In the beginning of the book we knew nothing about her mother. Mostly about how T- ray is the meanest man in the world. In the novel lily said that he wouldn’t let her read or have fun. What she had to do was help him work his peach farm all day. Lily also said that she hated him for telling her that her mother didn’t love her. So to lily T-ray was an abusive and alcholic father that didn’t love lily at all. And all we heard about her mother was that she loved lily before she died. In the novel lily kept a box of some of her things which was white gloves a picture of her and a colored mary picture. Lily was basically obsessed with her mother and the thought of her mother loving her. But she didnt know the actual story until she met the housekeeper …show more content…
And Deborah loved him. But when Deborah told T-ray about being pregnant thats when he got mad and they got married. So lily probably thought at this point that T-ray never did love her.then august told her that her mother did come to stay here leaving her behing for a couple months. Lily was thinking that her mother didn’t love her because she left without her and didnt come back. After that lily was mad at her mother that she didnt love her own daughter. August tried telling her that it wasn’t true but lily didnt believe it. When T- ray came to get lily he thought he was looking at deborah again and feeling that she left him so he got angry. Lily could tell that T-ray wasnt thionking right and shouted daddy. Then something clicked. In the novel he realized that it was lily and not Deborah and felt bad because she looks exactly like his wife. T-ray eventually realized that lily was better off with the boatwrights than him. In the novel T- ray then confessed that the day her mother died was actually the day she was coming back for lily. He had lied because she wasn’t coming back for him. I think at this point lily actually felt bad for him because he did love her but he just didn’t realize
Lily's childhood was traumatic, as her father abused her mother, which has much to do with her staying in an abusive relationship. Lily and Ryle get married, and soon to follow, Ryle begins to regularly abuse Lily out of jealousy, anger, sadness, and his problems. When Lily loses hope and trust, she turns to her past boyfriend, Atlas Corrigan. Atlas was a boy
Lily’s idolization of her mother is shown in how she describes Deborah’s belongings. A photo, which she see’s her mother's beautiful, gloves that Lily holds as if it were actually hers, and a photo of the black Mary which she keeps close. Right before Lily finds out T. Ray was right in saying Deborah left them Lily says she never believed him and she wants to prove him wrong. Characters with flaws are a lot more sympathetic and likeable to the reader instead of the perfect flawless unrealistic ones. Kidd got the reader to understand these flaws with how August tried to explain the situation to Lily, “All she did was cry for a week.
Her mother died when she was 4, and Lily was the one to kill her. Her dad, T-Ray, was a terrible parent to her too, because he hit her. She also have to live with the guilt that she ended her mother’s life. “There's nothing like a song about lost love to remind you how everything precious can slip from the hinges where you've hung it so careful.” a quote by August, page 50.
Lily’s mother is the cause of much of her grief, through her journey she imagines her mother in a way that does not accurately depict who her mother truly was. When she finds out what her mother actually was she, “I stood
When children dont have trust with their parents they turn to their peer which is not always a good idea. Sometimes its a good idea to turn to adults who might help us or give us advice because adults already have experience. T. Ray does not help his daughter because in the book we see him as a cruel father who he dont even know what Lily needs and a father who misinterpret his daughter just because the daughter went outside the house, he immediately thought that she was with a guy. In the book Sue Monk Kidd gives us an example of Lily feeling better with August Boatwright because she is the only woman who can listen to her and helps her is she needs help not like T. Ray ignoring her and not taking care of her, Mr. Owens you would be doing Lily and the rest of us a favor by leaving
To start with Lily is raised by Roseleen, their black housekeeper. This isn’t all that uncommon for that time period, especially considering her MIA mother and her detached father. What is uncommon, however, is the fact that Lily runs away from her father and ends up at a house with three
This evidence portrays how desperate Lily is to know literally anything about her mother no matter how simple. Lily later on her journey to find more about her mother learns more about her mother . Though this information on her makes Lily no longer
Lily barely knew her own mother, and T. Ray, her father, abuses her and could care less. Lily gets to experience the parent-child love from Rosaleen. Kidd asserts that the interaction between different races can lead to loving
Instead of loathing T.Ray, she begins to search for a love that she feels he should and can feel for her. Throughout the novel Lily craves love, love she never felt from her parents. She has finally found the love she sought in Tiburon. After discovering what happened with her parents Lily learned not to judge as much. Lily overall has grown into a more fully engaged
In this passage, Kidd characterized Lily as immature, and a primary trace of this characterization can be spotted at the very beginning of the passage, where Lily questions “How dare she? How dare she leave me? I was her child.” (Kidd 259). The interrogative syntax in this monologue suggests that Lily is still confused as to why her mom left her, even after August spent time explaining it to her.
Lastly, August gives Lily a new perspective on Deborah, her mother. When Lily encounters the three sisters, she lies about who she is out of fear that they would know her mother. One of the sisters, May, confirms this when Lily asks if she knew Deborah. Later on in the story, August has a talk with Lily and reveals that she knows who Lily is. Lily finds out that Deborah did run away, and Lily becomes angry.
And I took her away. ”(Kidd 8) Lily has had a rough start to her life with her father being abusive and neglecting to her and not to mention her shooting and killing her mom on accident. Lily had lost so much, but gained a great deal of parental figures when she and Rosaleen escape off to Tiburon. There they find August Boatwright and Lily’s life changes.
Although Lily is young, she feels that she has the right to make this statement because she has already experienced so much in her life. With that being said, people may judge Lily because of what she says or does but that is because not everyone knows about
He knows she is at the Boatwright house. He knocks on the door and Lily invites him inside. She had told him that she wouldn't come home and he started grabbing her and calling her Deborah. Lily yelled “Daddy” and his eyes went blank and he stopped. He began to tear up and Lily said “No!
She finds herself in a small town called Tiburon in South Carolina, living with August Boatwright who was once her mother’s maid. After staying in Tiburon for a while, Lily calls her father, curious if he knows what her favourite colour is. They only spoke for a short period of