“Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” Parenting is an eternal and debatable topic seeing that everybody has their own opin-ion on how their child should be raised. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Su-perior” Amy Chua explains how she thinks children should be brought up and speaks well of the Chinese methods. She is convinced that if you provide a harsh setting for your child, he or she will end up being a successful, independent and in particular confidant human being. Nevertheless, Amy finds it difficult to live in a country where people find her methods to strict and this especially ends out in conflicts with her husband. Amy has a credible ethos, as she writes in an intellectual and quite academic way. Her ethos is also strengthened by the fact that she is a professor in Yale University. This information is given in start of the article, so through out the whole article we are more prone to believe her. Besides Amy’s professions we are also presented to a very distinct character. Amy is not scared of presenting herself as being a very strict and harsh mother, although she knows that people will feel provoked and disagree with her way of bringing up her kids. Throughout the article, she uses several personal ex-periences that support this assertion and this …show more content…
Huntington developed a theory involving this exact problem and believed that globalization would lead to cultural clashes. As to the up-bringing of children, this article is a brilliant example of his theory. Amy Chua feels trapped in a moral dilemma, as her husband has a very different approach to their children’s upbringing, due to their cultural differences. Therefore the two of them often end out in “clashes” or rather big arguments. These arguments are often about Amy’s very strict way of dealing with their kids. Here way of pressing them and ex-pecting things from
Dear Mrs. Amy Chua, As an experienced (seasoned) mother of four, having recently read an excerpt from your book “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” I unconditionally disagree with your perspective on this idea. Your ideal parenting method is unacceptable as it damages self-esteem, confidence, and creativity. It truly scares me to think that the content of your article may persuade amateur parents to mimic you and your “tactics”, which would be an absolutely tragic plummet in parenting standards, sending us back to the 1900s. I understand that you believe that the best way to raise a child is through an intense regimen consisting of limited leisure and long hours of study. However, you must recognize that there is much more to childhood than this.
American lawyer and author, Amy Chua in her essay, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior”, compares and contrast the stereotypical success of Chinese children versus the children of Western. 70% of Western mothers said that “stressing academic success is not good for children”, while roughly 0% of the Chinese mothers felt the same way. Chua’s purpose is to the point that Chinese children repay their parents by obeying them and making them proud, but Western parents don’t have the same view of children being permanently indebted to their parents. She adopts a formal tone in order to explain Chinese children’s success, in her intended audience, Chinese parents. Chua achieves her purpose through the use of anecdote and selection of details.
Firstly, while both authors discuss parenting, they differ in the way they praise their child. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” Amy Chua says that “When Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you’re good at it” (1). On the other hand, in the article “Mother Inferior” Hanna Rosin says that “I wanted them to be coddled and never to experience hardship” (2). Chua’s way of praising her child is not to praise because it expected to be exceptional in their education.
Her father had to give up his lifelong dream of becoming a doctor because he was unable to afford school and take care of his growing family. Due to this he ended up becoming a janitor . Throughout her work she draws on her own life experiences. In one poem she states “And i shall prime my children/ pray, to pray”(brooks11-12).
In the second except, Injustices to Chinese Women by Qiu Jin, Jin introduced us to the hardships and unfair treatments that the women have to face under the Chinese society. In the beginning of her except, Jin basically stated that it is unlucky to be born as a girl in China. Throughout her descriptions, China was a male orientated society. Her statement about how men would kill their own children, just because they were born with a female gender, shows that women in China faced their injustices since the moment they got out of their wombs. Not only that, the beauty standard in China is really cruel and painful, as women have to bind their feet, as no men want to marry women with big feet.
In Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, western parents, as Chua describes, are ruining the Chinese parenting style. “All these new books out there portraying Asian mothers as scheming, callous, overdriven people indifferent to their kids’ true interests.” Her concern with these books is that it portrays the Chinese parenting as the wrong way when Chua, who is a Chinese mother, sees herself loving and sacrificing more for her kids. This shows that western parents are portraying that the Chinese parenting method as inferior without really diving deeper into why Chinese parents parent the way they do and just assuming they are doing it all wrong. In Spoiled Rotten, while Carolina traveled to an Amazonian village, she was surprised that Yanira, a young girl of another family,”quickly found ways to make herself useful...
Amy Chua’s Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is a memoir full of thoughts and memories and contains a very complex style of writing that provokes important questions about the construction of culture, controversy, and identity. Her style of writing captures the reader's attention that the readers are able to come up with their own point of view about the controversies that have been mentioned throughout the book itself. This book is about an asian mother, Amy herself, who parented her children, Sophia and Louisa (Lulu), in the traditional East Asian culture way, following her own parent’s footsteps. However, as she shared her parenting skills in her story, it became a worldly topic that has created controversies among the different viewpoints
By not spoiling Amy, Amy’s mother opened her mind to the importance of values. Thus, it was Amy’s mother’s refusal to obey Amy’s every wish that led to Amy’s important realization that she must accept her culture, and led to her shift from a spoiled girl to a wise, humble
Culture can play a role in how parents raise their children. The majority of population of the US traces their family’s history from both sides of the family. Some are patriarchy, which means they trace their family only on their father’s sides, and some are matriarchy, which means they trace their family only on their mother’s side. I tried to think about how I was raised growing up and tried to put myself in the children’s shoes and I had a hard time connecting to the children in the book because come from a matriarchy society. Where the mothers, aunties, grandmothers are head of the household instead of the fathers.
One of the most notable of those is the stereotype that kids that come from Asian families are set on a path from an early age towards becoming a doctor, engineer, lawyer, or other respectable profession. And there is a reason for that. For many Asians, especially the Chinese, this is attributed to the “tiger mom” technique: a strict and controlling parenting style that almost guarantees academic success in a child, as studies have shown. These “tiger moms” first got attention through Amy Chua’s 2011 book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, which compared traditional Chinese
The article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” was written in 2011 by Amy Chua, who is a professor at Yale Law School in the United States of America. The article follows significant themes such as the upbringing of children and perfectionism. In the article, the author, Amy Chua, explains the differences between the upbringing of children by respectively Chinese parents and Western parents.
Is growing up in two cultures more challenging than beneficial? Explored in Educated by Tara Westover. Being raised in two different cultures can be difficult and has both advantages and disadvantages. The excerpt from Tara Westover's book “Educated” provides insight into the difficulties of adapting two cultures. Growing up in two cultures is a challenging experience that can be both stimulating and intimidating.
Regarding parental roles, ! Kung mothers are often the ones who deal with correcting their child’s behavior (Draper). However, this is usually only because, generally, mothers are the closest to their children physically at any given time. Children are not raised to fear their fathers or male authority. Even though mothers are typically those who spend the most time with their children, the fathers are still heavily involved.
Amy doesn't want to get too close and bond with anyone because she is scared that they might leave and never come back like her dad. She has a conflict with herself because she is always trying to make her life much
In today 's society, we tend to be about change, trying to find alternatives for anything we suspect the worst. We try to find alternative ways of eating, exercising, healing, etc. Spanking has become an act that many want to find an alternative to, with people relating spanking to abuse, and that spanking could be the worst possible thing in this world because, "developmental researchers have come to the conclusion, not always supported by research, that hitting their children under the guise of punishment is contributing to this rise in violence"(O 'Donnell) This could be the reason why we have people telling us that it 's rough parenting to spank, but maybe a spanking might be the last resort when nothing else works. One actress,