Waking up in reality Have you ever noticed how people live their lives today especially the youths? Are you aware of the changes that are happening as years pass by? Are you living your life the right way or are you one of those who live their lives based on what they want even though they know that it is not right? If we try to look at the lives of each other now, most of them are being stuck and some are already wasted. See, there are lots of things being discovered especially when it comes to different social media sites or other things with the use of it that have great impact to the young ones in the sense that these sites become their lives. What they see or hear is what they apply, maybe for fame or to be said that they are not out …show more content…
If you don’t get interested in going to school. Did you ever think how your parents work hard just for you to have a better future? But all you do is destroy their plans for you. If you are not drinking or smoking, you consume your time focusing on other things. You are given allowance for you to study but all you do is to spend it on playing computer games. Some parents think that their child is attending school, they think their child have perfect attendance and is giving his or her very best. But when the time comes that the grades are about to be given, again, the standards are not met. Of course your parents would be disappointed and would be giving advice to you but since you are addicted to something, all you do is to pretend that you did not hear anything and you will be continue doing the things you only want. You will continue living your life not depending on what your parents want but depending on what you want and what your friends want. In life, if you are addicted in the wrong way, you cannot enjoy what you really want to enjoy. Until such time that because of your decisions, you are drowned to lots of problems and in result your friends will be either leaving you and the only people that can help you are your parents. And if this time comes you would be asking for another chance. Neither you will be given a chance or not at
The more common substances are cigarettes, alcohol, and marijuana. This often leads to lower academia results and increased withdrawal from school. Adolescence is the most important period to enact preventive measures for substance abuse. Prevention and treatment plans are the most prevalent forms of defense in school-aged
He states, “Most college kids spend more time drinking than studying. And they still get mostly A’s” (1). In other words, college students are spending their time developing a habit of drinking versus studying or learning. He also argues that the only way to solve this issue is by “implementing policies or guidelines” (2). It has taken a lot of effort from faculty and students to get rid of grade inflation, but schools such as Wellesley College and Reed College have been successful.
Researchers have found that “over the course of human evolution, the willingness to take risks during this period of life has granted an adaptive edge” (Dobbs 4). By realizing that taking risks is an important part of coming-of-age, teens develop a new perspective. The article points out that “we enter a world made by our parents. But we will live most of our lives, and prosper (or not) in a world run and remade by our peers” (Dobbs 4). Teens realize that they are transitioning to a whole new world as they come of age; a world run by their generation.
To minimize the amount of binge drinking a key factor would be to decrease the drinking age as this would lower the eagerness to drink among a younger generation. These facts portray that the first-time students have the freedom and are able to do things at their own will, they
“Teens Start ‘Offline October’ To Urge Peers Off Social Media And Live Real Lives,” a Colorado Public Radio article by Jo Ann Allen, describes the campaign put into motion to put teen’s addiction to technology to a halt in modern society, while pressing the importance of human engagement. The author explains the stem motive of this campaign, by explaining it through a story in which the campaign “was started by students in suburban Denver after two of their peers took their own lives in the same week earlier this year”. The author also states the organization is trying to “ask teenagers on social media to stop posting stories and start living them; to stop worrying about followers and be with real-life friends”. This is the main focus of the whole campaign, to live life. On the other side of the pond, they have some other thoughts about teens and their usage of phones.
Forty million people a day view Instagram stories, 79% of teenagers use Snapchat once a day, and 51% use it at least eleven times a day. In fact, teenagers use on average five screens a day (Patel, “10 Tips”). The use of social media makes teenagers happier and cures their boredom after school. However, problems arise when young people find all their satisfaction on social media. All this time spent on social media and whether you get enough “likes” could result in a bad outcome and cause poor health.
The five milestones, as listed in Henig’s article are, “completing school, leaving home, becoming financially independent, marrying and having a child” (200). Although most of these accomplishments appear to directly oppose the general idea that young adults should be able to focus on themselves and be able to freely choose how they live their life. However, the one most affected by social media is the milestone of becoming
Recently, there has been controversy over a certain topic. Are kids deluded narcissists, too coddled, and spoiled? Kids in this generation have awards handed to them like candy, believe that their online appearance is a true reflection of themselves, and are taught from an early age that “life is fair”. This is a problem because our generation is not learning how to deal with real life problems on their own, is relying on social media for their self-esteem, and is completely spoiled and ungrateful. First and foremost, kids are being coddled to the point where it could actually cause harm to their futures.
It apears that children who exprienced drinking at young age will also continously and habitually drink in the future once they grow up. They do not simple do this occasionally but it has become a frequent and habitual addiction (Christiansen et al. 7). In totality, drinking alcoholic beverages of teenagers is not is unhealthy, unsafe, and unacceptable. More and likely teens that drink are trailing behind in their education because of how alcohol affects them so bad. Some parents allow their children drink alcoholic beverages under certain circumstances with their
I lie awake yet remained paralyzed. Sitting alone sandwiched between two cotton sheets I stare into the midnight abyss of my ceiling. From the corner of my room stands a single illuminated tv silently playing episodes of Grey's Anatomy. Breaking this moment of tension, I reach for my phone to see what time it is . Pressing the power button revealed my worst fear: it was 2 o’clock in the morning.
Teenagers of today has this lame belief that they can easily get away with drinking. They often forget that drinking more than tolerated put strain on the minds leading them to acquire low grades in class; consequently, they get bad jobs and bad environment through their lives. Drinking can even lead them to commit suicide. Youth in the united states prefer drinking alcohol over any other mood-altering substance.
Thirty years ago, the concept of social media would have seemed impossible. A place where a person can show everyone they know what they are doing in two seconds from any city seems insane. Today, it is the daily ritual of the average teenager, including myself. I start my mornings looking at Instagram and end my nights looking at Snapchat. The middle of the day is for YouTube.
Monday morning 8 am. You hear the teacher start the lecture. About five minutes in you feel your eye lids getting heavy. Before you know it you are waking up right before your head hits the desk, and then you are pretending you meant to do that. We have all been there!
Imagine that 20 years ago the only way to stay in touch with a person was to mail a letter. In a modern world with the invention of social media, people can converse with someone using the internet and get a response within seconds. Although in the course of time all generations have started to take advantage of the novations that social media has brought about, teenagers and young adults are the most active users of these networks. According to numerous research studies in the area of online social networks, it has been shown that such sites are impacting the lives of the youth significantly. Understandably, there are a lot of different opinions about its positive and negative influence.
According to Canneil University’s (Steven Strogatz, 2005), “Social media sites can make it more difficult for us to distinguish between the meaningful relationships we foster in the real world, and the numerous casual relationships formed through social media”. When the young people prioritise these less than meaningful relationships, the more important connections like parents-children and sisters-brothers relationship will weaken because the less they communicate with each other, the higher the risk for the meaningful relationship to be damaged. They also score low in schools because of the distractions like video games, watching videos, and chatting with known and unknown person in social media sites. People never realise that all of these kind of distractions are actually the distractions that they created themselves. Young people may cause their future to be beaten by their own current attitude because ‘how’ they think now is ‘how’ they are going to be in the