (NIV John. 11.35). Loss, an inevitable hardship for all humans, even Christ himself cried over the pain with the loss of a dear friend. More than just displacement, loosing something or someone brings grief and distress, taking not only the item itself but pieces of those around it as well. “Gwilan’s Harp” by Ursula K. LeGuin, “The Washwoman” by Isaac Singer, and “The Last Leaf” by O. Henry all provide perfect examples of the varying ways loss can appear and the different approaches to dealing with it. “Gwilan’s Harp” depicting long term, traumatic loss following its repercussions through the entire remainder of one’s life.
In the short stories “Gwilans Harp” by Ursula K. le Guin, “The Washwoman” by Isaac Singer, and “The Last Leaf” by O. Henry all the characters experience a loss of some kind. In “Gwilans Harp” Gwilan loses her favorite harp, her husband, and her ability to play. “The Washwoman” focuses on the loss of a woman’s contact with her son, her health, and her ability to work. Finally, in “The Last Leaf” the two young ladies Johnsy and Sue learn loss through the loss of Johnsy’s health, the loss of hope, and the loss of their neighbor. Despite the fact that all the short stories deal with the theme of loss they deal with this theme differently.
After reading the book The Other Wes Moore many themes seem to nudge at you to realize many things that happen that you might not notice in everyday life. One of the life lessons that really plays a role in my life is loss, faith, and redemption. Loss. This word can mean different things depending on the person and their experiences. Loss might mean an event that causes immoderate feelings of despondency.
The Story of an Hour by Kate Chopin and the Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Stetson were both written by women to express how they were treated in their time period. Both of these stories were criticized because they challenged the belief that a woman should not be just a docile wife. These two pieces of literature utilized symbolic imagery, repetition, and dramatic irony to convey the common theme shared that women are opressed by the standards of society. In Chopin's Story of an Hour, Mrs. Mallard sees the outside world through the only window in her room.
Grieving is a common and unhappy process that many people go through in their lifetime. Through the grieving process, people often come to conclusions about their life. In Please Ignore Vera Dietz, Vera loses her best friend Charlie and tries to stray away from her parent’s examples, only to find out that she will have to come to terms with the loss of her best friend. In We Were Liars, Cadence gets sick in a tragic accident that causes her to wonder about her family and find out the truth. In both, Please Ignore Vera Dietz by A.S. King, and We Were Liars by E. Lockhart, we learn that when people grieve it causes more loss and unlawful actions.
Afghanistan is a country full of social expectations and boundaries influenced by both class and ethnicity. Amir and Hassan come from polar opposite social backgrounds: Amir, a wealthy member of the dominant Pashtuns, and Hassan, a child servant to Amir and member of the minority Hazaras. Yet, as young children, it seems as though this difference is a mere annoyance rather than a serious blockade to their friendship. This all changes, though, when Amir makes a split second decision, a decision shaped by his unconscious desire to uphold their class difference. Hassan does everything for Amir, most specifically, he runs his kites, and when the town bully wants to steal that kite, Hassan resists even in the face of unspeakable violence.
Have you ever felt loss so deep that everything you see is different just because that person is gone? In Mother by Ted Kooser the speaker’s mother’s death made his world view more sorrowful. Through this view of the world Kooser uses symbolism, personification, and imagery to show the speaker’s feelings about his mother dying. Symbolism is used in many different ways throughout this poem to present the speakers feelings on his mother dying. Her vibrance is shown in the lightness and happiness of nature.
Life is not a bed of roses. Everyone on this earth suffer in one way or the other. But as human beings we aim for a life which is free from tribulations. When we watch a movie or when we read a novel, we feel and look into the characters as if they are closely related to us. Wherever we are on this earth, be a native or an alien the sufferings and happiness are one and the same, may the intensity varies.
However, the Taliban was furious with Malala. Her name was looked up online and from the Taliban it said, “Should be killed” (Yousafzai 118). “Her words defied the Taliban, an oppressive religious and political group that ruled by militant force where Malala lived” (Rowell 10). She did the complete opposite of the Taliban. Malala stood up for education while the Taliban tried tearing it down.