Which Mother Is Better Amy’s Mother Or Amy Chua It is commonly believed that parents’ love are strict because they wants their children can be an useful person to the society so, a lot of Chinese mothers always enforce their children to do something. These mothers have a common name “Tiger mother”. In the stories “Tiger Moms” and “Two kinds” were written by Annie Murphy Paul and Amy Tan respectively. In these stories, there are two rigorous mothers: Amy Chua and Amy’s mother. Both of them were very strict to their kids. Finally Amy Chuan released she was wrong and she made a change but Amy’s mother did not change her mind at last, she was not be willing to compromise with her daughter. Firstly, Amy Chuan was extremely strict to her children. For example, before her daughter Lulu can play the piece of piano practice, there were “no breaks for water or even the bathroom”. Amy Chua enforced her daughter to play the piano because Amy Chua hoped Lulu can learn something new and she was afraid Lulu would be lazy so, Amy paid …show more content…
When her daughter complained she did not want to play the piano, Amy’s mother said” So ungrateful, if she had as much talent as she has temper, she’d be famous now”. Amy’s mother was selfish, she only cared how can let Amy to be famous not what Amy’s like. Amy’s mother thought that Amy can be successful as long as Amy followed her mother’s mind. Also, Amy’s mother always compared her daughter with another people. For instants, her mother asked “What’s the capital of Finland” to her daughter because she knew “a three- year- old boy who knew the capital of all the states and even most of the European countries”. She had very great expectation on Amy, she thought Amy can do anything that another guys can. It is unfair to Amy because her mother did not care what Amy likes, she only concerned how Amy could be successful in all sides. As thus, Amy’s mother always enforced Amy to be what Amy’s mother
“Unlike my mother, I did not believe I could not be anything I wanted to be, I could only be me” (Tan 5). Amy decides doing what she wants serves her best interest. She learns that she must just be herself and not try to be what anyone else wants her to be. Parents should not force their children into situations they do not want to be in. Putting this pressure on them can cause a loss of confidence and negatively affect the relationship between the parent and the
But, as she grew older, she realized that they weren’t people that should be admired. Her father was never home, drunk, and wasting their money gambling, while her mother was either crying on the sofa or trying to fulfill her life long dream of becoming
The protagonists mother ‘Ma’ only cares about money. She will cross anyone boost her bank balance and only cares for people that have money. This is shown in various situations, especially when she kidnaps her own child. ‘Ma’ (MacDibble 2017, p. 55) puts a strain on the relationship between her and ‘Peony’ (MacDibble 2017, p. 1) her daughter. This is reflected in her daughter’s actions, ‘I pull myself out of my squashed-in corner and slide to the middle of the seat.’
Although control over a child may be seen as beneficial, many attributes of parental figures also suppress the natural essence of children. When Hannah moves in with Tante Rose, her life becomes dedicated to mastering Tante Rose’s piano. Despite previously living far more carefree home, when she moves in with her aunt, her lifestyle begins to change, saying, “Tante Rose demanded of me total commitment and devotion” (Horton, 33). Similarly, when Charlotte’s mother attempts to control Charlotte’s life, Charlotte describes her mother using a metaphor. She says, “my mother is a lofty mountain capped by virgin snow.
Amy Chau does everything for a reason, even if it is as trivial as picking out an instrument for her children to play. She is a very straightforward, single-minded individual who has a specific ideology for everything she chooses to do. As she states on page 45, “I believed that the only way for Lulu to get out from under the shadow of her high-performing sister was to play an even more difficult, more virtuosic instrument. That’s why I chose the violin.” Her reasoning for picking the violin for Lulu and piano for Sophia was she believed in raising her children the Chinese way, which meant classical music.
An example is when she explains how her mother would have her call to ask for information, and people in department stores, banks, and restaurants would not take her mother seriously. This essay might well be aimed at people who have to take care of their parents as if they are exchanging roles with parents. At a young age, Amy had to handle situations.
The massive amount of attention to appearance by both of Alison’s parents averts her from living her childhood in creative curiosity. Thus, it also prevents her from having the individual freedoms necessary in a traditional ethical
Amy Chua’s intense Chinese mother style is extremely hard on children. The author begins explaining how many stereotypical Chinese children become successful.
The mother was a housecleaner, and wanted June to be worth more than that. So she was obsessed with attempting to make June a prodigy. The mother was watching a show that had piano music, and wants June to start playing piano. She exchanges housecleaning services for piano lessons for June. June doesn’t want any of
The phrase “mother knows best” refers to maternal instinct and wisdom. It is often used to describe how mothers are the most knowledgeable when it comes to their children’s needs. This cliche is frequently used by mothers who try to guide their children on the path towards success, especially when the child protests. Tita’s mother, Mama Elena, embraces this expression fully, and always pushes Tita towards what she believes is the road to achievement. Mama Elena is perhaps one of the best portrayals of “tough love” in a character in literature.
But yet they both sometimes don’t respect their mother. Mama is a gentle women, she always has to be honest with her children. Mama is not an educated women her school closed at the second grade. ” I never had an education myself” (Walker, 316, 13).
Two Kinds by Amy Tan is the story everyone can relate to about being really close to your parents and wanting to do everything with them when your young and then growing up and not wanting to be around your parents at all. As a child Jing mei started off her life with her mother in America. As Jing mei was growing up, everyday her and her mother would try to find out what Jing bei was a prodigy at. Little did they know that all this time they were spending together trying to find this hidden talent would soon be the demise of their relationship.
The only woman in the world who will still cradle you in her arms even if you've stabbed her loving heart is your mother. The short story “Teenage Wasteland” by Anne Tyler is about guilt and reveals mother’s feelings towards her children. A loving mother will feel guilty for anything that happens to her children, and even for that how they feel. Mothers is the person who cares the most about her child. The story “Teenage Wasteland” tells about a common situation many families experience: a misunderstood child creates problems to his parents, not by fault, but because he feels unwanted.
Each daughter thinks she is not even comparable to her mother, but they soon realize that that is not the case. The daughters also feel that they can never make their mothers proud of them because they are always criticizing everything they do. Waverly Jong told her a friend, “‘You don’t know my mother, she never thinks anybody is good enough for anything. ’”(Tan 167). Waverly Jong stopped playing piano because she was tired of her mom showing her off when she did well, but cutting her down when she was perfect enough.
She talks about how her friends could not understand her mother 's talking but Amy thought her mother was good at speaking English. Amy states, "Some say they understand none of it, as if she were speaking pure Chinese. But to me, my mother 's English is